Ever Cheated?

[DiaperBoy27]

Have you ever cheated on a loved one?

Did you tell them?

I'm sure there are some great stories out there, or maybe some of you want to clear your conscience on the anonymous :rolleyes: internet.



What if you knew someone that cheated? Would you tell the other person?

[hypersensitiveZO6]

Happily Married--never cheated.

[ChiTown]

good luck getting an honest response on this one............

[pr_capone]

Happily Married--never cheated.

Same here.

[Donger]

Do blowjobs count?

[ChiTown]

Happily Married--never cheated.

case in point........

[Fire Me Boy!]

Same as others -- happily married.

Never cheated on a g/f either, but had one cheat on me. With one of her college professors.

[DJay23]

Has it been a month already?

Seems like this thread comes up ATLEAST 12 times a year.

[vailpass]

Banged one of my college girlfriend's roomates in their kitchenette while my g/f was taking a shower. Tension had been building between us, it finally came out.

[alanm]

Do blowjobs count?
Well, you know, it's not really sex is it. :)

[Bootlegged]

Banged one of my college girlfriend's roomates in their kitchenette while my g/f was taking a shower. Tension had been building between us, it finally came out.

in her box?

[cadmonkey]

Yes I have. I am not an honest person, nor do I really have a soul. I have been with the same person for 11 years and have needed to have my fun sometimes.

[BucEyedPea]

Never.

[DiaperBoy27]

Yes I have. I am not an honest person, nor do I really have a soul. I have been with the same person for 11 years and have needed to have my fun sometimes.

sounds pretty honest to me

[vailpass]

in her box?
ROFL guess I teed that one up huh?

[BIG_DADDY]

Yes

[cadmonkey]

oh, i never told her.

I think she knows what I am doing now but for some reason i really don't give a sh*t

[DiaperBoy27]

Well, you know, it's not really sex is it. :)

That depends on your definition of the word "is"

[sedated]

Do blowjobs count?

ask your wife

[Donger]

ask your wife

She's not familiar with that activity.

[bkkcoh]

Happily Married--never cheated.

Same here, no complaints either. Married 10+ years....

[Donger]

No, I've never cheated on anyone, not even when dating. I'm not an exceedingly sexual person, though. I feel somewhat sorry for the people (male and female) that are super horny all the time.

It must be very hard to deal with that.

[vailpass]

Cheatin' sex is good sex; some of the most exciting ass out there.
At least it is if you aren't married. That's a whole other thing.

[ck_IN]

I'm not passing judgement or attacking you Cad so please don't take it that way.

<i>I think she knows what I am doing now but for some reason i really don't give a sh*t</i>

This is precisely the reason I never have cheated. If I ever got to a point where I thought or felt this way, I'd just walk from the relationship. If a person cares that little for the other persons feelings then do the right thing and end it.

[BIG_DADDY]

No, I've never cheated on anyone, not even when dating. I'm not an exceedingly sexual person, though. I feel somewhat sorry for the people (male and female) that are super horny all the time.

It must be very hard to deal with that.

Why would you feel sorry for them. People are spending billions just so they can get in the mood out there. Sex is one of the greatest mose awesome things in life. How could you not want to do it all the time. Like that thread I posted about the erotic dance earlier today. I would much rather have my women getting us both all worked up doing that than just watching TV. Then again maybe it's just me.

[Donger]

Why would you feel sorry for them. People are spending billions just so they can get in the mood out there. Sex is one of the greatest mose awesome things in life. How could you not want to do it all the time. Like that thread I posted about the erotic dance earlier today. I would much rather have my women getting us both all worked up doing that than just watching TV. Then again maybe it's just me.

I meant so horny all the time that they feel like they have to cheat.

[BIG_DADDY]

I meant so horny all the time that they feel like they have to cheat.


ahhhhhhhhhhh I follow ya. It's definately important to have somebody that is compatible when it comes to sexual drive.

[DiaperBoy27]

I meant so horny all the time that they feel like they have to cheat.

seems like a compatability issue.

if one needs it all the time, and the other hates it, you have a problem.

[DiaperBoy27]

ahhhhhhhhhhh I follow ya. It's definately important to have somebody that is compatible when it comes to sexual drive.

:cuss:

[vailpass]

Man I think I might have know a lot of your guys' girlfriends in college. I used to love meeting girls with boyfriends like you.
(I'm pretty much kidding)

[BucEyedPea]

(I'm pretty much kidding)

No you're not. The words "pretty much" are an admission that there some truth in what you said.
:p

[BIG_DADDY]

Hey girls, think your husband isn't cheating? Ask to use his cell for a day. ROFL

[ROYC75]

No, but when I become single again, I'm finding me a nympho .......... OK!

