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Old 12-24-2012, 12:52 AM  
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Should I confront my fiance over text messages I found?

I guarantee this thread isn't going to be about what the thread title might have led you to think it's about. Sorry about that...

Anyway -- was reading text messages on my fiance's cell phone (Yes, I do that, I'm a privacy invader...but past relationships have led me to be a little paranoid).

I read texts between her and her sister and mom, basically trashing my family, which is who we're spending Christmas Eve with. It wasn't just like your usual, "not really looking forward to going to the in-laws", but it was actually pretty vicious stuff. She was trashing my mom's cooking, basically saying she doesn't like my mom at all (my family has been AMAZING to her)..complaining that all we do is "sit around and talk with a sports game on the TV), trashing my parents house, my sister and her "annoying kid". It was really nasty stuff and a side of her I haven't really seen before.

Question is -- do I confront her? This is all that's gonna be on my mind tomorrow, but confronting her means I have to admit to reading her text messages. I don't know how I can move forward knowing she's been talking all this shit about my family though.
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Old 12-24-2012, 12:54 PM   #256
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2nd hand and one sided, so yeah we don't really know.

Probably they should both communicate more honestly, but then they wouldn't be having this problem.
Very true.
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Old 12-24-2012, 12:54 PM   #257
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My finance can go through my phone and emails it doesn't bother me at all. I can also do the same. Not a big deal really.
Big difference between what you just described and snooping.
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Old 12-24-2012, 12:56 PM   #258
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Old 12-24-2012, 12:56 PM   #259
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You seemed pretty confident when you said "She said considerably more than that" so I just figured you read them. My bad.
No problem.

It's the inherent issue with discussing these types of topics on a message board. We are getting ONE persons 2nd hand account of the actual story.
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Old 12-24-2012, 12:57 PM   #260
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I didn't read the whole thread, but please, make sure you hit that shit one more time before you leave her for good.
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Old 12-24-2012, 12:57 PM   #261
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Not sure. Just a google image result for Al Borland.
Dude wears the shit out of some flannel.

What a stud.
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Old 12-24-2012, 12:58 PM   #262
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Why? Have you never had a person in your life that you could tell something to in confidence?

I feel sorry for the people that live these lives. It must be sad having every relationship be a ticking timebomb.
Yeah....that's my wife. That's why my marriage has lasted 28 years.

And you don't seriously think the sister will keep all of this quiet do you? Seriously?
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Old 12-24-2012, 12:58 PM   #263
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No problem.

It's the inherent issue with discussing these types of topics on a message board. We are getting ONE persons 2nd hand account of the actual story.
Even this one sided story isn't that lopsided.

The quotes we have are a non-issue.

The whole snooping on your fiance, however...

OP clearly doesn't need to be in a relationship.
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Old 12-24-2012, 12:58 PM   #264
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**** her then dump the bitch. fake whore..


jk that wasnt nice.

Confront her...thats pretty much BS what she is sayin
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Old 12-24-2012, 01:00 PM   #265
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Dude wears the shit out of some flannel.

What a stud.

Meh. He really needs to mix in a flannel shirt.
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Old 12-24-2012, 01:00 PM   #266
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Yeah....that's my wife. That's why my marriage has lasted 28 years.

And you don't seriously think the sister will keep all of this quiet do you? Seriously?
I don't know the sister. You seem to be suggesting its a sure thing, so I assume you do know her.
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Old 12-24-2012, 01:01 PM   #267
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Meh. He really needs to mix in a flannel shirt.
Or some antlers.
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Old 12-24-2012, 01:01 PM   #268
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Or some antlers.
Antlers would go well with that outfit.
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Old 12-24-2012, 01:01 PM   #269
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Even this one sided story isn't that lopsided.

The quotes we have are a non-issue.

The whole snooping on your fiance, however...

OP clearly doesn't need to be in a relationship.
Yeah, they are an issue. Successful marriages have a few basic building blocks, some of which are missing in the OP.
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Antlers would go well with that outfit.
As long as he was bald.


And old.


I agree.
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