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View Poll Results: Did you seek father's permission/blessing?
Yes, it is a tradition I wanted to keep 42 27.10%
Yes, it is a tradition I knew spouse's family wanted to keep 19 12.26%
No 78 50.32%
I've never proposed 16 10.32%
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Old 01-16-2013, 09:43 AM  
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Married members: Did you seek permission/blessing?

Just wondering what the practice/custom is.
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Old 01-16-2013, 07:26 PM   #151
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My wife told me for our entire courtship that it was very important to her father that I ask his permission. When the time came I took him to a Redskins / Giants game (he's a G-Man fan) and had a long chat with him about her and my relationship, my career an life aspirations and told him I wanted his daughter to be by my side for the rest of my life. I then asked for his blessing to ask her to marry me and he said, "What the **** do I care? It's your life and her decision." He then said, "This year I will be married 30 years. If I committed murder, I'd be out by now."
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Old 01-16-2013, 07:42 PM   #152
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Ah, so you have some kind of wild, exotic lady love do ya
Heh no, she grew up in the states with her parents, but the parents split and both ended up moving to different counties. It's not all bad.
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Old 01-16-2013, 07:43 PM   #153
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Old 01-16-2013, 07:53 PM   #154
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Recently engaged. And yes. I knew what the answer was going to be; but just wanted to give her old man a respectful nod.

Even if he would have said 'no' it wouldn't have changed a thing.
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Old 01-16-2013, 07:57 PM   #155
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Yes. I was required to ask permission. My wife is from a very traditional, patriarchal, Mexican family. I would not have asked otherwise.
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Old 01-16-2013, 08:16 PM   #156
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Really, if you future wife loves her father and you have some sort of respect for him; what does it hurt to make him feel like his opinion is important to you?

Saying, it's just old fashioned and I don't NEED validation isn't a worthy reason in my mind. He very well knows that his opinion isn't going to be the end-all on the matter; but I guarantee if you have to see that guy for the next couple of decades you'll probably wish you just threw him a bone. It's not every day some dude comes calling for the woman he raised for the last 20 years.
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Old 01-16-2013, 08:21 PM   #157
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Yes.....and after she said 'yes'.....and I told her I had a chat with her mother/father a few weeks back....

It was one of the first things she mentioned....as it "meant the world" to her that I did it.

It's a respect thing.
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Old 01-16-2013, 08:30 PM   #158
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My wife is from Poland and her parents are still in Poland and don't speak a lick of english so **** them. I just took her.
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I would have asked otherwise. It's the right thing to do...
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Old 01-16-2013, 08:44 PM   #159
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Really, if you future wife loves her father and you have some sort of respect for him; what does it hurt to make him feel like his opinion is important to you?

Saying, it's just old fashioned and I don't NEED validation isn't a worthy reason in my mind. He very well knows that his opinion isn't going to be the end-all on the matter; but I guarantee if you have to see that guy for the next couple of decades you'll probably wish you just threw him a bone. It's not every day some dude comes calling for the woman he raised for the last 20 years.
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Old 01-17-2013, 12:02 AM   #160
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My wife told me for our entire courtship that it was very important to her father that I ask his permission. When the time came I took him to a Redskins / Giants game (he's a G-Man fan) and had a long chat with him about her and my relationship, my career an life aspirations and told him I wanted his daughter to be by my side for the rest of my life. I then asked for his blessing to ask her to marry me and he said, "What the **** do I care? It's your life and her decision." He then said, "This year I will be married 30 years. If I committed murder, I'd be out by now."
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Old 01-17-2013, 12:11 AM   #161
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I was 33 and my wife was 35 when we got married. I'm not going to ask a grown woman's father permission to marry her.
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Old 01-17-2013, 02:03 AM   #162
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Old 01-17-2013, 02:07 AM   #163
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For those that asked, what would you have done if her father had said no? I would have said too bad, bitch.
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Old 01-17-2013, 02:30 AM   #164
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Old 01-17-2013, 05:17 AM   #165
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Only read half the thread....but what if u have both already been married and divorced to other people so this is both of yours 2nd marriage...since im not the first to ask, do I need to ask? My current sirustion.
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