A Question about Men and Women

[Jenny Gump]

Lord knows, (and others too) that I have a vagina. I have had it since birth, hence making me a woman by the traditional standard.

I have a question for the men and the women out there...For the men: When you are out with your woman, whom which you obviously are attracted to, or you would be at home instead...when a good looking woman walks by, and you look, glance, slobber, or whatever it is that you do, would you classify that as more of a biological response, (in that you couldn't help yourself) or is it more psychological?

For the women....When your man does this, does it make you feel like a throw-away? Or are you very forgiving and understanding?

This is my attempt at a sociological insight into the relationships between men and women.

[milkman]

I just attribute it to the fact that I'm a horndog.

[Eleazar]

It's involuntary.

[big nasty kcnut]

it phsyical as how the female form when perfected is awesome site to see. mentally is more dream like like as if i have a chance at a girl like that.

[Bugeater]

Men have natural hunting and gathering instincts, and they apply to women as well.

[FAX]

One can own a Renoir and still appreciate a Monet, Ms. Jenny Gump.

FAX

[Skip Towne]

It is a response that goes back thousands of years to a time when males needed to impregnate as many women as possible to ensure the survival of the species. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

[|Zach|]

Ha, I was talking about this with a coworker the other day. There is a new girl...she is a 15 on a 10 point scale total bombshell. As I was moving through the room I couldn't help but watch her her bend over in a fairly short skirt picking something up...I then looked across the other room where another girl I worked with had a "I just caught you, that wasn't subtle" look.

She was laughing at me. I told her that there was something about it...I was totally drawn in more so than just checking some girl out. I was saynig that there was something very biological about it.

I think it is situational.

[unothadeal]

Pffffft. They look at me

[milkman]

Pffffft. They look at me

And laugh?

[Phobia]

It's both biological and psychological. Every man looks. Some are trained to disguise it better than others. I'm psychologically prepared to look but I'm not allowed to slobber, catcall, or touch. I am allowed to make comments with regard to her positive attributes though I am not allowed to be crude and disrespectful about it. If she has great hair, legs, or breasts I generally remark about it to my wife and she'll either agree or disagree and add a comment of her own. Though I would suspect our relationship is atypical. We're secure people-watchers. I know I've taken your question much further than you anticipated but I wanted to share and I am.

[unothadeal]

And laugh?
No

[zeus75]

Lord knows, (and others too) that I have a vagina. I have had it since birth, hence making me a woman by the traditional standard.

I have a question for the men and the women out there...For the men: When you are out with your woman, whom which you obviously are attracted to, or you would be at home instead...when a good looking woman walks by, and you look, glance, slobber, or whatever it is that you do, would you classify that as more of a biological response, (in that you couldn't help yourself) or is it more psychological?

For the women....When your man does this, does it make you feel like a throw-away? Or are you very forgiving and understanding?

This is my attempt at a sociological insight into the relationships between men and women.

The only reason somebody asks a question like this is if it has been a major problem in a relationship. Right or no?

Zeus

[chiefforlife]

One can own a Renoir and still appreciate a Monet, Ms. Jenny Gump.

FAX


Then go home to your Van Goht...

[Simplex3]

It's an involuntary response.

[Sully]

My wife is great.

Many times she will point out a girl in public that she thinks is cute. The problems arise when we disagree.. then she acts as if I had just endorsed Janet Reno for a swimsuit calendar.

[CoMoChief]

It's biological. Males were put on this earth to mate as much as possible. It's completely natural to be attracted to the opposite sex.

[Jenny Gump]

The only reason somebody asks a question like this is if it has been a major problem in a relationship. Right or no?

Zeus

No. Just curious. I find the male/female relationship fascinating.

[Simplex3]

It's an involuntary response.
Let me expand:

There are times I'm trying NOT to look and it doesn't work. I can be sitting in the living room, mesmerized by a Victoria's Secret commercial, knowing full well my wife is watching me. I can give it everything I have, but I cannot turn away. It's not a choice.

However, there is not a woman in this world I would cheat on my wife with, even if I somehow knew for a fact that I wouldn't get caught.

[chiefforlife]

I find female/female relationships to be fascinating...

[Jenny Gump]

It's biological. Males were put on this earth to mate as much as possible. It's completely natural to be attracted to the opposite sex.

I am probably wrong, but I find that I have just as strong a response as my man. If I see a very attractive male, I look, sometimes more than twice (or more than 10 times). I am not immune to the power of physical attraction. I also find myself encouraging my man to look at women who I think he will be attracted to. As stated before, I find the whole thing quite fascinating.

[Skip Towne]

I am probably wrong, but I find that I have just as strong a response as my man. If I see a very attractive male, I look, sometimes more than twice (or more than 10 times). I am not immune to the power of physical attraction. I also find myself encouraging my man to look at women who I think he will be attracted to. As stated before, I find the whole thing quite fascinating.
Is that you in your avatar?

[crazycoffey]

I am probably wrong, but I find that I have just as strong a response as my man. If I see a very attractive male, I look, sometimes more than twice (or more than 10 times). I am not immune to the power of physical attraction. I also find myself encouraging my man to look at women who I think he will be attracted to. As stated before, I find the whole thing quite fascinating.


so are you a crotch gazer?

[Phobia]

I lied a little bit. I am allowed to be crude about women a little - especially with regard to my online conduct. It's fun for me and I hope for my MWAHAHAHAHA victims.

[Jenny Gump]

so are you a crotch gazer?
If it is big enough to get my attention, then yes, I gaze.

[Jenny Gump]

I lied a little bit. I am allowed to be crude about women a little - especially with regard to my online conduct. It's fun for me and I hope for my MWAHAHAHAHA victims.

She really deserves to break your legs with a baseball bat.

[Phobia]

If it is big enough to get my attention, then yes, I gaze.

What if it's not big enough for a starring role in pornography but it's flapping around in the breeze?

[Spott]

It's involuntary. To me, it's like looking at a nice car when it drives by. I admire it, but it doesn't mean I'm going to dump my car and steal the other one and drive home with it.

[Phobia]

She really deserves to break your legs with a baseball bat.

Perhaps. But then she would have to be on top for a couple months.

