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Old 03-03-2013, 11:50 AM  
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Old 04-10-2013, 09:07 PM   #706
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Well, buck made a good point earlier, atleast I went into it with honesty. Drunk Joey is horrifically blatantly honest. Tipsy Joey wonders if you and Gonzo have every tried oral sex with ice cubes.

Anyways, with the girl, I ended up getting way too emotional.
WTF?

As for the other stuff... you were "too emotional"? I'm not sure what that means. Care to elaborate?
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Old 04-10-2013, 09:10 PM   #707
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WTF?

As for the other stuff... you were "too emotional"? I'm not sure what that means. Care to elaborate?
He cared too much?
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Old 04-10-2013, 09:16 PM   #708
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He cared too much?
Obviously. But why would that screw up things with her? Unless, maybe she can't be with a man that shows his sensitive side?
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Old 04-10-2013, 09:25 PM   #709
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Sounds like he was drunk, started telling her how he felt, then went into how every other girl has ****ed him over, all the while crying...

She ran away I'm betting.

Dude take lump's advice. Don't talk serious shit drunk.
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Old 04-10-2013, 09:26 PM   #710
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Obviously. But why would that screw up things with her? Unless, maybe she can't be with a man that shows his sensitive side?
Because I'm going to guess that being easily available isn't a turn on to a lot of people?
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Old 04-10-2013, 09:38 PM   #711
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Sounds like he was drunk, started telling her how he felt, then went into how every other girl has ****ed him over, all the while crying...

She ran away I'm betting.

Dude take lump's advice. Don't talk serious shit drunk.
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That was my guess. Either that or he was crying with an ice tray in his hand and it freaked her the hell out.
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Old 04-10-2013, 11:20 PM   #712
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No, I never bring up my old relationships.

Lumpy, honestly looking back at it I don't see why I ended up acting like I did. I was pretty far drunk when she texted me and I told her I had something to tell you and then finally I asked her my question.





The thing is, when I first posted about this on chiefs planet I was pretty sure that she wanted a relationship and I didn't want one. I had the same attitude when I started drinking.

Around the 1151 text is when sloppy confused smiling drunk Joey became whiny little depressed Pity me Bitch Joey. My mind suddenly switched from not wanting a relationship to wanting one and I was offended she didn't. I started being a Dick to everyone around me and I got in my feelings on Facebook saying how said I was and that she didn't like me. Pretty sure she saw those before I deleted them in the morning.

So I dunno what to do.

that one embarrassing text conversation followed by a short embarrassing phone conversation where I called then wouldn't talk and just sounded moody current change the fact we still like hanging out, right?

For some reason I feel like it does. today the only thing she said about it was yes she thought she got too deep... confuses me more because I thought I was the one that got to 'deep'.

Today was the second day in a row where we didn't see other, and before this we hadn't missed a single day since she messaged me on fb four weeks ago (we hadn't talked since October because she was trying to make things work with her kids dad.) Then she called me late and there was lots of awkward silence then we said weed see each other tomorrow.

Then this text




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So there's the run down so can i get opinions as to wtf is going on? I'm lost. Is this going to be awkward now? Back to normal? Do you think she is confused with how I responded by being sad/bitchy on Facebook? Is that why she thought she got too 'deep'? I wonder where this is going to go from here... Relationship still possible in the future? I don't know what she qualifies as a relationship... I don't even know if I want to be in one..

I think I'm Way over thinking this, I KNOW, because now I feel stupid about the way I acted and the feelings I had, but could still use some advice.
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Old 04-10-2013, 11:42 PM   #713
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Dude, she just texted you saying she missed you 3 hours ago.

She still wants the D. You're in the clear.
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Old 04-10-2013, 11:45 PM   #714
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don't know if she really meant it though
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Old 04-10-2013, 11:56 PM   #715
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You're really over thinking this.
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Old 04-11-2013, 05:12 AM   #716
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Two things:

1. Common denominator between Buck & Joey miscommunication = text messages. When dealing with feelings, emotion, or serious subjects - talk in person or on the phone. Don't text.

2. Joey is way over-thinking. She still likes you. Keep going.
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Old 04-11-2013, 06:31 AM   #717
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JFC guys you are making things WAY too difficult. just roll with it and have fun.
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Old 04-11-2013, 07:08 AM   #718
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I'm backing out of this thread, now.
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Old 04-11-2013, 08:57 AM   #719
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Two things:

1. Common denominator between Buck & Joey miscommunication = text messages. When dealing with feelings, emotion, or serious subjects - talk in person or on the phone. Don't text.

2. Joey is way over-thinking. She still likes you. Keep going.
THIS.

Texting is no good, Joey. Lots of shit can get misconstrued via text, (or email, for that matter). The only exception is if this is your only form of communication with this girl, (which isn't the case), or if you're going to have a casual discussion.

Try not to overanalyze the situation either. She initiated a conversation and told you that she misses you. It sounds like you're golden.
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Old 04-11-2013, 10:20 AM   #720
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Jeez guys, those are things you need to talk about in person lol. Oh how I hate the text, facebook culture.
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