[DiaperBoy27]

Hey girls, think your husband isn't cheating? Ask to use his cell for a day. ROFL

same could be said for women, they are just more clever about it.

[BucEyedPea]

I read over a year ago that it was 48% of men that cheat on their wives.
It has traditionally been lower for women, but women are catching up and the gap is closing.

Judging from advances I've seen of businessmen, particularly salesmen, usually with a lot of money this makes the figure seem dead on. At least two have told me that he had a woman in each city. Don't get me going on what happens at those conventions.

[BIG_DADDY]

I read over a year ago that it was 48% of men that cheat on their wives.
It has traditionally been lower for women, but women are catching up and the gap is closing.

Judging from advances I've seen of businessmen particularly salesmen,usually with a lot of money the make figure seems dead on. At least two have told me that he have a woman in each city. Don't get me going on what happens at those conventions.

In health clubs they used to give out trips to top performers in the company each month. I was always a top performer. They were singles trips with front desk staff that had also won trips. Most of the girls were 18 to 24. IMO those trips were arranged like that on purpose. Lots of fun. We used to say your chance of having a successfull marriage in that industry is less than 10% especially if you are both in it.

[Inspector]

There has to be another person involved before it's actually cheating, right?

Just need to clarify.

[JimNasium]

On occassion I have cheated on my right hand and used my left.

[BIG_DADDY]

There has to be another person involved before it's actually cheating, right?

Just need to clarify.

And what about pretending she is somebody else is that cheating? :shrug:

[Predarat]

Since it was only Anal sex, technically no.

[BIG_DADDY]

On occassion I have cheated on my right hand and used my left.

WOW, Jim's a switch hitter he can go either way.

[Hammock Parties]

On occassion I have cheated on my right hand and used my left.

I'm into threesomes.

[el borracho]

Never have and never would.

[JimNasium]

WOW, Jim's a switch hitter he can go either way.
Practice, practice, practice.

[Pitt Gorilla]

Before marriage (while dating someone other than my wife)? Many times.

Since marriage, never.

Probably the best one involved me cheating on a chick with her sister. Oh, how that family now hates me.

[StcChief]

Before Marriage. in a weak drunk moment with a very horny chick (also drunk)...what a nite.

[vailpass]

Hey girls, think your husband isn't cheating? Ask to use his cell for a day. ROFL

Why in the **** would you go and say that? Do you know how many guys are gonna' have to clean out their call history and tell certain people not to call them until they receive further notice?!
ROFL

[Jmart]

Cheated on every one of my GFs and pretty sure they have all cheated on me.

[vailpass]

No you're not. The words "pretty much" are an admission that there some truth in what you said.
:p

Note to self: Buc is able to read for comprehension; be careful about leaving clues. :)

[BucEyedPea]

I don't consider just dating somebody to a situation that would label seeing another as cheating. Engaged or married, and that's it. Now you may not want to or if you promised faithfulness to someone than it's a matter of keeping your word. I would never promise nor expect that of someone I am dating though...it would be because one is enough to handle. But I did it like crazy last year in high-school...even three dates in one day.

[Aries Walker]

Not yet, but the weekend is coming up.

Seriously, though, never. I'm way too boring and conservative.

[DiaperBoy27]

would anybody ever tell someone if you knew they had been cheated on?

[JimNasium]

I don't consider just dating somebody to a situation that would label seeing another as cheating. Engaged or married, and that's it. Now you may not want to or if you promised faithfulness to someone than it's a matter of keeping your word. I would never promise nor expect that of someone I am dating though...it would be because one is enough to handle. But I did it like crazy last year in high-school...even three dates in one day.
High school? I had you pegged as older. :shake:

[BucEyedPea]

would anybody ever tell someone if you knew they had been cheated on?
Either way the relationship is likely to be over...as you're damned if ya' do and
damned if ya' don't. Secrets like that destroy emotional intimacy and communication. If you own up you risk the person feeling betrayed and their loss of trust in you.

Although, men cheat more for sex only and with women, or so I read, it's for emotional reasons.

[burt]

[QUOTE=cadmonkey]Yes I have. I am not an honest person, QUOTE]

Great answer...yes, I have cheated...but I also lie often....am I lying now, or telling the truth...hhhhmmmmmm

Actually, I will give this the non-answer of the month award...