[Bowser]

I actually came across some show on Discovery talking about this topic. It's hard wired into everybody's brains to look. Goes back to the primal urges of "she has nice hips; I had best plant my seed there", and "he looks strong and protective; I had best let him plant his seed right here".

[Jenny Gump]

It's involuntary. To me, it's like looking at a nice car when it drives by. I admire it, but it doesn't mean I'm going to dump my car and steal the other one and drive home with it.

This is the question....voluntary vs. involuntary.

[BucEyedPea]

I've never had that happen to me. I've been lucky.

[keg in kc]

I don't look 99.9% of the time, whether I'm with my girlfriend or alone.

But I think we safely established years ago that I'm not normal.

[Jenny Gump]

I actually came across some show on Discovery talking about this topic. It's hard wired into everybody's brains to look. Goes back to the primal urges of "she has nice hips; I had best plant my seed there", and "he looks strong and protective; I had best let him plant his seed right here".


I guess you have a good point. I may look, but get your seed away from my soil.

[Jenny Gump]

I don't look 99.9% of the time, whether I'm with my girlfriend or alone.

But I think we safely established years ago that I'm not normal.

It is interesting you bring this up....I have observed men, goodlooking men, who don't look. But 99% of men do. So what is up with that 1%? I have to assume that they are so satisfied with their partner that they don't have the biological need to look?

[Bowser]

I guess you have a good point. I may look, but get your seed away from my soil.

I'm strong and protective. You know you can't help but want me.

I have never tried to home brew, though. We can have Nasium stop by from time to time.

[Bootlegged]

I'm a vagina man.

[Dr. Johnny Fever]

When I was married I felt like it was being disrespectful to notice too much. Yea, I might notice a good looking woman, but I made it a point to look away and not look back. That's just the way I did it... not saying that should work for other people.

Now that I'm single though I look all the damn time... and post my loves in my avatars.

:)

[keg in kc]

In the past, I'd chalk it up to a lack of self-confidence. Why look if there's no point...

Now, however, I'm satisfied with what I have. Although I've never really had the urge to "spread my seed", the biological justification some use for their struggles with monogamy.

[stevieray]

I still admire women, but not like I used to...

"fifty percent of their charm is illusion"

[Simplex3]

Perhaps. But then she would have to be on top for a couple months.
Unless your anniversary falls in that two month period that's what, zero sexual encounters?

[|Zach|]

On the other hand its not all biological...Whenever I have gone to a stripclub and seen some of those women I feel pretty uninspired...hot or not.

Does nothing for me. They seem so empty and void.

[Simplex3]

It is interesting you bring this up....I have observed men, goodlooking men, who don't look. But 99% of men do. So what is up with that 1%? I have to assume that they are so satisfied with their partner that they don't have the biological need to look?
Not hardly. They're just better at disguising it.

[stevieray]

I have to assume that they are so satisfied with their partner that they don't have the biological need to look?

that's it for me.

[|Zach|]

Whoa, there are 7 fire trucks outside on my street, Out of nowhere.

[Jenny Gump]

Not hardly. They're just better at disguising it.

So, by your logic, very few are satisfied with their partners?

[Simplex3]

So, by your logic, very few are satisfied with their partners?
I'm very satisfied with my wife. Wouldn't trade her for anything or anyone. Doesn't mean I don't look. :shrug:

I just don't think one has anything to do with the other.

[ClevelandBronco]

It is interesting you bring this up....I have observed men, goodlooking men, who don't look. But 99% of men do. So what is up with that 1%? I have to assume that they are so satisfied with their partner that they don't have the biological need to look?

I don't know whether your statistics are accurate, but I don't direct more than a glance in the direction of another woman when I'm with my wife. I would consider anything more to be disrespectful to her. There may be other people around who happen to be female, but there's only one woman in the room.

For me it's a wholly voluntary and learned behavior.

[keg in kc]

I still admire women, but not like I used to...

"fifty percent of their charm is illusion"I've found over the years that the charm generally lasts right up until the point where you start to talk to each other.

And while that sounds horrible, what I really mean is that personality is such a big part of it. There's lots of beautiful women in the world. There aren't many with whom I click enough to spend hours a day talking.

Looks are superficial. The soul is what matters. If you can find one with both, be happy.

[Simplex3]

Whoa, there are 7 fire trucks outside on my street, Out of nowhere.
Are they staring at some chick's ass?

[Jenny Gump]

I don't know whether your statistics are accurate, but I don't direct more than a glance in the direction of another woman when I'm with my wife. I would consider anything more to be disrespectful to her. There may be other people around who happen to be female, but there's only one woman in the room.

For me it's a wholly voluntary and learned behavior.

I knew you were "out there" somewhere. Thank you for this.

[Simplex3]

I knew you were "out there" somewhere. Thank you for this.
He's a Bronco fan. You know he just dove into his wife's knee, waited until she was carted out of the room, then sprayed Pam cooking spray on the other chick's jersey.

[Phobia]

Unless your anniversary falls in that two month period that's what, zero sexual encounters?

Nah dude - we're pretty healthy in that department. She enjoys pleasing me and I her.

[keg in kc]

I would consider anything more to be disrespectful to her. I think that's a part of it.

And the reality is that for decades what we see on the Sopranos, where you can have a wife and something on the side, was acceptable behavior for a man as long as it wasn't too overt. Wheras woman have traditionally been expected to stay at home and wait for the man. Men are supposed to look! It's what we do... How many times have we all heard that?

I think my view on the equality of men and women, and the way I don't go for standard gender roles might have something to do with the way I behave. Although, it also may not. I may just be weird.

I had a discussion with a fella the other day in Fuddruckers, a guy in his early fifties, and he was shocked to hear that women can be guilty of infidelity, and not just men. It was very interesting talking to him, and how surprised he was that I know several women who've cheated on their s.o.'s. He thought (he literally said this) that only men cheated.

[Stinger]

I find it more at admiring the opposite sex. The first look it is only natural to look/gaze to see or admire so I would call that involuntary. It is those second and perhaps the third looks that get men into trouble and would then be voluntary.

[Simplex3]

Nah dude - we're pretty healthy in that department. She enjoys pleasing me and I her.
Uh, Ok.

