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Old 04-05-2005, 02:18 AM  
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anyone out there? I need to talk

bitch called the 5-0 on me tonight because we were having an argument. since she knows I would never hurt her she told them that I was trying to hurt myself. I got lucky. Cops talked to both of us and called BS and told her that she needed to go somewhere else. when they first showed up they said that they would have to take me to the looney bin for a 96 hour evaluation. luckily the officer was pretty understanding.
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Old 04-05-2005, 02:20 AM   #2
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Old 04-05-2005, 02:20 AM   #3
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Good Lord. Your situation just keeps getting shittier and shittier.

Any luck on finding that new apartment? Sounds like the sooner you get yourself out of that situation the better.
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Old 04-05-2005, 02:22 AM   #4
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sorry about your luck man women suck. just got to go with the flow and forget about that crazy chick
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Old 04-05-2005, 02:22 AM   #5
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Errr, that really sucks. I hate giving marital and relationship advice and such, but from everything I've read I think it would be in your best interest to get as far away from this woman as possible. It's sad that she has just snapped like this...
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Old 04-05-2005, 02:23 AM   #6
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I looked at a few places. Nothing till next month. I'm thinking about moving in with a buddy in Parkville. Everything was very cool earlier. She was extremely kind and nurturing. I went out to watch the game. Came home and asked her to talk as long as she was going to be in the house. She got in my face screaming. I yelled back. I said that I was going to leave and she would never hear from me again. She asked where I was going and I said to get drunk and pass out in a gutter. She decides to call the cops and tell them that I'm going to harm myself.
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Old 04-05-2005, 02:25 AM   #7
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I'm thinking about moving in with a buddy in Parkville.
From the limited information you've posted on here, that sounds like it might be a good idea. At least temporarily until you can find something more permanent. If cops are getting involved, sounds like it's just time to get the **** out of there post haste.
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Old 04-05-2005, 02:26 AM   #8
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From the limited information you've posted on here, that sounds like it might be a good idea. At least temporarily until you can find something more permanent. If cops are getting involved, sounds like it's just time to get the **** out of there post haste.
The cop told me to get my shit out before she messed with it. She actually said this to him when he asked her what was wrong with me, "what's wrong with me? he's perfect. he's caring, loving, just perfect. why did I screw this up?"
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Old 04-05-2005, 02:29 AM   #9
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Obviously I've never been engaged, but I've had my fair share of experiences with nutty broads. All I can say is run. Run fast. Run far. Too bad I'm too stupid to follow my own advice. Friday night I found myself in a hotel room with the craziest female I've ever dated.
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Old 04-05-2005, 02:31 AM   #10
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Obviously I've never been engaged, but I've had my fair share of experiences with nutty broads. All I can say is run. Run fast. Run far. Too bad I'm too stupid to follow my own advice. Friday night I found myself in a hotel room with the craziest female I've ever dated.
It's impossible to stay away from nutty broads. They're all nuts.
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Old 04-05-2005, 02:33 AM   #11
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It's impossible to stay away from nutty broads. They're all nuts.
Yeah, but not all of them have been diagnosed by a doctor as crazy.
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Old 04-05-2005, 02:52 AM   #12
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Run brando get out of the house you don't know what shit she might pull next like hitting you and stuff like that leave and find a good woman.
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Old 04-05-2005, 03:29 AM   #13
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So, she's starting to feel the loss. It happens man. I'm sorry she handles it so badly. When my parents were still together, and I was just a kid, the cops used to come over quite a bit. My Mom is crazy, and my Dad is close. Both were/are alcoholics. It's amazing that I turned out as normal as I did. I think the biggest reason for that is the fact that I decided when I was a little kid that I would NEVER drink. I've kept that promise to myself, and I'm glad I did.


So, just to clarify. Did you give her ANY impression that you might hurt yourself besides the gutter comment? Is there any possibility that she might have honestly been worried about that? Or, do you think she just needed to do something extreme to try and "win?" My mom does that kind of **** when she is losing an argument. She has: Thrown scissors at my Dad (that stuck in the wall), punched a giant pane of glass in a cabinet and cut herself to the bone, written hate poetry on the walls in sharpie, and the last time she did this she actually set herself ON FIRE! That's right, my step-dad and her were arguing, and he said, "I'm done with this conversation, I'm going to bed." Then she said, "No you're not!" and took the grill lighter and lit her clothes and hair on fire. He had to tackle her and put her out, and take her to the emergency room for extreme burns.


I'm only saying all this to illustrate the type of person that makes extreme, rash, illogical, and potentially catastrophic choices in the heat of the moment. These kinds of people do things ON PRINCIPLE, just to show the world how RIGHT they are, even if it makes no real sense at all. If you think that she might have been motivated in a similar way as this, then you should be extra glad that you're getting out of there. She might end up like my mother, and I feel sorry for anybody who has to live with someone like that...
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Old 04-05-2005, 03:30 AM   #14
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The cop told me to get my shit out before she messed with it. She actually said this to him when he asked her what was wrong with me, "what's wrong with me? he's perfect. he's caring, loving, just perfect. why did I screw this up?"


What's the story with her father? Good guy? Absent?

If you want to know why a girl is screwed up, the first place you look is her relationship with her father. Something happened there that makes her want to sabotage her relationships.

You could make it work with her, but it'd take a lot of work, and you'd both need to be in counseling... probably together and alone.

Her calling the cops was a cry for help. She's frustrated that she screwed this thing up and once you left, she lost control of the situation. It doesn't sound like she did it out of spite. Especially given the comment she made to the cop. That was a message intended for you, whether she even realizes it or not. Human communication is a fascinating thing.

She's stuck in a pretty destructive cycle... Probably feels like her life is out of control... Sounds like she's pretty flitty, and just acts on impulse without thinking through the consequences. Not sure what the energy between her and her father is, but I'm sure that it about completes the picture. Sounds like a high maintenance one... Of course they all are...

If she hasn't slept with the dude yet, and you care enough to swallow some pride, I'm telling ya... You can make it work. But the question is whether SHE is willing to do the work to make it work. She needs a therapist to work out why she is so self destructive. And to do that, she needs to come to grips with the fact that there is something wrong upstairs that might need adjusted. And even then... Just like Alcoholics... Once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic.

Personally, I think I'd bail. Thank God I didn't take my Interpersonal Communication Theory classes until after I was in a long term relationship with a girl who didn't need rescued from herself or I might have ended up with a real project on my hands.
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Old 04-05-2005, 03:31 AM   #15
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