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Old 12-24-2012, 12:52 AM  
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Should I confront my fiance over text messages I found?

I guarantee this thread isn't going to be about what the thread title might have led you to think it's about. Sorry about that...

Anyway -- was reading text messages on my fiance's cell phone (Yes, I do that, I'm a privacy invader...but past relationships have led me to be a little paranoid).

I read texts between her and her sister and mom, basically trashing my family, which is who we're spending Christmas Eve with. It wasn't just like your usual, "not really looking forward to going to the in-laws", but it was actually pretty vicious stuff. She was trashing my mom's cooking, basically saying she doesn't like my mom at all (my family has been AMAZING to her)..complaining that all we do is "sit around and talk with a sports game on the TV), trashing my parents house, my sister and her "annoying kid". It was really nasty stuff and a side of her I haven't really seen before.

Question is -- do I confront her? This is all that's gonna be on my mind tomorrow, but confronting her means I have to admit to reading her text messages. I don't know how I can move forward knowing she's been talking all this shit about my family though.
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Old 12-24-2012, 03:45 PM   #346
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POS move going through her phone, hell that is worse than anything she did IMO.
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Old 12-24-2012, 03:56 PM   #347
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Why were you reading her txt messages, are you both in high school?
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Old 12-24-2012, 04:10 PM   #348
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just dump this bitch....find yourself a nice alcoholic chick in the smoking section at next seasons home opener
If she smokes she pokes.
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Old 12-24-2012, 04:22 PM   #349
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Old 12-24-2012, 04:31 PM   #350
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Why were you reading her txt messages, are you both in high school?
whatya dang text message anyhow? damn kids these days
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Old 12-24-2012, 04:36 PM   #351
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POS move going through her phone, hell that is worse than anything she did IMO.
Agree. I think reading texts behind her back is even worse. Talk about untrustworthy
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Old 12-24-2012, 04:37 PM   #352
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whatya dang text message anyhow? damn kids these days
Lotta dumbshits in here, but I think you take the cake. Your jokes aren't even funny man.
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Old 12-24-2012, 04:42 PM   #353
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Next time instead of reading her text send one to her mom.

"Mom, Jim ****ed Molly and she thinks she is pregnant. Then I got mad and ****ed cousin Max. Mom I don't think I will be able to live with myself."

"I loved him and I can't share his anaconda with that little bitch Mom. She has ****ed everyone I have ever dated. I hate her mom."
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Old 12-24-2012, 04:59 PM   #354
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POS move going through her phone, hell that is worse than anything she did IMO.
Huh?

How is this a POS move?
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Old 12-24-2012, 05:04 PM   #355
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Why were you reading her txt messages, are you both in high school?
Nothing wrong with it, IMO.

He's planning on marrying this chick.

I'd say it's a good idea. I'd have zero problems with a woman of mine reading my text messages.

Also, I'd be smart enough to delete anything I wouldn't want her to read.

My biggest problem with this is why she felt she needed to lie about her feelings about his family.
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Old 12-24-2012, 05:05 PM   #356
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POS move going through her phone, hell that is worse than anything she did IMO.
Ya it's much better to not trust her and then have kids and divorce 4 years later...ya that's the ticket.
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Old 12-24-2012, 05:29 PM   #357
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Lotta dumbshits in here, but I think you take the cake. Your jokes aren't even funny man.
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Old 12-24-2012, 05:33 PM   #358
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Bring it up in a way thats non accusatory. For instance on the way home say something to the effect of I appreciate that you keep your cool around my family since its obvious they irritate you with moms cooking and my sisters rowdy kid. That will take her aback for a few seconds while she try's to figure out how you were aware. Watch her reaction. You have a 50-50 chance of her admitting to it or doubling down on the lie. React accordingly. Don't admit to anything about reading the text if she swears she doesn't feel that way. There is no use bringing it up at that point anyway
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