Life Any lawyers here? Need advice on complicated custody dispute

MTG#10 · 08-01-2013, 03:42 PM

Ok here's what's going on:

My ex and I have been divorced for a 2-3 years. We agreed to 50/50 everything with our kids...time with them, decision making, etc. My address is their legal address for mailing and educational purposes. Neither one of us pay child support, and even though the time with them is supposed to be 50/50 its more like 60/40 with me and Ive been keeping a detailed log for the last year.

Ex meets another guy, he joins the army a year later, they get married about 3 months after he joins. He now finds out he's being relocated to a base in Georgia. Ex thinks she is going to move with him and take our kids with her.

Everything the kids need or have ever known are here. Their school they've gone to since they started, me, their entire family on both sides...everything.

Is there anything for me to worry about? I know judges want to do whats best for the kids, so surely no judge would let her uproot and move them to another state without my consent, right? The only thing Im worried about is the military thing, that maybe they'd get special treatment for that...but at the same time, he decided to join after they were together and they both knew her situation with my kids. My lawyer doesn't think I have anything to worry about, but of course he's going to tell me that since he wants my $.

vailpass · 08-01-2013, 03:49 PM

Lawyer the **** up

MTG#10 · 08-01-2013, 03:50 PM

I already have. I want to hear that I don't have anything to worry about from someone that isnt getting paid by me...or if I do have to worry about it I want to know that too.

Chief_For_Life58 · 08-01-2013, 03:50 PM

you have nothing to worry about

**Scorp** · 08-01-2013, 03:51 PM

Really? You haven't had that whore whacked yet? Sad.

MTG#10 · 08-01-2013, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Scorp

Really? You haven't had that whore whacked yet? Sad.

Are you offering?

**Scorp** · 08-01-2013, 03:52 PM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

Are you offering?

vailpass · 08-01-2013, 03:54 PM

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Originally Posted by MTG#10

I already have. I want to hear that I don't have anything to worry about from someone that isnt getting paid by me...or if I do have to worry about it I want to know that too.

Good. Your lawyer should inform you of that. Custody law is a bitch but you have to go within the system. My sincere wishes you prevail.

**BigMeatballDave** · 08-01-2013, 03:57 PM

How old are the children?

KCUnited · 08-01-2013, 03:58 PM

Make the most of the summer vacations you'll get to spend with them.

vailpass · 08-01-2013, 04:00 PM

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Originally Posted by KCUnited

Make the most of the summer vacations you'll get to spend with them.

Depends on what's in his decree, and what his attorney can do.

Hog's Gone Fishin · 08-01-2013, 04:00 PM

I do a little lawyerin after work at the pig farm. Sometimes. perty good with these type matters too. Actually i'm 3 and 3 with 1 tie. Anyway. I'd have to ask you a few questions to see if yer werth takin on.
#1) Have you beeen havin sex with her ?
#2) If the answer to #1 is yes then did you PIHB ?
#3) Did you by any chance take yer kids to that new movie "the conjuring"
#4) Do you feel that killing Osama Been Ladin was the right thing to do.
#5) What is your annual income , before taxes.

I know these questions seem a little wierd but this is the way a scan my clients to see if there worth takin on.

Ace Gunner · 08-01-2013, 04:01 PM

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Originally Posted by vailpass

Lawyer the **** up

this

Ace Gunner · 08-01-2013, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Hog Farmer

I do a little lawyerin after work at the pig farm. Sometimes. perty good with these type matters too. Actually i'm 3 and 3 with 1 tie. Anyway. I'd have to ask you a few questions to see if yer werth takin on.
#1) Have you beeen havin sex with her ?
#2) If the answer to #1 is yes then did you PIHB ?
#3) Did you by any chance take yer kids to that new movie "the conjuring"
#4) Do you feel that killing Osama Been Ladin was the right thing to do.
#5) What is your annual income , before taxes.

I know these questions seem a little wierd but this is the way a scan my clients to see if there worth takin on.

MTG#10 · 08-01-2013, 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by TrueFanDave

How old are the children?

8, 10, and almost 13. My 13 year old (daughter) has already told her if she wins she's not going with her. I don't know if she's old enough to have a say but I dont think her mom would make her go against her will.

08-01-2013, 03:42 PM
MTG#10 Mammoth penis Join Date: May 2006 Location: Springfield Casino cash: $7534386	Any lawyers here? Need advice on complicated custody dispute Ok here's what's going on: My ex and I have been divorced for a 2-3 years. We agreed to 50/50 everything with our kids...time with them, decision making, etc. My address is their legal address for mailing and educational purposes. Neither one of us pay child support, and even though the time with them is supposed to be 50/50 its more like 60/40 with me and Ive been keeping a detailed log for the last year. Ex meets another guy, he joins the army a year later, they get married about 3 months after he joins. He now finds out he's being relocated to a base in Georgia. Ex thinks she is going to move with him and take our kids with her. Everything the kids need or have ever known are here. Their school they've gone to since they started, me, their entire family on both sides...everything. Is there anything for me to worry about? I know judges want to do whats best for the kids, so surely no judge would let her uproot and move them to another state without my consent, right? The only thing Im worried about is the military thing, that maybe they'd get special treatment for that...but at the same time, he decided to join after they were together and they both knew her situation with my kids. My lawyer doesn't think I have anything to worry about, but of course he's going to tell me that since he wants my $.
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Hog's Gone Fishin Fish are scared of me Join Date: Nov 2001 Casino cash: $1730477	I do a little lawyerin after work at the pig farm. Sometimes. perty good with these type matters too. Actually i'm 3 and 3 with 1 tie. Anyway. I'd have to ask you a few questions to see if yer werth takin on. #1) Have you beeen havin sex with her ? #2) If the answer to #1 is yes then did you PIHB ? #3) Did you by any chance take yer kids to that new movie "the conjuring" #4) Do you feel that killing Osama Been Ladin was the right thing to do. #5) What is your annual income , before taxes. I know these questions seem a little wierd but this is the way a scan my clients to see if there worth takin on.
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08-01-2013, 03:50 PM	#3
MTG#10 Mammoth penis Join Date: May 2006 Location: Springfield Casino cash: $7534386	I already have. I want to hear that I don't have anything to worry about from someone that isnt getting paid by me...or if I do have to worry about it I want to know that too.
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