[Hammock Parties]

BucPea is like 19...she just lost all credibility.

[BucEyedPea]

High school? I had you pegged as older. :shake:

Of course I'm older than that. I'm just sayin' I did the three dates in a day thing whenI was in high-school. It was fun.

[Predarat]

Although, men cheat more for sex only and with women, or so I read, it's for emotional reasons.
Ahhhh, so if you know a woman and want to get her to cheat, you can play to her emotions to get her in the sack. Thanks! Good stuff!

[JimNasium]

Of course I'm older than that. I'm just sayin' I did the three dates in a day thing whenI was in high-school. It was fun.
I see now. It read "But I did it like crazy last year in high-school..." which should have read....oh nevermind.

[sedated]

Although, men cheat more for sex only and with women, or so I read, it's for emotional reasons.

Bullsh!t

women are horny too.

give up the lie, we men are onto you

[burt]

I do not have the attention to detail to cheat........ Way too much work. Oh and I got it out of my system when I was younger. Give me the Mrs., 2 double Crown Royals on the rocks, the kids asleep...and I could NOT be any happier. Oh, and she has to give in to my groveling.....




























but I do lie sometimes....

[teedubya]

Not since we have been married. heh. But she knows about the one before marriage.

[KChiefsQT]

Never cheated until my last bf. He was a cocksucker anyways, and a cheater at that... it was the whole get-even and kick his lying ass to the curb method. I thought I'd regret it, but I don't. hah!

[BucEyedPea]

I see now. It read "But I did it like crazy last year in high-school..." which should have read....oh nevermind.

I see how that could have been read two different ways.
I didn't mean it like that though. My bad!

[BIG_DADDY]

Never cheated until my last bf. He was a one who sucks the penis anyways, and a cheater at that... it was the whole get-even and kick his lying ass to the curb method. I thought I'd regret it, but I don't. hah!


NICE!!!

[BucEyedPea]

Bullsh!t

women are horny too.

give up the lie, we men are onto you

I can tell you were bottle fed...it just screams I was "bottle fed!" ROFL
"I was deprived of booby when young and never graduated the oral phase."


BTW I didn't say woman don't get horney either.
I just think that there is more of an emotional link with sex even if for some this is not true.

[Donger]

Never cheated until my last bf. He was a one who sucks the penis anyways, and a cheater at that... it was the whole get-even and kick his lying ass to the curb method. I thought I'd regret it, but I don't. hah!

He cheated on you with another guy?

[WARPARTY70]

Happily Married--never cheated.
Never have -Never will -Never want to!!!!!!!

[KChiefsQT]

He cheated on you with another guy?
From what I heard she was a chick, but you never know.. it's been said there's nothing in Texas but steers and queers. :hmmm: ???

[Donger]

From what I heard she was a chick, but you never know.. it's been said there's nothing in Texas but steers and queers. :hmmm: ???

Oh.

This was the guy from your fishing picture thread?

[KChiefsQT]

Oh.

This was the guy from your fishing picture thread?

Yessir.

[Donger]

Yessir.

He found out that that really isn't your ass, right?





























Sorry, couldn't resist.

[The Red Sea]

I've been married for 15 yrs & I lived with my wife for 5 yrs prior to that.

One yr into our "living together one of my Uncles "Girl" friends noticed at a bar I was a bit tipsy & asked if I wanted to go to her place to watch a movie.

I said Yes.

She gave me a tour of her house that ended at the bedroom.
She layed flat on the bed & said Quote..
"Do you believe in oral sex?" as she slid her pants down.

So we got it on.
Did I mention she was 15 yrs older than I was? =)

Sure I was only with my present wife(girlfriend) for a yr by that time & it was 4 yrs *prior* to getting married BUT it wasnt easy when I got back to the then apartment & had to climb into bed with her.

I'd think Nothing of this if we didnt end up getting married.

But we were friends for a few yrs even Prior to living together.

.........................

Now for the twist your all gonna love.

This older lady put a note on my car saying she had fun & to stop again anytime.
My future wife intercepted the note & kept track of me for a month like a super sleuth.Especially on bowling nite..thats when I'd See my uncle & This lady.
I forgot to mention my wife NEVER told me about the note or her knowing.

I'm proud to say I went home like a good boy every time proving my umm commitment & that it was & would only be a one time thing.

My wife didnt even tell me She got the note or knew till about 3 yrs later while having a wedding plan arguement..some how she ended up throwing it on the table literaly.

