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Old 01-23-2006, 10:07 AM  
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Online flirting

Is online flirting, when you know your S.O. disapproves, OK because you "are only flirting online and not in the real world"?

My opinion (surprise, surprise) is that it's not OK, period. It's said to be OK because it's not face-to-face, and online it's just fun and games.

I call bull****. People meet online friends in person all the time. They even meet their future spouses online. The "it's only online" argument is bogus.

I would also imagine that many of those who feel it's OK would be less than eager to have their own S.O.s discover their activity.

Thoughts?

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Old 01-23-2006, 05:59 PM   #181
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If on-line "flirting" is defined as playful banter not INTENDED to lead to anything in real life, then you are being overly sensitive about it, IMHO.

On the other hand, if there is the slightest possibility of a willingness to exchange phone numbers, or to "meet" for almost any reason in real life, in anything but a highly public environment, then it crosses the line in my mind. JMHO.
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Old 01-23-2006, 06:00 PM   #182
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Old 01-23-2006, 06:00 PM   #183
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Old 01-23-2006, 06:00 PM   #184
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If on-line "flirting" is defined as playful banter not INTENDED to lead to anything in real life, then you are being overly sensitive about it, IMHO.

On the other hand, if there is the slightest possibility of a willingness to exchange phone numbers, or to "meet" for any reason (even a Chief's weekend) then it crosses the line in my mind. JMHO.
If that's the case some womans husband is going to attempt to beat my ass 1 day........
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Old 01-23-2006, 06:01 PM   #185
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Why not, I can tell you in such graphic details!?!
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No need to. Give him a few beers and he'll whip it out in the middle of the bar. I've seen him do it.
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Old 01-23-2006, 06:02 PM   #187
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If that's the case some womans husband is going to attempt to beat my ass 1 day........
I edited it to say, in any situation that is not "highly public"....so it depends....heh.
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Old 01-23-2006, 06:02 PM   #188
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You ****ed Tom, too? Jebus that guy gets around.
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Old 01-23-2006, 06:02 PM   #189
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Old 01-23-2006, 06:02 PM   #191
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If you have a healty, committed relationship and clear personal boundries, basic flirting is ok both on and offline.

My wife has several times said that she caught me flirting (it wasn't even dliberate on my part), and she thought it was "cute".

I would never cheat on my wife, and I wouldn't ever even consider doing anything like Online-"sex". However simple flirting isn't a problem.

I recognize that this isn't true for lots of people, but I think as I said that this has more to do with their lack of clear boundries and a strong commitment to this existing relationship.

Hell, there's plenty of that going on here on the net with the few female posters we have here. I thin Phil (under the watchful eye of Pink) was the biggest flirt on the net. That says a lot about their relationship, IMO.
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....Damn it mother****er, get it straight, I only want GO BO. The thought of rubbing baby oil all over his body just gives me chills and makes me rather wet. ....
Then all your promises and exhortations were merely a heat of the passion thing?!

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I edited it to say, in any situation that is not "highly public"....so it depends....heh.
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"too?"

I didn't think Tom was your type.
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