Say, I have a leak somewhere in the front of my house (not the roof). I need that taken care of this spring as well as replacing anything that's been damaged by it, then all the rotten interior grade pine that my a**hole builder put on the outside of my house replaced before I have the fugger painted. There's also a giant bulge in the drywall in my entry way that I need to have fixed and a couple of places where I need some drywall patching from leaks in the windows that I've already replaced. Know anybody that can do that crap?

[Skip Towne]

Nah dude - we're pretty healthy in that department. She enjoys pleasing me and I her.
What a coincidence. That's the way she is with me.

[Phobia]

Uh, Ok.

Say, I have a leak somewhere in the front of my house (not the roof). I need that taken care of this spring as well as replacing anything that's been damaged by it, then all the rotten interior grade pine that my a**hole builder put on the outside of my house replaced before I have the fugger painted. There's also a giant bulge in the drywall in my entry way that I need to have fixed and a couple of places where I need some drywall patching from leaks in the windows that I've already replaced. Know anybody that can do that crap?

Yeah, that's right up my alley.

I'll PM a phone number.

[Phobia]

What a coincidence. That's the way she is with me.
I was wondering why we had so many DirectTV service calls.

[milkman]

I think that's a part of it.

And the reality is that for decades what we see on the Sopranos, where you can have a wife and something on the side, was acceptable behavior for a man as long as it wasn't too overt. Wheras woman have traditionally been expected to stay at home and wait for the man. Men are supposed to look! It's what we do... How many times have we all heard that?

I think my view on the equality of men and women, and the way I don't go for standard gender roles might have something to do with the way I behave. Although, it also may not. I may just be weird.

I had a discussion with a fella the other day in Fuddruckers, a guy in his early fifties, and he was shocked to hear that women can be guilty of infidelity, and not just men. It was very interesting talking to him, and how surprised he was that I know several women who've cheated on their s.o.'s. He thought (he literally said this) that only men cheated.

What cave has that guy been dwelling in?

[Hammock Parties]

I only look when I know I won't get caught. It's like a fun game.

[Simplex3]

I only look when I know I won't get caught. It's like a fun game.
She said a question for men and women. Not you.

[Hammock Parties]

She said a question for men and women. Not you.

I look at other its.

Check out the gazongas on this hosehound!

http://img296.imageshack.us/img296/9248/bbtm8.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

[Skip Towne]

Jenny may be the exception but you can't tell me that most women don't want the looks they get. You can tell that by the way many of them dress.

[luv]

I'd feel pretty insecure, because that's the way I am. I wouldn't say anything about, though, unless I noticed it was a habit. Then I'd definitely bring it to his attention that I notice it, how it makes me feel, and then go from there.

Disclaimer...

I know absolutely ZERO about having or maintaining relationships, so this is just a logical conclusion that comes to my mind.

[keg in kc]

What cave has that guy been dwelling in?I wondered that myself.

He's not, however, the first guy I've met that thought like that, and I'm sure he won't be the last.

[keg in kc]

I'd feel pretty insecure, because that's the way I am. I wouldn't say anything about, though, unless I noticed it was a habit. Then I'd definitely bring it to his attention that I notice it, how it makes me feel, and then go from there.

Disclaimer...

I know absolutely ZERO about having or maintaining relationships, so this is just a logical conclusion that comes to my mind.I'd say that's exactly what you'd need to do in a relationship. If the two of you can't come together on that much, there's probably not much of a future.

[Phobia]

I'd feel pretty insecure, because that's the way I am. I wouldn't say anything about, though, unless I noticed it was a habit. Then I'd definitely bring it to his attention that I notice it, how it makes me feel, and then go from there.

Disclaimer...

I know absolutely ZERO about having or maintaining relationships, so this is just a logical conclusion that comes to my mind.

Having a relationship is making it work for you both. If that means he's allowed to look openly, great. If it means that he's required to be subtle about it, then you should explain that. But nothing you say or do is going to keep him from looking if he wants to. If he's so utterly into you that he has no desire to look, that's one thing (and also very rare, IMO). But if his open ogling makes you uncomfortable then he either needs to make you feel more secure or do a better job of hiding it.

[Simplex3]

Having a relationship is making it work for you both. If that means he's allowed to look openly, great. If it means that he's required to be subtle about it, then you should explain that. But nothing you say or do is going to keep him from looking if he wants to. If he's so utterly into you that he has no desire to look then he's a sociopathic killer. But if his open ogling makes you uncomfortable then he either needs to make you feel more secure or do a better job of hiding it.
Fixed your post.

[BucEyedPea]

If he's so utterly into you that he has no desire to look then you're a sociopathic killer.

FYP on your FYP!

[Simplex3]

FYP on your FYP!
Just put the lotion on before I have to spray you with this hose again.

[Nzoner]

I would never think of looking at another woman when I'm with mrs Nzoner that's why when we met I told her I had very sensitive eyes and must at all times indoors or out wear my Cheap Sunglasses with the glare so dark you don't even know my name.


a haw haw haw........

http://tinyurl.com/29q7by

[keg in kc]

Having a relationship is making it work for you both. If that means he's allowed to look openly, great. If it means that he's required to be subtle about it, then you should explain that. But nothing you say or do is going to keep him from looking if he wants to. If he's so utterly into you that he has no desire to look, that's one thing (and also very rare, IMO). But if his open ogling makes you uncomfortable then he either needs to make you feel more secure or do a better job of hiding it.Or they both need to call it a night and find somebody else.

[Rain Man]

If I had a broken neck and was wearing one of those halo things with the screws digging into my skull and the doctor was adjusting them with a really big cordless drill that was driving the screws further and further into my brain and he told me not to move or I would permanently lose the ability to tell a cat from a grilled cheese sandwich, and then an attractive nurse entered the room to my left, I would spend the rest of my life biting cats.

Long story short: I have no more control over this than I have over my heart beating.

[ChiefaRoo]

It is a response that goes back thousands of years to a time when males needed to impregnate as many women as possible to ensure the survival of the species. That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

Skip you don't bang women anymore so just keep your comments between you and your goat.

[Phobia]

Skip you don't bang women anymore so just keep your comments between you and your goat.

