Most stoneless way you ever broke up with her/him - Page 2

John_Locke · 07-17-2006, 07:44 AM

with my daughter's stoneless ex-boyfriend just got to wondering what is the worst you ever did in a break up

Thinking back, I just stopped calling a girl, but we were never serious

I think being a man and a face to face is the best way.

what is the worst you ever did?

BucEyedPea · 07-17-2006, 08:39 AM

Nope. I have not. Just one real bad one.

I was just never interested in it all that much when in my teens.
I've done most of the breaking up 'cause I'm too picky.

And not interested in it now, at least for the time being.

chagrin · 07-17-2006, 08:40 AM

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Originally Posted by BucEyedPea

For a girl it's a bit different as the guy usually is the one who still calls more than the other way around. Just not always.

So if a guy/girl initiates a call to go out, and there is no relationship yet ( say no dates yet or just a few casual non-commital ones) the person receiving the call has to say they are not interested in pursuing anything further.

If a guy asks a girl out and does not want to pursue anything further after one or a few dates ...he need not feel obligated to call again. However, if she calls again he'd have to do say he's no longer interested just as a girl would.I think over the phone is good enough here.

Now if there's been a prolonged period of dating like 6 or 7 months that was more than just casual dating: gifts, rings etc. I think it should be face to face.

That's how I did it at age 16 and early twenties.

Some guys don't take it though. So I had to throw one out of my apartment once and he slept in his car below my window in the parking lot. Another shook me and later stalked me for a few years...only I never knew it until I graduated college when I received a letter at my Mom's house telling me this and all the places I had been. It was all accurate. But he never harmed me. I was 17 at the time.

One a 2nd year of college fiance...wanted to date another chic for awhile ( actually was doing it depsite being engaged). I had a very hard time with that. So I broke it off with him...but he came back 9 months later as he changed his mind about her. In the meantime I lost a lot of weight from depression down to 93 lbs from 113. I cried my eyes out.

You're always the victim, aren't you?

**Iowanian** · 07-17-2006, 08:40 AM

May I suggest a mate with a severe hearing deficiency?

Tatertot13 · 07-17-2006, 08:42 AM

Had a friend do it once. Have also just not answered the phone. . . they get the message after a while.

PastorMikH · 07-17-2006, 08:46 AM

Probably the worst for me was when I tried breaking up with a girl and she wouldn't back off so I showed up to a party she was at with another girl. That pretty much took care of things.

Had another that a friend and I set up. She had a knack for not respecting our relationship and trying to flirt with every guy that would give her the time of day. Buddy calls her up with me on the other line, gets to talking to her and asking her if she was serious about what she'd said previously and such, after 2-3 minutes of talking he says, "Mike, what do you think about all this?" The few choice words I had pretty much ended our relationship.

Mostly though, I'd just start acting like a jerk until they broke up with me.

keg in kc · 07-17-2006, 08:51 AM

I left a ten on the nightstand instead of a twenty and snuck out of the hotel room.

Eleazar · 07-17-2006, 09:07 AM

Email, anyone?

teedubya · 07-17-2006, 09:19 AM

I just send John Lockes daughter a text message when we break up.

**morphius** · 07-17-2006, 09:26 AM

Just waited till the broke up with me. It never seemed to take very long.

sedated · 07-17-2006, 09:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Cochise

Email, anyone?

I got a bunch of shit for sending an Email breakup.

But she had sent an Email to me first saying, "I haven't heard from you in a while. Are we gonna see eachother again?" (or something to that effect)

Seems only natural to respond, "No".

Then she calls me, tells me I'm an immature jerk. There are more respectfull ways of handling it, blah, blah, blah.

...then asks if I wanna come over that night and fuck.

so I did.

(moral of the story: women are crazy)

chagrin · 07-17-2006, 09:35 AM

I would like to break up with someone via the fax machine - that would be really neat...or better yet
have FAX send her a nifty limerick

chagrin · 07-17-2006, 09:36 AM

"Beleive it or not George isn't at home - just leave a message...at the beep"

**Iowanian** · 07-17-2006, 09:38 AM

I don't know that it was stoneless.....

...but I had a friend in HS, who let a psycho know he was no longer interested in seeing her, by taking a dump on the hood of her car.

Now that my friends...is Symbolism.

sedated · 07-17-2006, 09:38 AM

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Originally Posted by chagrin

"Beleive it or not George isn't at home - just leave a message...at the beep"

i must be out, or i'd pick up the phone... where could i be? beleive it or not, i'm not home

sedated · 07-17-2006, 09:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Iowanian

I don't know that it was stoneless.....

...but I had a friend in HS, who let a psycho know he was no longer interested in seeing her, by taking a dump on the hood of her car.

Now that my friends...is Symbolism.

if she was a real psycho she would have kept in in a glass jar and fed it fish food every day.

"at least I've still got you. hungry fella?"

07-17-2006, 07:44 AM
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07-17-2006, 08:39 AM	#16
BucEyedPea Gimme My Berries Back! Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: None of your business Casino cash: $3559963	Nope. I have not. Just one real bad one. I was just never interested in it all that much when in my teens. I've done most of the breaking up 'cause I'm too picky. And not interested in it now, at least for the time being.
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PastorMikH Will KC ever be better? Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: Land of Red Dirt & Necks Casino cash: $9955087	Probably the worst for me was when I tried breaking up with a girl and she wouldn't back off so I showed up to a party she was at with another girl. That pretty much took care of things. Had another that a friend and I set up. She had a knack for not respecting our relationship and trying to flirt with every guy that would give her the time of day. Buddy calls her up with me on the other line, gets to talking to her and asking her if she was serious about what she'd said previously and such, after 2-3 minutes of talking he says, "Mike, what do you think about all this?" The few choice words I had pretty much ended our relationship. Mostly though, I'd just start acting like a jerk until they broke up with me. __________________
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chagrin Giggitty! Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Missoula, Mt Casino cash: $9914905	I would like to break up with someone via the fax machine - that would be really neat...or better yet have FAX send her a nifty limerick __________________ Times have changed, so have I, things are better now.
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chagrin Giggitty! Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Missoula, Mt Casino cash: $9914905	"Beleive it or not George isn't at home - just leave a message...at the beep" __________________ Times have changed, so have I, things are better now.
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Iowanian Supporter Join Date: Aug 2000 Location: Utopia Casino cash: $4818454	I don't know that it was stoneless..... ...but I had a friend in HS, who let a psycho know he was no longer interested in seeing her, by taking a dump on the hood of her car. Now that my friends...is Symbolism.
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