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Old 06-02-2014, 11:27 AM  
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What if you dont act on it?

Im just curious, I don't want to go into crazy detail but lets say your in a relationship, and its late at night and you are flirtatious with another girl over the phone, and you talk about hanging out the next day but say its just as old friends but a occasional sex joke thrown in (this is a ex) but the next day you feel like sht and have 100% no desire to go through with it and it was your dck talking.. Is that considered cheating or should feel bad? Or is it the dam guilty conscience talking and its no big deal since I didn't act and never will make the same mistake twice?
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Old 06-02-2014, 12:07 PM   #31
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Old 06-02-2014, 12:08 PM   #32
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Old 06-02-2014, 12:39 PM   #33
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Old 06-02-2014, 12:42 PM   #34
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I think you need to have a serious confessional session with your gf. Tell her about your devious ways and impure thoughts.
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Old 06-02-2014, 12:44 PM   #35
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Old 06-02-2014, 01:12 PM   #36
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I think you need to have a serious confessional session with your gf. Tell her about your devious ways and impure thoughts.
I think so too, it will get found out one way or another. If he does not confess it will be a harsher consequence. His best course of action is to be pro active and get out in front of it. That don't say anything and play defense if you have too shit just doesn't work.
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Old 06-02-2014, 01:14 PM   #37
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Old 06-02-2014, 01:36 PM   #38
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I'm curious about something. I didn't really have a long period of casual dating in my life. It was usually either no dating or a committed relationship. So I never had to deal with dating transitions.

If you're dating someone and you've been together for, say, three months or six months or something, and you like the person but you're not really planning on marrying them, how do you shop for someone new? If you encounter someone you like, are you required to break up with the current girlfriend before flirting with the new prospect? Or can you flirt, figure out if you've got a chance, and then say to the new one, "Hold on for a day or two. I need to break up with this other gal."

If no rings are on fingers, it seems like there should be some sort of middle ground where you can flirt with someone to test the waters, kind of like that middle zone in bombardment where everybody's allowed to run. If you can't flirt, how do you continue moving up the preference ladder until you find Miss Right?
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Old 06-02-2014, 01:37 PM   #39
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Old 06-02-2014, 01:43 PM   #41
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I'm curious about something. I didn't really have a long period of casual dating in my life. It was usually either no dating or a committed relationship. So I never had to deal with dating transitions.

If you're dating someone and you've been together for, say, three months or six months or something, and you like the person but you're not really planning on marrying them, how do you shop for someone new? If you encounter someone you like, are you required to break up with the current girlfriend before flirting with the new prospect? Or can you flirt, figure out if you've got a chance, and then say to the new one, "Hold on for a day or two. I need to break up with this other gal."

If no rings are on fingers, it seems like there should be some sort of middle ground where you can flirt with someone to test the waters, kind of like that middle zone in bombardment where everybody's allowed to run. If you can't flirt, how do you continue moving up the preference ladder until you find Miss Right?
I don't worry about it. Or didn't. If I was happy where I was, doing what I was doing, then I didn't have a concern about the higher rung. Regardless of future intentions. If I knew the b/f was only a short term temporary assignment, then we probably both knew that, and outside flirting wouldn't be much of a concern on either end.

Either way, you can for sure find yourself drawn to someone without tripping over sexual innuendos. The definition of what flirting is, is about as universal as beauty.
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Old 06-02-2014, 01:50 PM   #42
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I don't worry about it. Or didn't. If I was happy where I was, doing what I was doing, then I didn't have a concern about the higher rung. Regardless of future intentions. If I knew the b/f was only a short term temporary assignment, then we probably both knew that, and outside flirting wouldn't be much of a concern on either end.

Either way, you can for sure find yourself drawn to someone without tripping over sexual innuendos. The definition of what flirting is, is about as universal as beauty.
Ah. So the key is internal communication and being sure that both parties know where they're at on the ladder. That sounds difficult in the hypersensitive world of dating.

Now I'm wondering what the rungs are. Perhaps they should be labeled so people know.
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Old 06-02-2014, 02:01 PM   #43
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Ah. So the key is internal communication and being sure that both parties know where they're at on the ladder. That sounds difficult in the hypersensitive world of dating.

Now I'm wondering what the rungs are. Perhaps they should be labeled so people know.
That's a good idea. I could have used the ladder rung warning equivalent to dating when I was a youngster:

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Old 06-02-2014, 02:02 PM   #44
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Ah. So the key is internal communication and being sure that both parties know where they're at on the ladder. That sounds difficult in the hypersensitive world of dating.

Now I'm wondering what the rungs are. Perhaps they should be labeled so people know.
I suppose that information would be helpful but it's like Chutes and Ladders. Some twat may scurry to the top with minimal effort while the rest of us go back and forth across the board, but it really takes one wrong roll to end up at the bottom of the slide anyways.

So. **** it.

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