Why don't skip and you take your little man-crush to negative-rep so the rest of us aren't tortured by it daily.

[luv]

Having a relationship is making it work for you both. If that means he's allowed to look openly, great. If it means that he's required to be subtle about it, then you should explain that. But nothing you say or do is going to keep him from looking if he wants to. If he's so utterly into you that he has no desire to look, that's one thing (and also very rare, IMO). But if his open ogling makes you uncomfortable then he either needs to make you feel more secure or do a better job of hiding it.
Oh, I know guys are gonna look. I do believe it's in their nature. I would just hope he has enough respect for me and my feelings to not be that open about while we're together. Is that asking too much?

[Jenny Gump]

Oh, I know guys are gonna look. I do believe it's in their nature. I would just hope he has enough respect for me and my feelings to not be that open about while we're together. Is that asking too much?

Agreed. Although I have to say that Jim does a pretty decent job at hiding it from me.

[Simplex3]

Who could have guessed this thread would devolve into people saying that others aren't attractive?

Yes, I'm aware that I started it.

[Rain Man]

Oh, I know guys are gonna look. I do believe it's in their nature. I would just hope he has enough respect for me and my feelings to not be that open about while we're together. Is that asking too much?

It really depends on what the other woman is wearing.

[Simplex3]

Oh, I know guys are gonna look. I do believe it's in their nature. I would just hope he has enough respect for me and my feelings to not be that open about while we're together. Is that asking too much?
See, I don't stare. I rarely sneak a second look.

Basically I think 80% of guys fall where I do. I'm looking around, because that's what I do. I watch for stuff. Dangers, maybe. In the furtherance of that I see a hottie. This does, in fact, register in my brain. The same that it registers when I see a ditch pig, or some 600lb lardass, or some meth-chic weirdo. My brain is registering things that are outside of normal limits. Actually, I'll likely take a second glance at most of those people.

:shrug:

[luv]

It really depends on what the other woman is wearing.
If she's wearing something that revealing, then I'm gonna comment on her myself. Only probably not in the same way he would. :)

[Jenny Gump]

See, I don't stare. I rarely sneak a second look.

Basically I think 80% of guys fall where I do. I'm looking around, because that's what I do. I watch for stuff. Dangers, maybe. In the furtherance of that I see a hottie. This does, in fact, register in my brain. The same that it registers when I see a ditch pig, or some 600lb lardass, or some meth-chic weirdo. My brain is registering things that are outside of normal limits. Actually, I'll likely take a second glance at most of those people.

:shrug:

this makes sense

[Phobia]

Oh, I know guys are gonna look. I do believe it's in their nature. I would just hope he has enough respect for me and my feelings to not be that open about while we're together. Is that asking too much?
I don't know. I'm a dude. My preference is that you would embrace the tendency and make it into a hobby or a game - see if you can point out the pretty girls before he does. But it's not for everyone. Just because he's looking doesn't mean he's straying.

[Skip Towne]

Why don't skip and you take your little man-crush to negative-rep so the rest of us aren't tortured by it daily.
I agree. This guy just won't leave me alone. He PM'd the other day and told me I have a nice ass. I guess you can't expect a Shox fan to be heterosexual.

[Jenny Gump]

I don't know. I'm a dude. My preference is that you would embrace the tendency and make it into a hobby or a game - see if you can point out the pretty girls before he does. But it's not for everyone. Just because he's looking doesn't mean he's straying.

Would you do the same for Pink in reverse? Make a cute little game out of pointing out the men she might find attractive?

[keg in kc]

If she's wearing something that revealing, then I'm gonna comment on her myself. Only probably not in the same way he would."Oh god, honey, I want to lick that cleavage"

And then he looks at you, perplexed.

[Rain Man]

I stare.

[keg in kc]

Would you do the same for Pink in reverse? Make a cute little game out of pointing out the men she might find attractive?I can see it now. Phil points, "hey honey, he's got a nice ass. Look! I bet he has a big fat cock, too. I wonder if he likes my hair?"

[Simplex3]

this makes sense
Yeah, so we do it because we're protecting you. That's it! That's our story and we're sticking to it!

[Simplex3]

"Oh god, honey, I want to lick that cleavage"

And then he looks at you, completely turned on.
FYP

[luv]

this makes sense
NO! Don't fall for it! Don't do it!

[Calcountry]

Ha, I was talking about this with a coworker the other day. There is a new girl...she is a 15 on a 10 point scale total bombshell. As I was moving through the room I couldn't help but watch her her bend over in a fairly short skirt picking something up...I then looked across the other room where another girl I worked with had a "I just caught you, that wasn't subtle" look.

She was laughing at me. I told her that there was something about it...I was totally drawn in more so than just checking some girl out. I was saynig that there was something very biological about it.

I think it is situational.Sounds like you are flirting with a sexual harassment lawsuit.

[Rain Man]

this makes sense

Then that's what I do, too.

[Phobia]

Would you do the same for Pink in reverse? Make a cute little game out of pointing out the men she might find attractive?
Absolutely. I have no problem with her ogling a well-built guy. She slobbers all over Tim McGraw, Dennis Quaid, and Jon Bon Jovi each time they make an appearance on the tube. I don't have a problem with it at all. Fair is fair. I know where she sleeps at night.

[Skip Towne]

Agreed. Although I have to say that Jim does a pretty decent job at hiding it from me.
Yeah, he told me you are a really good kid but very naive. He said he can get away with anything.

[Rain Man]

"Oh god, honey, I want to lick that cleavage"

And then he looks at you, perplexed.


And then he secretly tells the waiter to send a drink to the woman with your name on it.

[Jenny Gump]

Yeah, he told me you are a really good kid but very naive. He said he can get away with anything.

I figured as much. LOL

[keg in kc]

I don't know about the whole "looking around" argument. My head's always on a swivel, probably to the point where people'd call me paranoid. And my eyes are no more likely to light on an attractive woman than they are a fire hydrant. *shrug*

There's a dog joke in there somewhere.

[Rain Man]

My wife likes Jude Law, so this year for Valentine's Day I made her a card with Jude Law's picture on it, and he was lamenting that he couldn't have her because she was already taken by me.

[|Zach|]

Sounds like you are flirting with a sexual harassment lawsuit.
Bah, just a bunch of college kids working together...

