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Old 03-16-2013, 04:57 AM  
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So what am i suppose to say?

Apparently a family member is going to 'come out of the closet' to me in the near future.

I don't why she plans to tell me she's gay considering that she has never told me anything else about her sexuality. I assume it's some kind of cathartic form of self-expression to be herself etc,etc.

She's family, i love her and i want to be supportive, but to be honest i just want to keep the entire process as short as possible. So what the hell am i suppose to say?

i'm gay:

'ok ... good for you'

'whatever makes you happy'

'cool'

'can i watch?'

'is she hot?'

'anti-freeze'

'pics or it didn't happen'



seriously ... supportive, not condescending, not judgmental,not patronizing

what are you suppose to say?


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Old 03-16-2013, 06:48 AM   #16
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I'm actually not a fan of the second sentence. It sounds more like a I love the sinner but might hate the sin response.

If you're cool with it, say so. There's nothing wrong with saying you are an ally of the LGBTQ community unless you're not.
I see how that comes across. I am supportive of the LGBTQ community, so I guess my intention was, "Don't ever feel like there is something you should be uncomfortable talking about with me" but it didn't come out that way.
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Old 03-16-2013, 06:49 AM   #17
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Old 03-16-2013, 06:50 AM   #18
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Old 03-16-2013, 07:03 AM   #19
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Old 03-16-2013, 07:06 AM   #20
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Old 03-16-2013, 07:07 AM   #21
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Old 03-16-2013, 07:19 AM   #22
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Old 03-16-2013, 07:32 AM   #23
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Old 03-16-2013, 07:41 AM   #24
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