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Old 12-24-2012, 12:52 AM  
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Should I confront my fiance over text messages I found?

I guarantee this thread isn't going to be about what the thread title might have led you to think it's about. Sorry about that...

Anyway -- was reading text messages on my fiance's cell phone (Yes, I do that, I'm a privacy invader...but past relationships have led me to be a little paranoid).

I read texts between her and her sister and mom, basically trashing my family, which is who we're spending Christmas Eve with. It wasn't just like your usual, "not really looking forward to going to the in-laws", but it was actually pretty vicious stuff. She was trashing my mom's cooking, basically saying she doesn't like my mom at all (my family has been AMAZING to her)..complaining that all we do is "sit around and talk with a sports game on the TV), trashing my parents house, my sister and her "annoying kid". It was really nasty stuff and a side of her I haven't really seen before.

Question is -- do I confront her? This is all that's gonna be on my mind tomorrow, but confronting her means I have to admit to reading her text messages. I don't know how I can move forward knowing she's been talking all this shit about my family though.
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Old 12-25-2012, 03:17 AM   #436
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Old 12-25-2012, 03:29 AM   #437
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Old 12-25-2012, 06:54 AM   #438
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Old 12-25-2012, 10:44 AM   #439
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Wait till she falls asleep on the couch. Then start working one out and when your about to blow go blast it across her face. Then when she starts her shit just say.
"kind of came out of nowhere just like those ****ing text about my family I snooped and found. Bitch."
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Old 12-25-2012, 10:46 AM   #440
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Old 12-25-2012, 12:17 PM   #441
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Wait till she falls asleep on the couch. Then start working one out and when your about to blow go blast it across her face. Then when she starts her shit just say.
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Old 12-25-2012, 12:46 PM   #442
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Old 12-25-2012, 08:03 PM   #443
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Old 12-25-2012, 10:13 PM   #444
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Dude, you've been a whirling dervish of funny this entire thread.

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Old 12-29-2012, 03:56 PM   #445
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Wait until after Christmas then break it off. Immediately thereafter, find a psychiatrist because snooping into your fiance's private communications is not healthy. Neither is it normal. If you don't completely and entirely trust the person with whom you are planning to spend the rest of your freaking entire life, you are with the wrong person and your "trust issues" need some work, man.

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Old 12-29-2012, 03:58 PM   #446
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Old 12-29-2012, 07:15 PM   #447
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If you confront her, just realize the relationship might never be the same. She will pull the trust card on you for checking her texts. If you can outweigh the pros over the cons between you two, I would just move on from it.
Well to be honest a smart friend told me once that as soon as one of the two in the couple snoops on texts or emails the relationship is over.
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Old 12-29-2012, 07:22 PM   #448
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I guarantee this thread isn't going to be about what the thread title might have led you to think it's about. Sorry about that...

Anyway -- was reading text messages on my fiance's cell phone (Yes, I do that, I'm a privacy invader...but past relationships have led me to be a little paranoid).

I read texts between her and her sister and mom, basically trashing my family, which is who we're spending Christmas Eve with. It wasn't just like your usual, "not really looking forward to going to the in-laws", but it was actually pretty vicious stuff. She was trashing my mom's cooking, basically saying she doesn't like my mom at all (my family has been AMAZING to her)..complaining that all we do is "sit around and talk with a sports game on the TV), trashing my parents house, my sister and her "annoying kid". It was really nasty stuff and a side of her I haven't really seen before.

Question is -- do I confront her? This is all that's gonna be on my mind tomorrow, but confronting her means I have to admit to reading her text messages. I don't know how I can move forward knowing she's been talking all this shit about my family though.
ask her flat out what she's texting about and see what she says. Tell her it's important to know the truth.
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Old 12-29-2012, 07:25 PM   #449
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Old 12-29-2012, 07:50 PM   #450
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