[ChiefaRoo]

Why don't skip and you take your little man-crush to negative-rep so the rest of us aren't tortured by it daily.

suck my b**ls

[keg in kc]

suck my b**lsThe jelly bean discussion's back in the easter candy thread.

[Phobia]

I agree. This guy just won't leave me alone. He PM'd the other day and told me I have a nice ass. I guess you can't expect a Shox fan to be heterosexual.
It goes equally for you. You're both stupid.

[ChiefaRoo]

I look at other its.

Check out the gazongas on this hosehound!

http://img296.imageshack.us/img296/9248/bbtm8.jpg (http://imageshack.us)


You need a shrink

[Phobia]

suck my b**ls

I'm not gonna play your stupid game, dude. Do what you wish.

[Skip Towne]

suck my b**ls
See what I mean, Phil, the guy is really swishy.

[Rain Man]

I don't know about the whole "looking around" argument. My head's always on a swivel, probably to the point where people'd call me paranoid. And my eyes are no more likely to light on an attractive woman than they are a fire hydrant. *shrug*



In my case, that's true only when the fire hydrant is nipping out.

http://www.mediaport.net/CP/Artichaud/Tran/sources/firehydrant.jpg

[keg in kc]

In my case, that's true only when the fire hydrant is nipping out.

http://www.mediaport.net/CP/Artichaud/Tran/sources/firehydrant.jpgPut a wig on it and you're good to go?

[Rain Man]

Put a wig on it and you're good to go?

Personally, I'm not into those piercings with the chains.

[Ebolapox]

My wife is great.

Many times she will point out a girl in public that she thinks is cute...

eh, my 'almost' wife (engaged) is the same way--though it's probably because she's bi-curious

[Skip Towne]

I figured as much. LOL
Nah, not really. I'm an instigator. I can go out in a field and get the rabbits fighting each other.

[ChiefaRoo]

I'm not gonna play your stupid game, dude. Do what you wish.

Of course I'll do what I wish. You never had a say in it.

Just so they're no hard feelings. You can just go ahead and suck Skip's b**ls.

[ChiefaRoo]

Nah, not really. I'm an instigator. I can go out in a field and get the rabbits fighting each other.

What else do you do to animals in the field skip? Come on tell us. You know you want to.

[Bowser]

There is a difference between looking and acting. I look all the time, so does my wife. The two best examples of her looking are 1) when she got shit hammered at the ChiefsPlanet game two years ago, and was all gaga over CanadianChief and his buddies, and 2) the home opener last year we sat next to ex-Chief Derrick Walker and two of his friends. Very good looking guys, and she couldn't keep the drool in her mouth. Nor could any of the other women in the section. She was shit hammered again, so there may possibly be a connection.

Here's another question to go along with the spitit of the thread -

Can a person be in love with two people at the same time?

[luv]

What else do you do to animals in the field skip? Come on tell us. You know you want to.
Would you go rub one out already?

[Phobia]

Just so they are no hard feelings from me, I've been next in line for the last three months behind you. Get up already, ChiefaGoo.

[luv]

Here's another question to go along with the spitit of the thread -

Can a person be in love with two people at the same time?
No.

[keg in kc]

Can a person be in love with two people at the same time?Does being in love with yourself count as one? hehe

[Skip Towne]

Of course I'll do what I wish. You never had a say in it.

Just so they're no hard feelings. You can just go ahead and suck Skip's b**ls.
Whoa!! This guy is really over the top. Now he he wants a homo threesome. Eeeeww!

[ChiefaRoo]

Would you go rub one out already?

I'm going to ignore your little jab because your a girl. Just a little, weak, wet your pants and cry girl. Just gonna ignore you and rise above it.

[Bowser]

Does being in love with yourself count as one? hehe

Well, that's implied. So I guess I meant three people. :D

[Skip Towne]

Would you go rub one out already?
Haw haw haw. Even Luv can see how abnormal you are. She never talks bad to anybody.

[luv]

I'm going to ignore your little jab because your a girl. Just a little, weak, wet your pants and cry girl. Just gonna ignore you and rise above it.
Let me join you in that by placing you and your annoying Skip fetish on ignore. Buh-bye.

[Skip Towne]

I'm going to ignore your little jab because your a girl. Just a little, weak, wet your pants and cry girl. Just gonna ignore you and rise above it.
You're

[ChiefaRoo]

You're

Thanks Skip. You can return to the mobile home now.

[Phobia]

Let me join you in that by placing you and your annoying Skip fetish on ignore. Buh-bye.
I think that's a great idea.

[ChiefaRoo]

Let me join you in that by placing you and your annoying Skip fetish on ignore. Buh-bye.

Aww, she ran away. I apoligize if I made you cry luv.

[|Zach|]

Roo's deeply routed obsessive douchebaggery is incredible.

It pretty much weirds out the whole board. I can only guess that he doesn't really realize how much time he dedicates talking about Skip here. I don't think he sees it.

[ChiefaRoo]

Skip. Will you please put me on ignore too? Thanks a lot buddy.

PS - When are you going to be done detailing my car?

[Rain Man]

No.

No? How can the answer be no? Out of 6 billion people in the world, there's only one person with the right traits for you to love? Or do you shut down the love receptors once you pick one of the 14,284 that do possess those traits?

[Bowser]

LMAO

[Skip Towne]

Chiefaroo is like he is because I've made such a fool out of him here. He has come to adore his tormentor. It's called the Stockholm Syndrome.

[Rain Man]

I'm concerned that people here would rather talk about each other than about techniques to sneak peeks at lovely, swaying, jouncing passersby.

[Skip Towne]

I'm concerned that people here would rather talk about each other than about techniques to sneak peeks at lovely, swaying, jouncing passersby.
I think the main reason guys check out chicks is that for every lovely, swaying, jouncing chick you see 20 obese, obnoxious, repulsive slobs. The good ones are very rare. So we have to look when we see a queen.

[ChiefaRoo]

Chiefaroo is like he is because I've made such a fool out of him here. He has come to adore his tormentor. It's called the Stockholm Syndrome.


Nice try skip. Did one of the smarter guys on the board teach you to say that?

