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Old 08-01-2013, 03:42 PM  
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Any lawyers here? Need advice on complicated custody dispute

Ok here's what's going on:

My ex and I have been divorced for a 2-3 years. We agreed to 50/50 everything with our kids...time with them, decision making, etc. My address is their legal address for mailing and educational purposes. Neither one of us pay child support, and even though the time with them is supposed to be 50/50 its more like 60/40 with me and Ive been keeping a detailed log for the last year.

Ex meets another guy, he joins the army a year later, they get married about 3 months after he joins. He now finds out he's being relocated to a base in Georgia. Ex thinks she is going to move with him and take our kids with her.

Everything the kids need or have ever known are here. Their school they've gone to since they started, me, their entire family on both sides...everything.

Is there anything for me to worry about? I know judges want to do whats best for the kids, so surely no judge would let her uproot and move them to another state without my consent, right? The only thing Im worried about is the military thing, that maybe they'd get special treatment for that...but at the same time, he decided to join after they were together and they both knew her situation with my kids. My lawyer doesn't think I have anything to worry about, but of course he's going to tell me that since he wants my $.
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Old 08-01-2013, 06:45 PM   #61
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do you have this custody in writing, law wise, or is it just something you worked out?

your lawyer should be telling you to file for primary custody right the **** now, then she is ****ed do this before it goes anywhere near a judge

**** her early, HARD, and nasty, preempt this shit NOW
Its in our divorce papers. My lawyer advised me to just sit back and wait for her to file a relocation amendment and then we would respond.

Tombstone - I dont talk bad about her to my kids, but her and I no longer get along either after I found this out so there will be no "working it out". She's leaving and is going to try to take the kids, and I'm going to try to stop her. I tried to rationalize with her when she first told me her plan, but she's stuck on trying to do this. There's nothing that can be done except letting a judge decide.

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based on what you've told us, my impression is that you will be successful in preventing the kids move out of state...

go with what your lawyer is telling you and don't worry so much, everything will turn out fine...
My lawyer did tell me this would be a bit more tricky if she were trying to move them to Ft Leonard Wood here in MO, but since she's trying to move them out of state no judge in his/her right mind would be ok with that. I hope you and him are right.
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Old 08-01-2013, 07:11 PM   #62
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Now, I have heard of women taking the kids with them regardless of judgement. And they won't go chasing after her, nor would the other state.
Kidnapping seems like something they would go after.
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Old 08-01-2013, 07:16 PM   #63
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Old 08-01-2013, 07:39 PM   #64
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Now, I have heard of women taking the kids with them regardless of judgement. And they won't go chasing after her, nor would the other state.
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Old 08-01-2013, 07:44 PM   #65
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No, it isn't 100% wrong that I have heard stories of that happening.
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Old 08-01-2013, 07:46 PM   #66
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No, it isn't 100% wrong that I have heard stories of that happening.
Maybe back in 1972 but custody enforcement has come a long way and unless she wants to go off the grid this shit wouldn't fly at all.
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Old 08-01-2013, 08:01 PM   #67
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Right. Its always better for those decisions to be made by others. Liberals always know whats best.

**** me what an asswipe you are.
He's actually right though.

Children have very little life experience and even less foresight.
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Old 08-01-2013, 08:03 PM   #68
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Maybe back in 1972 but custody enforcement has come a long way and unless she wants to go off the grid this shit wouldn't fly at all.

This. Times have changed in the last 40 years.
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Right. Its always better for those decisions to be made by others. Liberals always know whats best.

**** me what an asswipe you are.
Dumb ****, I'm not a liberal, I am simply someone who realizes sometimes kids will just choose the most permissive parent. But you being the stupid, shit-eating country dumb**** you are, probably think it's great for kids to stay up all night playing video games and neglecting school work. You idiotic hick.
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Old 08-01-2013, 08:28 PM   #71
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This. Times have changed in the last 40 years.
The web is full of these stories, and not from 1972. I make no claims about their being true, but I'm sure a legal expert such as yourself can straighten me out.
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Old 08-01-2013, 08:53 PM   #73
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I think I already alluded to that, but thanks.
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Dumb ****, I'm not a liberal, I am simply someone who realizes sometimes kids will just choose the most permissive parent. But you being the stupid, shit-eating country dumb**** you are, probably think it's great for kids to stay up all night playing video games and neglecting school work. You idiotic hick.
I think what you a failing to understand. The child just doesn't say what he/she wants to do. The judge will ask many questions some of them may have been written by a child psychiatrist. Sometimes a child psychiatrist will sit in and observe. It is much more than I want to live with mom or dad.
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Old 08-01-2013, 09:19 PM   #75
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I think what you a failing to understand. The child just doesn't say what he/she wants to do. The judge will ask many questions some of them may have been written by a child psychiatrist. Sometimes a child psychiatrist will sit in and observe. It is much more than I want to live with mom or dad.
It is entirely up to the judge's discretion. That's a fact.
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