She took it back & I said I was sorry ..etc & so forth.

Anyhow We've now been happily married for going on 15 yrs & I'd NEVER cheat on her now.
Our friends think were that Sick two peas in the pod kind of couple that makes you want to puke.

Sex is great & luckily my wife enjoys it too just not as frequently.

=P

Thats the story & I'm sticking to it!

THE END

[sd4chiefs]

I cheated playing golf last weekend. :shrug:

[Hammock Parties]

mooooooooooooooo

[BIG_DADDY]

Never have -Never will -Never want to!!!!!!!
Never say never.

[Braincase]

Nope

[BIG_DADDY]

Nope

Come on Braincase you never cheated on an old girlfriend?

[hypersensitiveZO6]

You have to some prick to have ever cheated on your wife/husband.

I would never even think of doing anything even close to cheating.

I understand cheating on a girlfriend, not that I think it's right, but if you cheat on your wife you might as well sign your ticket to hell.

[Dave Lane]

I'm into threesomes.


It takes two hands to handle a whopper.

Dave

[CoMoChief]

Never have, never would. If you cheat then why not just be single? I will say this though, if my friends ever cheated on their gf's I would never rat them out. Gotta protect the MAN LAWS!!!

[vailpass]

Do any of you play by the the state border or international border rules?

[stevieray]

Had the opportunity, but never the desire.

[BIG_DADDY]

Had the opportunity, but never the desire.

Did she want to call you Elvis?

[stevieray]

Did she want to call you Elvis?

ya, a couple of times.

One of the first times I went to arrowhead as FDE., some girl wnted to take me home with her.

:shrug:

[BIG_DADDY]

ya, a couple of times.

One of the first times I went to arrowhead as FDE., some girl wnted to take me home with her.

:shrug:

Sounds like a one kinky girl. ROFL

[Demonpenz]

I used to do it all the time. You have to get your sex from somewhere

[Rain Man]

Is it cheating if it's a threesome that involves your wife?


I've never done that, unfortunately, but I'm just curious about the rules in case it ever comes up.

[hypersensitiveZO6]

Is it cheating if it's a threesome that involves your wife?


I've never done that, unfortunately, but I'm just curious about the rules in case it ever comes up.

I was under the impression that if your wife doesn't have a problem with it, it's fine-- not cheating.

[Donger]

Is it cheating if it's a threesome that involves your wife?


I've never done that, unfortunately, but I'm just curious about the rules in case it ever comes up.

It is if you mention that the other female has a nicer ass than one's wife.

[stevieray]

Sounds like a one kinky girl. ROFL

and a little drunk, too.

[Anyong Bluth]

Is it worse to cheat on your gf, that has admitted that she's cheated on a number of her old boyfriends OR is it worse to check their email, phone or whatever to see what they are up to?

I cheated once in college, was super wasted and passed out in my bed when one of my buddy's gf's friend got into bed with me and started blowing me. Stayed the night and I never had sex w/ her or anything else, she just blew me like 4 times. Turns out the chick has a crush on me for like 3 years. Told the
gf the next day b/c I felt horrible, but didn't get into any details. Didn't kill our relationship but it ended about 6 months later. Ironically, we stopped talking to each other after a big argument for about 10 months.
I actually would have probably married the girl, and finally one night she wanted to talk when we were both at a mutual friends birthday, but I was so pissed off at how things had gone the past 10 months I didn't want to talk to her, and left and met up with another girl that night. She tried getting in contact w/ me the next day, but I didn't talk to her, and was leaving on spring break. I figured I'd talk to her after she got back. Little did I know she met a guy down there that went to our same univ and they're married now!

It swallows your pride a bit. But, I agree... why not just be single if you're gonna cheat!

[priestin2004]

Never have. Never will.

[kc rush]

She gave me a tour of her house that ended at the bedroom.
She layed flat on the bed & said Quote..
"Do you believe in oral sex?" as she slid her pants down.


So you are saying that you parted the red sea?

[Imon Yourside]

No and Never, it's marriage not a common law monetary thing. Well i guess it is to most people.

[Consistent1]

In health clubs they used to give out trips to top performers in the company each month. I was always a top performer. They were singles trips with front desk staff that had also won trips. Most of the girls were 18 to 24. IMO those trips were arranged like that on purpose. Lots of fun. We used to say your chance of having a successfull marriage in that industry is less than 10% especially if you are both in it.

Oh yeah bro, the "fitness" industry is so dirty that most would not even believe it.