[luv]

No? How can the answer be no? Out of 6 billion people in the world, there's only one person with the right traits for you to love? Or do you shut down the love receptors once you pick one of the 14,284 that do possess those traits?
I guess I think of it as loving two people at the same time, on the same level. Once you choose the person you're going to spend the rest of your life loving, then, yes, you turn off the love receptors. You can be friends with and respect people, but you should choose to not love them the way you have the person you're with. I have no clue if that makes sense to anyone but me, and maybe I just have a lot to learn. That's just what I believe from my own experiences for right now.

[boogblaster]

Looking is nature..touching is pleasure..avoiding is lying....

[cdcox]

I'm concerned that people here would rather talk about each other than about techniques to sneak peeks at lovely, swaying, jouncing passersby.

My standard technique is to scan way ahead of me. When I see someone attractive I divert my eyes and act like I haven't noticed them until we get to optimum viewing distance, then I get a good look up close. If we end up making eye contact, it appears to be just that nonchalant acknowledgement of another human being, rather than the awkward "oh crap you caught me staring at you" moment.

Although I'm pretty sure I got busted last week. I was doing my normal technique, to this attractive young women in very large sunglasses. I probably had a strange espression on my face when she waved and said my name. Once she passed, I realized it was one of the students in my class.

[Skip Towne]

I guess I think of it as loving two people at the same time, on the same level. Once you choose the person you're going to spend the rest of your life loving, then, yes, you turn off the love receptors. You can be friends with and respect people, but you should choose to not love them the way you have the person you're with. I have no clue if that makes sense to anyone but me, and maybe I just have a lot to learn. That's just what I believe from my own experiences for right now.
Are you aware the divorce rate exceeds 50% in the US? Isn't that proof enough that there isn't just one guy/gal for each of us?

[boogblaster]

Knotty Professer....

[Skip Towne]

Skip. Will you please put me on ignore too? Thanks a lot buddy.

PS - When are you going to be done detailing my car?
OK. I've enjoyed punking you but apparently the rest of the board hasn't. Buh-bye

[keg in kc]

Are you aware the divorce rate exceeds 50% in the US? Isn't that proof enough that there isn't just one guy/gal for each of us?I don't think there's just one, although I do agree with luv there should only be one at a time. 'cause, as I see it, if you're loving someone else, then you probably don't really love the one you're with...

As for the divorce rate, I don't think that proves there's more than one, I think that just proves that people don't know what they're getting into, and often make poor choices.

[Bugeater]

Are you aware the divorce rate exceeds 50% in the US? Isn't that proof enough that there isn't just one guy/gal for each of us?
No, that just proves women are impossible to get along with.

[Hammock Parties]

I was doing my normal technique, to this attractive young women in very large sunglasses. I probably had a strange espression on my face when she waved and said my name. Once she passed, I realized it was one of the students in my class.

Is she failing? You might be able to do her.

[boogblaster]

You ever ride a bike till it needs repaired all the time...damn a new one sure looks and feels good..

[cdcox]

Is she failing? You might be able to do her.

I know you're joking, but men who cheat on their wives and authority figures who abuse their influence are some of my least favored people. I'd pass if the situation arose, which it hasen't in 16 years of teaching.

[Skip Towne]

Oooh, man, channel 6 just did an extended interview with OU's women's BB coach Sherri Coale. She looks great and has that husky voice. She makes me feel funny "down there". Is this normal?

[Hammock Parties]

It depends. When was your last dose of viagra?

[keg in kc]

Oooh, man, channel 6 just did an extended interview with OU's women's BB coach Sherri Coale. She looks great and has that husky voice. She makes me feel funny "down there". Is this normal?At your age?

No.

Unless you took the wrong pill a few minutes ago.

[Phobia]

Oooh, man, channel 6 just did an extended interview with OU's women's BB coach Sherri Coale. She looks great and has that husky voice. She makes me feel funny "down there". Is this normal?

It may be normal, but I'm guessing she prefers women. It's just a guess.

[luv]

I don't think there's just one, although I do agree with luv there should only be one at a time. 'cause, as I see it, if you're loving someone else, then you probably don't really love the one you're with...

As for the divorce rate, I don't think that proves there's more than one, I think that just proves that people don't know what they're getting into, and often make poor choices.
:clap:

[cdcox]

It may be normal, but I'm guessing she prefers women. It's just a guess.

ROFL

[Hammock Parties]

I'd hit it.

http://img87.imageshack.us/img87/147/sherricoalesg3.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

http://img87.imageshack.us/img87/1889/inspire20025cfacultyimajz8.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

[boogblaster]

HOLD that thought Skip .....

[luv]

I'd hit it.

http://img87.imageshack.us/img87/147/sherricoalesg3.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

http://img87.imageshack.us/img87/1889/inspire20025cfacultyimajz8.jpg (http://imageshack.us)
How old is she compared to you? Am I going to have to start calling you Moooo? :p Just kidding, of course. I don't dislike you enough to do that to you.

[Hammock Parties]

How old is she compared to you? Am I going to have to start calling you Moooo? :p Just kidding, of course. I don't dislike you enough to do that to you.

Hell she's only 42.

[Hammock Parties]

Whoa. Maybe she IS a carpetmuncher:

I love Sheryl Crow. I love her raspy voiced lyrics that say the truth poetically. I love that she looks like she’s 25 although she’s 42.

[Bugeater]

I'd hit it.

http://img87.imageshack.us/img87/147/sherricoalesg3.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

Uh...no. Look where the cleavage starts and where the bottom of the boob is. I'm sensing some serious saggage there, I'll bet her nipples are pointing straight down.

[Hammock Parties]

Do you know how much power that woman has?

[Hammock Parties]

Oh yeah. She's a tigress. ROWR!

http://img92.imageshack.us/img92/8590/768595pi4.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

[Bowser]

Do you know how much power that woman has?

110 volt, with a few 220's thrown in for good measure?

[el borracho]

Lord knows, (and others too) that I have a vagina.
link?

[Skip Towne]

She reminds me of Anne Murray. And I really don't care what Sherri does with the rest of her time as long as she gives me my two minutes.

