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Old 03-16-2013, 04:57 AM  
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So what am i suppose to say?
Apparently a family member is going to 'come out of the closet' to me in the near future.

I don't why she plans to tell me she's gay considering that she has never told me anything else about her sexuality. I assume it's some kind of cathartic form of self-expression to be herself etc,etc.

She's family, i love her and i want to be supportive, but to be honest i just want to keep the entire process as short as possible. So what the hell am i suppose to say?

i'm gay:

'ok ... good for you'

'whatever makes you happy'

'cool'

'can i watch?'

'is she hot?'

'anti-freeze'

'pics or it didn't happen'



seriously ... supportive, not condescending, not judgmental,not patronizing

what are you suppose to say?


(fyi if you prefer to respond privately, as PM is fine)


Thanks in Advance
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Old 03-16-2013, 04:58 AM   #2
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I would say........So?
Or.....and?
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Old 03-16-2013, 05:01 AM   #3
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I would say........So?
Or.....and?
the 'no big deal' response

i thought about that ... but isn't that dismissing her 'important news'?


i imagine it's a big risk to reveal something like this and to just 'shrug' isn't going to be very supportive.
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Old 03-16-2013, 05:04 AM   #4
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Old 03-16-2013, 05:12 AM   #5
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"Cool. I'm glad you told me."

Or if applicable:

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Old 03-16-2013, 05:28 AM   #6
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Old 03-16-2013, 05:28 AM   #7
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Old 03-16-2013, 05:41 AM   #8
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Old 03-16-2013, 05:48 AM   #9
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I'd offer up a big, warm smile and say "Thank you for sharing something so important to you with me. I'll always be supportive of you no matter what is going on in your life."

That honestly should take care of it.
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Old 03-16-2013, 05:48 AM   #10
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Maybe you should initiate the conversation by asking her if she has any single friends, then stare dumbfounded when she tells you.
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Old 03-16-2013, 05:53 AM   #11
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the 'no big deal' response

i thought about that ... but isn't that dismissing her 'important news'?


i imagine it's a big risk to reveal something like this and to just 'shrug' isn't going to be very supportive.
Well what in the hell could she possibly want? You to throw her a goddamn party for it?

Shame on her for putting you in this situation.
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Old 03-16-2013, 06:00 AM   #12
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Old 03-16-2013, 06:26 AM   #13
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I'd offer up a big, warm smile and say "Thank you for sharing something so important to you with me. I'll always be supportive of you no matter what is going on in your life."

That honestly should take care of it.
I'm actually not a fan of the second sentence. It sounds more like a I love the sinner but might hate the sin response.

If you're cool with it, say so. There's nothing wrong with saying you are an ally of the LGBTQ community unless you're not.
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Old 03-16-2013, 06:48 AM   #15
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I'm actually not a fan of the second sentence. It sounds more like a I love the sinner but might hate the sin response.

If you're cool with it, say so. There's nothing wrong with saying you are an ally of the LGBTQ community unless you're not.
You sound a little dickish here.
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