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Old 08-03-2013, 08:32 PM  
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What do I do?

I'm sure in tasteless fashion this thread will get a lot of jokes most of them won't be funny but oh well..

This girl I went to high school with made a depressing status on Facebook saying how she's given up. After talking with her in private she revealed she's going to lose her child in a custody battle and when she does she is going to kill herself. I've talked with her for 30 mins she said her mind is made up and it will be quick and painless.

Obviously my thought process is to call the authorities but here's the thing

A) what if she's over exaggerating the case. I call the police and then shell definitely lose the case.

B) She actually does follow through. Ill feel somewhat guilty.

What would you do in this situation?
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Old 08-04-2013, 10:05 AM   #61
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Try to persuade her to call and talk to someone.
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first thing they will do is call the cops


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Old 08-04-2013, 10:07 AM   #62
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Serious question - where did you go to high school? This sounds awfully similar to a situation with a relative of mine that is happening right now.
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Old 08-04-2013, 10:10 AM   #63
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calling the cops will ensure that she does lose the child and lead to more depression


keep talking to her, she wouldn't of told you if she didn't want attention

change subject a little bit ... slowly try to talk about less depressing stuff

don't try to get laid ... you're a man, don't act like it wasn't crossing your mind to be the hero and get some

need to contact a close friend and/or family of hers to get help with making a better support system for her

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Lol @ don't try to get laid. The last thing I need is a women like that.

My confusion about the situation has kinda turned to anger. I think she was doing this for attention. ****ing pathetic.
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Old 08-04-2013, 10:12 AM   #64
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Old 08-04-2013, 10:14 AM   #65
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Lol @ don't try to get laid. The last thing I need is a women like that.

My confusion about the situation has kinda turned to anger. I think she was doing this for attention. ****ing pathetic.
getting laid and 'getting a woman like that' are too completely different things.

oh it was definitely about attention but that doesn't mean the depression isn't real
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Old 08-04-2013, 10:15 AM   #66
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I've discussed this story before...

When I was young, my parents divorced. At first, tey had joint custody, and everything was about 50/50.
As I went through junior high, my real mom began to really play up the single life. She was out a lot, brought people home late, even married a guy in order to keep him in the country. She also spent all my child support money on her own things.
Meanwhile, my dad remarried, moved into a nice place in a nice school district, and had a really stable place.
One Christmas, the plan was that I spent Christmas Eve with my dad and Christmas Day with my real mom. Christmas Eve went great, but the Christmas morning my mom picked me up and everything went to shit. My mom was on a tear, berating me for not being a good son, for being excited about the gifts my dad could buy me that she couldn't, etc. I was 12, and it took all the courage I had to tell her that I wasn't going to spend Christmas this way, and that she should take me back to my dad's.
The next day, I was back at my mom's. it was difficult and awkward. She proceeded to tell me, in great detail, how she had tried to kill herself the day before, putting the blame on me for abandoning her. You have no idea how that ****s with a 12-year ild's mind. I finally moved in with my father a few years later and cut off all contact with her for years. As I was in my 20s, we began to try and rebuild a relationship. Thing is, she was still the same. Guilt trips, not "getting enough" from me as her son, etc. after a particular weekend where she needed money and I had none to give, and refused to go to friends to borrow any, it happened again.
She called me asking me to come take her to the ER, because she was having "insulin problems." After a few hours at KU Med, it got weird. I was asked into a private room with a doctor and asked if I could be around her for a few days to keep an eye on her. I said I would, and figured it was a health issue. On the way home, though, she let me know she had tried to kill herself, and if I was a better son, she wouldn't have felt so hopeless.
It's been 10 years since we've had a relationship. We've talked a couple of times, but I refuse to expose myself, and now my family, to that type of abuse and manipulation. I am ****ed up in so many ways because of her.

My long-winded point is this...
Good. It's good she's losing custody. She's unable to be a stable influence on her child and can do more damage than good. I pray to God she doesn't take her life, and that she finds the help she needs. But my thoughts are with that kid, and hoping he or she doesn't have to go through the shit I have.
I don't have an answer for your question, but I just felt very strongly about this, and I apologize for the hijack.

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Old 08-04-2013, 11:38 AM   #67
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Old 08-04-2013, 01:49 PM   #68
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Old 08-04-2013, 03:17 PM   #69
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calling the cops will ensure that she does lose the child and lead to more depression


keep talking to her, she wouldn't of told you if she didn't want attention

change subject a little bit ... slowly try to talk about less depressing stuff

don't try to get laid ... you're a man, don't act like it wasn't crossing your mind to be the hero and get some

need to contact a close friend and/or family of hers to get help with making a better support system for her

jmo
That's some brutally bad advice right there.
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Old 08-04-2013, 05:48 PM   #70
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If she is on the verge of losing her child maybe she isn't fit to be a mother and the courts see that. Than add the fact she is talking about taking her life,doesn't sound good at all. I would probably call the cops before she takes her and her child's life.
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Old 08-04-2013, 05:54 PM   #71
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If this girl dies, Pelini will probably have to take his own life. That's my advice on all this.
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