[sedated]

Oh yeah bro, the "fitness" industry is so dirty that most would not even believe it.

I know what you mean.

no one ever wipes off the weight machines when they are done.

disgusting

[DiaperBoy27]

if my friends ever cheated on their gf's I would never rat them out. Gotta protect the MAN LAWS!!!

and when the girl is cheating on your friend?

[BIG_DADDY]

Oh yeah bro, the "fitness" industry is so dirty that most would not even believe it.

Pre-Anita Hill it was freakin incredible. What an awesome way to make a buck and have fun especially as a young guy. Anita Hill changed everything. We went from having after hours parties in the club with staff doing staff to having to have another woman present when I had a meeting with any female employee. Hell they don't even want you doing the members anymore. Friggen clubs were loaded with MILF's. I truly hated Anita Hill. Trips were perfect though because the other female employees were not from your club. It's like one big giant health club soap opera of who is doing who. We used to call it "As the Spa Turns"

[BIG_DADDY]

and when the girl is cheating on your friend?


Bro's before ho's. Good friends you have to let know.

[Predarat]

Bro's before ho's. Good friends you have to let know.
Your exactly right!


And about this thread in general, what if you are married, at the time you got married your sex drives were comapatable. But as time goes by one person turns into a frigid prude in the bedroom. You have tried all the right methods to correct this such as numerous talks and been as patient as you can be. But it doesnt help. Yes, you can file for divorce but if other parts of the marriage are working out and going well it kind of makes it a difficult situation. You can either deal without the sex you want/need or cheat and get it somewhere else. Of course if you do cheat you are risking a divorce. But not everything is as black and white as it seems, there is so much grey.

[greg63]

Happily Married--never cheated.

Ditto, and I wouldn't poke my nose in someone else's business.

[BucEyedPea]

Your exactly right!


And about this thread in general, what if you are married, at the time you got married your sex drives were comapatable. But as time goes by one person turns into a frigid prude in the bedroom. You have tried all the right methods to correct this such as numerous talks and been as patient as you can be. But it doesnt help. Yes, you can file for divorce but if other parts of the marriage are working out and going well it kind of makes it a difficult situation. You can either deal without the sex you want/need or cheat and get it somewhere else. Of course if you do cheat you are risking a divorce. But not everything is as black and white as it seems, there is so much grey.


If she doesn't want sex with you that's something else wrong in the emotional intimacy department. Maybe the women is havin' the affair. A woman can withdraw when that's going on.

[Predarat]

If she doesn't want sex with you that's something else wrong in the emotional intimacy department. Maybe the women is havin' the affair. A woman can withdraw when that's going on.
It was actually a friend of mine who asked me for advice and I told him to go ahead and cheat on her if she was holding out on him. Hopefully I was right but maybe its he who should be checking her cell phone, lol.

[DiaperBoy27]

It was actually a friend of mine who asked me for advice and I told him to go ahead and cheat on her if she was holding out on him. Hopefully I was right but maybe its he who should be checking her cell phone, lol.


sure.

whatever gets you through the night.

[ARROW2]

Cheated on all of them until marriage.

[Tribal Warfare]

I was propositioned to be in a threesome last week , but had to turn it down .

[DiaperBoy27]

I was propositioned to be in a threesome last week , but had to turn it down .

a pregnant chick doesn't count

[sedated]

Don't knock the bonus handjob from a fetus.

agreed, their skin is so soft

...and no teeth

[keg in kc]

No. And I never will.

[Tribal Warfare]

a pregnant chick doesn't count


Too bad so sad, that you trying to knock the oppurtunity I had but my morals are better than that since I have a girlfriend

[grandllama]

jebus, since this keeps showing up.

yes I cheated on my wife 10 years ago.

never cheated since....

thank god for ms llama and our agreement.

[Bowser]

Girlfriend(s) - yes

Wife - nope.

[greg63]

It was the sixth grade. I hadn't studied for my math test and the brainiac sitting next to me wasn’t making any effort at all to cover her answers. Well, one thing led to another and the next thing I knew I was copying her every answer; even to the problems I knew the answers to. I...I just couldn't control myself, and I've carried the shame of that day around with me all these years.

:deevee:

[ARROW2]

I was propositioned to be in a threesome last week , but had to turn it down .





Damn, I miss those...........Nothing like two new hotties in the jacuzzi.....nothing........

[Amnorix]

Yes

Your hopes of a career as a writer for Penthouse Letters are on shaky ground. :p

[Amnorix]

She's not familiar with that activity.

That's not what your MIL says...