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Old 03-02-2010, 03:29 PM  
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S.O. wearing ex's jewelry?

So I was curious about this. Do you think it's ok for your significant other to wear jewelry or clothing articles from their previous significant others? My girlfriend has a few very minor jewlery pieces that she has from past relationships. I don't really care that much, except for a necklace she has from a previous boyfriend that I really don't like, but it's an annoyance that I can deal with. Is there some form of etiquette on this topic? If she had a ton of it, then I would probably be a little more annoyed. I'm sure a lot of you have had similar issues, just curious if it bothered you or not.
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Old 03-03-2010, 07:22 AM   #61
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I'd draw the line at wedding rings or engagement rings.

Other than that, the key is the symbolism. Does she just think it's a necklace, or does she think it's a reminder of the deep and abiding love she once had for Percival or Chauncey or whatever his name is?
It's of no deep love or anything like that, they dated a couple years ago, and she was very young at the time. It was a bit of an ugly break between the two of them.

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This. Maybe it's just a nice necklace. There's no reason to make her take it of if she really just likes the necklace. I doubt she's holding onto it because every time she puts it on she thinks of him.
Hell, I still have a jacket that my ex got me and I like the jacket. I don't even think of her anymore when I put it on. I'd be more than a little pissed if my GF wanted me to get rid of it.
Good point, she brought it up, and then asked me if I didn't want her to wear it, and I didn't make a big deal. I figured to play this one on the DL, because I thought it wasn't a big deal, and didn't want to make a mountain out of a mole hill either.

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It's a piece of jewelry. Who ****ing cares. Would you have known otherwise had she not told you it was from a previous BF?
No I wouldn't have known, good point.
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Old 03-03-2010, 07:24 AM   #62
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but anything he gives you, he "picked out for you".


I guess this sheds some light on why women love cards so much. I see it as an overpriced generic peice of cardstock; she apparently goes the next 2 days with a mental gif of me wandering the isles of hallmark trying to find the perfect card just for her.
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Old 03-03-2010, 07:25 AM   #63
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Christ, be a ****ing man. Who gives a shit?
Do you even have a girlfriend?
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Old 03-03-2010, 07:30 AM   #64
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I wish I could work out a deal where her ex would keep buying her jewelry so I wouldn't have to.
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Old 03-03-2010, 07:31 AM   #65
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Did she make a point of it that specific jewelry was from an ex?
No she didn't.

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Is your girlfriend still wearing the pearl necklace I gave her last week? You'd think she would have washed that off by now.
Hah, you wouldn't stand a chance with this girl. Let's say there is conservative, and then there is her and I, lol.

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Man up and tell her you don't care where it came from, it looks beautiful on her and that's all that matters. She'll respect you for that. Any other action, and you'll come off as insecure. You can't prevent her from having memories of another guy.

It's just stuff.
Yeah I thought the same thing, and that's how I repsonded when she said something about it. I told her I didn't care, and it looked nice on her. You've posted some solid stuff in this thread so far, thanks dude
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Old 03-03-2010, 07:37 AM   #66
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Maybe it's not sentimental to her at all and it's just a nice necklace. A lot of times stuff is just stuff man.

Consider this... if your previous girl bought you a 360 or PS3 wouldn't you be using it? And if so wouldn't you be pissed if your present girl had a problem with you using it?
Touche, interesting point.
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Old 03-03-2010, 07:45 AM   #67
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My wife wears an ankle bracelet her ex gave her. I assume it's 'cause she likes ankle bracelets. If it bugged me, I'd buy her one--maybe even the exact one--and say, "Here, wear this one," LOL.

Really, though. It probably doesn't mean anything. And, frankly, if it does... so what?

Why do people assume that, once a relationship ends, you have to chuck out all the good feelings you had during that relationship? If it was a loving, deep, and meaningful relationship, and meant something to her, and didn't end crappily, let her keep her little memento. Is there a rule that says, "While in a relationship, you must love the person, but as soon as it ends you must exorcise them from your memory"? That's kinda shitty. I mean, look, she married YOU, and isn't f**king HIM any more, so what more do you want? Why do people act like being in a relationship must be a mutually-exclusive deal, where every ounce of warmth and affection--past, present, and future--must be directed at the other person?

A piece of jewelry is no different from a photograph, a music album, or some other trinket. It's just a reminder of a happy time. It doesn't mean it's a reminder of a happIER time or a BETTER time.

I have a few rings I no longer wear, and six pieces of jewelry I currently wear. Most was purchased by me, a few weren't. But the only thing I wear that my wife gave me is my wedding ring. Which I think is probably the most important piece. (Although I bought that f**ker too, LOL...)
Two days ago, I was trying to tell my 7th grade daughter about how 7th grade boys, like her first ever boyfriend, don't really know what love is even if they use the word. She got irritated with me and said, "Stop it dad! Mom and I don't really agree with your definition of 'love'!" I said what do you mean? And she said, "Mom and I think you can love more than one person." WTF?

What she was trying to say is that she and her mother think you can love someone and then at some point down the road love someone else, but it was funny when she said it. Of course, that didn't really have much to do with the point I was trying to get across so my efforts were a complete failure, but I'll keep trying to teach her what I know about the vulgar and dangerous ideas that float around in the minds of boys of all ages.
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Old 03-03-2010, 09:09 AM   #68
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unless it's a mold of his penis, I don't think you have to worry. about it too much.
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I may have left some on her body. Is that bad?
Hmmm....what are the chances Pink will find it there?

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Why do people assume that, once a relationship ends, you have to chuck out all the good feelings you had during that relationship? If it was a loving, deep, and meaningful relationship, and meant something to her, and didn't end crappily, let her keep her little memento. Is there a rule that says, "While in a relationship, you must love the person, but as soon as it ends you must exorcise them from your memory"? That's kinda shitty.
Maybe it's shitty, but it works.
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Old 01-15-2013, 10:10 AM   #71
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I think its disrespectful of a girlfriend to wear an exs jewelry and tell you where it came from
If your gonna wear something you don't bring it up. Also she should never tell you how much anything costs.
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Old 01-15-2013, 10:12 AM   #72
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where are these idiots coming from?
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Old 01-15-2013, 10:13 AM   #73
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It's all just "stuff" anyway - who cares? Let her wear it. You have HER...
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Old 01-15-2013, 10:22 AM   #74
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Wear a pair of your ex girlfriend's panties on your head.

When she brings it up, then your conversation has begun.


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This is why some things aren't really worth discussing because I don't really want or need to know.
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Old 01-15-2013, 10:26 AM   #75
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