Online flirting - Page 13

Clint in Wichita · 03:25 PM

Is online flirting, when you know your S.O. disapproves, OK because you "are only flirting online and not in the real world"?

My opinion (surprise, surprise) is that it's not OK, period. It's said to be OK because it's not face-to-face, and online it's just fun and games.

I call bullsh!t. People meet online friends in person all the time. They even meet their future spouses online. The "it's only online" argument is bogus.

I would also imagine that many of those who feel it's OK would be less than eager to have their own S.O.s discover their activity.

Thoughts?

**Mr. Kotter** · 01-23-2006, 05:59 PM

If on-line "flirting" is defined as playful banter not INTENDED to lead to anything in real life, then you are being overly sensitive about it, IMHO.

On the other hand, if there is the slightest possibility of a willingness to exchange phone numbers, or to "meet" for almost any reason in real life, in anything but a highly public environment, then it crosses the line in my mind. JMHO.

Katipan · 01-23-2006, 06:00 PM

ENDelt260 · 01-23-2006, 06:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bowser

Please don't tell us about Tom's hairy dick.

No need to. Give him a few beers and he'll whip it out in the middle of the bar. I've seen him do it.

Mecca · 01-23-2006, 06:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr. Kotter

If on-line "flirting" is defined as playful banter not INTENDED to lead to anything in real life, then you are being overly sensitive about it, IMHO.

On the other hand, if there is the slightest possibility of a willingness to exchange phone numbers, or to "meet" for any reason (even a Chief's weekend) then it crosses the line in my mind. JMHO.

If that's the case some womans husband is going to attempt to beat my ass 1 day........

RedNFeisty · 01-23-2006, 06:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bowser

Please don't tell us about Tom's hairy dick.

Why not, I can tell you in such graphic details!?!

Katipan · 01-23-2006, 06:01 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ENDelt260

No need to. Give him a few beers and he'll whip it out in the middle of the bar. I've seen him do it.

GRRRRR

**Mr. Kotter** · 01-23-2006, 06:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mecca

If that's the case some womans husband is going to attempt to beat my ass 1 day........

I edited it to say, in any situation that is not "highly public"....so it depends....heh.

ENDelt260 · 01-23-2006, 06:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RedNFeisty

Why not, I can tell you in such graphic details!?!

You ****ed Tom, too? Jebus that guy gets around.

OldTownChief · 01-23-2006, 06:02 PM

I've met some of my best bitches on Chief's weekends.

Katipan · 01-23-2006, 06:02 PM

my oops post was a lot funnier before the edit

**jAZ** · 01-23-2006, 06:02 PM

If you have a healty, committed relationship and clear personal boundries, basic flirting is ok both on and offline.

My wife has several times said that she caught me flirting (it wasn't even dliberate on my part), and she thought it was "cute".

I would never cheat on my wife, and I wouldn't ever even consider doing anything like Online-"sex". However simple flirting isn't a problem.

I recognize that this isn't true for lots of people, but I think as I said that this has more to do with their lack of clear boundries and a strong commitment to this existing relationship.

Hell, there's plenty of that going on here on the net with the few female posters we have here. I thin Phil (under the watchful eye of Pink) was the biggest flirt on the net. That says a lot about their relationship, IMO.

**Mr. Kotter** · 01-23-2006, 06:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RedNFeisty

....Damn it mother****er, get it straight, I only want GO BO. The thought of rubbing baby oil all over his body just gives me chills and makes me rather wet.

....

Then all your promises and exhortations were merely a heat of the passion thing?!

Damn. I feel used.

ENDelt260 · 01-23-2006, 06:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mr. Kotter

I edited it to say, in any situation that is not "highly public"....so it depends....heh.

The first time I met Mer in real life was at her house.

**Mr. Kotter** · 01-23-2006, 06:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ENDelt260

You ****ed Tom, too? Jebus that guy gets around.

"too?"

I didn't think Tom was your type.

Taco John · 01-23-2006, 06:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by RedNFeisty

Why not, I can tell you in such graphic details!?!

Hey Sexy.... How you doin'?

01-23-2006, 10:07 AM
Clint in Wichita Veteran Join Date: Aug 2000 Casino cash: $250	Online flirting Is online flirting, when you know your S.O. disapproves, OK because you "are only flirting online and not in the real world"? My opinion (surprise, surprise) is that it's not OK, period. It's said to be OK because it's not face-to-face, and online it's just fun and games. I call bullsh!t. People meet online friends in person all the time. They even meet their future spouses online. The "it's only online" argument is bogus. I would also imagine that many of those who feel it's OK would be less than eager to have their own S.O.s discover their activity. Thoughts? Last edited by Clint in Wichita; 01-23-2006 at 03:25 PM..
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