[Hammock Parties]

Look at that ass!

http://img92.imageshack.us/img92/7836/768701eh2.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

[Hammock Parties]

Tits look fine.

http://img340.imageshack.us/img340/2394/dsc0010qn0.jpg (http://imageshack.us)

[Skip Towne]

Uh...no. Look where the cleavage starts and where the bottom of the boob is. I'm sensing some serious saggage there, I'll bet her nipples are pointing straight down.
Them's fightin' words, mister.

[Rain Man]

My standard technique is to scan way ahead of me. When I see someone attractive I divert my eyes and act like I haven't noticed them until we get to optimum viewing distance, then I get a good look up close. If we end up making eye contact, it appears to be just that nonchalant acknowledgement of another human being, rather than the awkward "oh crap you caught me staring at you" moment.

Although I'm pretty sure I got busted last week. I was doing my normal technique, to this attractive young women in very large sunglasses. I probably had a strange espression on my face when she waved and said my name. Once she passed, I realized it was one of the students in my class.

Good technique, good technique. I get a little greedy, though, in spending the last 30 years trying to figure out how long I can hold the first lock-in before the initial diverting. It's risky, because if you hold too long then you get noticed and you have to bail out on the second closer look. But it's necessay if you really want to maximize looking time.

This would be a good thesis topic.

[Skip Towne]

Tits look fine.

http://img340.imageshack.us/img340/2394/dsc0010qn0.jpg (http://imageshack.us)
You ought to hear her talk. Throaty, raspy...mmmmmmmm. And, she is among the best women's coaches in the country. Did I mention she is rich?

[Skip Towne]

A definite MILF. She has two kids, Colton and Chandler.

[Hammock Parties]

Skip, I'll tag team her ass with ya.

[cdcox]

Good technique, good technique. I get a little greedy, though, in spending the last 30 years trying to figure out how long I can hold the first lock-in before the initial diverting. It's risky, because if you hold too long then you get noticed and you have to bail out on the second closer look. But it's necessay if you really want to maximize looking time.

This would be a good thesis topic.

Well, I'd be a liar if I said I never had to forgo the second close look becuase I'd over indulged on the approach.I hate it when that happens.

[Bugeater]

Them's fightin' words, mister.
On that topic, I'm quite sure that she could kick my ass.

[cdcox]

Skip, I'll tag team her ass with ya.

I have no idea how I'm going to rid myself of that image before falling asleep.

[Skip Towne]

Skip, I'll tag team her ass with ya.
High Five! I'd take sloppy seconds with Sherri. I'm not sure but I think she is from Edmond, OK. Same home town as Bill Self. Hook those two up and produce a super coach.

[Skip Towne]

On that topic, I'm quite sure that she could kick my ass.
After listening to her voice, fighting her would be the last thing on your mind. Did I mention she is a great recruiter? Both the brothers and the sisters of the recruit want to go with her. She's a real people pleaser.

[ChiefaRoo]

I have no idea how I'm going to rid myself of that image before falling asleep.

I think it's safe to say the board has collectively thrown up in our mouths a little bit after that little bit of mental imagery.

[StcChief]

Involuntary. Biological. a Cavemen brought forward thing.

[crazycoffey]

High Five! I'd take sloppy seconds with Sherri. I'm not sure but I think she is from Edmond, OK. Same home town as Bill Self. Hook those two up and produce a super coach.



:Lin:

[Halfcan]

I think it is disrespectful to check out other chicks when I am with my girl-so I refrain from said activity.

[Iowanian]

You can take the dog out of the hunt, but you'll never take the hunt out of this dog.

[StcChief]

Married guys...

Look over the Menu....just don't order.

[Redrum_69]

Lord knows, (and others too) that I have a vagina. I have had it since birth, hence making me a woman by the traditional standard.

I have a question for the men and the women out there...For the men: When you are out with your woman, whom which you obviously are attracted to, or you would be at home instead...when a good looking woman walks by, and you look, glance, slobber, or whatever it is that you do, would you classify that as more of a biological response, (in that you couldn't help yourself) or is it more psychological?

For the women....When your man does this, does it make you feel like a throw-away? Or are you very forgiving and understanding?

This is my attempt at a sociological insight into the relationships between men and women.



Having experience from being a bouncer at a strip club, I can say this.

Trust your man and dont be jealous.

Unless you are some old fat hag, then yeah..I'd be worried...because hes prolly plotting some foreign land to claim and discover.

I think all women should be comfortable with their man checking out other women and those that dont trust, then there are issues, probably some previous baggage from an ex-boyfriend that cheated on her or some shit.

Which further shows me that ALL or MOST women need some psychological counselling if they have been in a previous relationship.

[crazycoffey]

Having experience from being a bouncer at a strip club, I can say this.

Trust your man and dont be jealous.

Unless you are some old fat hag, then yeah..I'd be worried...because hes prolly plotting some foreign land to claim and discover.

I think all women should be comfortable with their man checking out other women and those that dont trust, then there are issues, probably some previous baggage from an ex-boyfriend that cheated on her or some shit.

Which further shows me that ALL or MOST women need some psychological counselling if they have been in a previous relationship.



Your best mom joke ever!

[Nzoner]

Married guys...

Look over the Menu....just don't order.

And if busted simply say,"meh she's nothing but an appetizer,baby you know you'll always be my main course."

[Bowser]

I think it is disrespectful to check out other chicks when I am with my girl-so I refrain from said activity.

Haha.

Is she gone yet, or still standing over your shoulder?

[Hammock Parties]

High Five! I'd take sloppy seconds with Sherri. I'm not sure but I think she is from Edmond, OK.

What is it about Oklahoma girls? I love them.

[ChiefaRoo]

I think it is disrespectful to check out other chicks when I am with my girl-so I refrain from said activity.


pussy

[ck_IN]

<i> Quote:Originally Posted by Halfcan
I think it is disrespectful to check out other chicks when I am with my girl-so I refrain from said activity.

pussy</i>

No that would make him a man whose big head is in charge of his little one. And a man with a modicum of class.

I'll check things out when I'm alone or with the guys but never when with my woman. It's a low class act and disrespectful. Not to mention if busted it cuts ones chances of getting any that night.

[bkkcoh]

I think it is disrespectful to check out other chicks when I am with my girl-so I refrain from said activity.


