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04-17-2005, 11:54 AM | #2 |
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waxing so profound so early in the day?
(well, it's early for me, i slept in with my slight hangover...) what, do you expect us to read this long post? who do you think you are, ringleader? |
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04-17-2005, 11:56 AM | #3 | |
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Naw, it was just a topic at the lunch table and one in which even my 12 year old has experienced. I just thought it was hilarious that I still experience that same emotion after 28 years.
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04-17-2005, 12:04 PM | #4 |
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interesting subject, that "happiness." I've a whole philosophy about emotions and happiness is a big one. One day I'll write a book about it. For now I'll just say that it's important to make a distinction between "Happiness" and "Joy." The other part of my philosophy deals with how people often times attribute what is actually "joy" to being "happy" and what is actually "happy" to being in "love."
As for buyer's remorse and diminished returns, I see diminished returns in everything in life. If I decide that I'm going to moderately exercise, then I'll improve my life tremendously, but once I'm an exerciser, it takes a whole crap load more work to become what is considered and "athlete." Another great example (from the guitar store I used to work at). A crappy guitar costs $100.00. A Pretty decent guitar costs $300.00. A great guitar costs about $1,000.00. A really awesome guitar costs $3,000.00. Then to get one just a little bit better, you have to spend TENS of thousands of dollars. |
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04-17-2005, 12:06 PM | #5 |
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that law was in effect today at pizza hut's buffet. I ate one slice it was awesome. The next was good, not as good as the first, the next was alright i was getting full. The next one was just about the same. Then i got to the point where i was so full i gained no pleasure eating another slice. Then i ate one more and it was downright painful
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maybe... but lucky... when you get older, a lot of the good things begin to fade from memory... well, at least that's the way it has worked for me... of course, the good part of that is that the bad things are fading too... as far as your topic is concerned, yeah... when i was making the big bucks and had "nice" things (during my second marriage), i was constantly disappointed that those things never seemed to make me happy, they just took up more and more room... hell, lots of the toys i bought i never played with because i was too busy making more money so i could buy more things i couldn't really use... i hadn't learned anything from my experience at yale with sad, disturbed and deeply disappointed rich kids who expected their wealth to make them happy... but once i gave up the material thing and moved to missouri (and married my current wife who is just happy being with me and doesn't need or want "stuff" to be happy), i began to enjoy the little things in life... i guess i reverted to my hippy refugee undergraduate days when material things did not hold much sway in life... but whether it was a reversion or not, i have never been so happy as i have been with this woman for over 25 years now... despite financial difficuties arising from my forced early retirement, we are as happy as we have ever been... even less "stuff", but more appreciation of the time we have in this life... overall, life has been berry berry good to me... *edit* yes, this is relevant to wolfie's question about dimishing returns... the more stuff i acquired when i was wealthier, the less happy i became (because more stuff doesn't make you happy and that disappointment leads to more unhappiness)... |
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04-17-2005, 12:09 PM | #7 |
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One thing that i think sucks is having a nice boat. They are expensive, take so long to get ready for the day then you only get like 5 hours to go out and run them. Then you pack it up and spend another 2 hours cleaning it and go back to work monday exhausted
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04-17-2005, 12:21 PM | #8 |
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That first shapely young lass sure wasn't everything Bob Dole had dreamed of...
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That's why you go for the old, run-down boat. You haul it to the lake - you don't bother cleaning on it because it really wouldn't help the looks that much. You run it all day long. Then, put it on the trailer and take it home - you don't bother cleaning it up because, after all day in the water, a lot of the dirt that was on it when you started off has washed away so it's actually cleaner now. Then you go to work monday with a bad sunburn because you spent ALL day in the sun.
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2nd happiest day in your life? - the day you buy your boat. Happiest day in your life? - the day you sell your boat.
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