And your woman is scoping out the guys in the area either. Come on, get real. Everyone looks, guys just aren't a good at concealing it and women...

and you will got to hell for telling lies....

[ChiefaRoo]

And your woman is scoping out the guys in the area either. Come on, get real. Everyone looks, guys just aren't a good at concealing it and women...

and you will got to hell for telling lies....

Well said. Aww the sweet sound of the truth blowing in the face of the pussy whipped "my dicks in her purse" guy. Puts a smile on my face.

[Fire Me Boy!]

I tend to glance... my wife doesn't really care. She grew up in with a close relationship to her grandfather, who says "The day I stop lookin' is the day I died." She told me since we started dating that she didn't mind if I looked.

And after 4+ years of marriage, that has stood true.

[ChiefaRoo]

I tend to glance... my wife doesn't really care. She grew up in with a close relationship to her grandfather, who says "The day I stop lookin' is the day I died." She told me since we started dating that she didn't mind if I looked.

And after 4+ years of marriage, that has stood true.

Try this. Get about 3" from a hot chicks body. Look closely. Then see if the wife reacts. If not, she banging the UPS guy.

[boogblaster]

I thought that UPS bastard was cuming around too much ....

[Jenny Gump]

<i> Quote:Originally Posted by Halfcan
I think it is disrespectful to check out other chicks when I am with my girl-so I refrain from said activity.

pussy</i>

No that would make him a man whose big head is in charge of his little one. And a man with a modicum of class.

I'll check things out when I'm alone or with the guys but never when with my woman. It's a low class act and disrespectful. Not to mention if busted it cuts ones chances of getting any that night.

Great post IMO. Especially smart about the getting any part.

[Phobia]

Great post IMO. Especially smart about the getting any part.

I don't like you any more.

[ClevelandBronco]

Good grief. What kind of example did your fathers set for you? They should be ashamed of the way they treated your mothers, if they gave you the impression that your attitudes are in any way acceptable.

My mother, my wife and my daughter will be honored by the behavior that I was taught by my father and by the behavior I will teach to my son.

So many boys to choose from, so few men.

[ChiefFripp]

I'm one of the few who can control this instinct. Why look at another woman ensuring I won't get ANY sex that night?

[Silock]

I don't look, whether I'm with my wife or alone. I find that if I look at the menu, I get hungry. No need to ruin my perfectly good diet.

[Halfcan]

<i> Quote:Originally Posted by Halfcan
I think it is disrespectful to check out other chicks when I am with my girl-so I refrain from said activity.

pussy</i>

No that would make him a man whose big head is in charge of his little one. And a man with a modicum of class.

I'll check things out when I'm alone or with the guys but never when with my woman. It's a low class act and disrespectful. Not to mention if busted it cuts ones chances of getting any that night.

I agree- more than likely, the girl has already seen the hottie before you and is waiting to see if you gawk like a caveman, like most guys-or if you are really focused on her. I mean if you happened to glance up, that is one thing, but if you stare longer than say 3 seconds, or if your eyes go directly to her ass-you just busted yourself and disrespected your girl. If you are with someone you care about- be a gentlemen and respect her feelings. It goes a long way toward building trust.

[Halfcan]

And your woman is scoping out the guys in the area either. Come on, get real. Everyone looks, guys just aren't a good at concealing it and women...

and you will got to hell for telling lies....

By ass gazing while with your girl-that can also can give off signals that you are looking to upgrade, or that you are more interested in looking around than focusing on the moment with her.

You call it being whipped- I think it is just showing repect.

It is all the little things that matter to women, like holding the door, the little notes, basically just showing that you are thinking of them and want to make them smile. Taking care of them in the bedroom later after you (Didn't look) and you had a great evening-counts for something too-always put your women first and you will be a happy man.

[Phobia]

I agree- more than likely, the girl has already seen the hottie before you and is waiting to see if you gawk like a caveman, like most guys-or if you are really focused on her. I mean if you happened to glance up, that is one thing, but if you stare longer than say 3 seconds, or if your eyes go directly to her ass-you just busted yourself and disrespected your girl. If you are with someone you care about- be a gentlemen and respect her feelings. It goes a long way toward building trust.

Unless your woman is secure enough to handle it. My wife used to be secure enough to renew my subscription to the gentlmens magazine. That whaned and the magazine stopped coming but she's fine with some looking around. She knows the deal, which is amazing since she had no brothers growing up. I don't know why she's so accepting but she doesn't consider it a disrespect issue. I'm not lusting after the hotties, just appreciating their fine build. Of course, my wife is pretty hot in her own right so maybe that's the difference between the ladies whose houses you paint and the lady whose house I paint. ;)

[KS Smitty]

Mr. Smitty is only allowed to look at unattractive women. Which is why his eyes are closed in pictures taken of him.

Seriously WTF?? Are we supposed to go through life not seeing what other people look like, good, bad or ugly?

[Amnorix]

It's involuntary. Think of a dog who is always well fed, but you pass a steak by it's nose. It's at least going to look...

My wife and I are perfect for each other in every way, I'm happy to say, up to and including the fact that she will point out any hot/underdressed women that are around on the odd occassion that I am distracted by something else. Yes, I do love her. :D

And my main phrase for this is "I'm married, not blind".

EDIT to note that I do try to be subtle about it. It's not as if I'm walking in the mall with my wife and my head is on a swivel and I'm ignoring her. That would be disrespectful and low-class, as others have said.

If we're talking, then she has my full attention, etc.

[Simply Red]

Lord knows, (and others too) that I have a vagina. I have had it since birth, hence making me a woman by the traditional standard.

I have a question for the men and the women out there...For the men: When you are out with your woman, whom which you obviously are attracted to, or you would be at home instead...when a good looking woman walks by, and you look, glance, slobber, or whatever it is that you do, would you classify that as more of a biological response, (in that you couldn't help yourself) or is it more psychological?

For the women....When your man does this, does it make you feel like a throw-away? Or are you very forgiving and understanding?

This is my attempt at a sociological insight into the relationships between men and women.
yes.

[RJ]

This thread is soooo March.

[007]

yes.
geez red. Just a few months behind on your posts are ya?