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Hammock Parties
06-27-2007, 11:17 PM
I'd have no problem dating a 20-year old, or even an 18-year old ( :drool: ), but I wouldn't date anyone older than say...28.

Direckshun
06-27-2007, 11:18 PM
I'd be more likely to go older. I've dated more older folks than I have younger.

Mr Luzcious
06-27-2007, 11:19 PM
I happen to know a couple who are 25 and 18. It's not as odd as I thought it would be.

007
06-27-2007, 11:19 PM
I have dated younger and older. I married the woman that was older than me. Matureness goes a long way.

Mr. Flopnuts
06-27-2007, 11:21 PM
I happen to know a couple who are 25 and 18. It's not as odd as I thought it would be.


That was my wife and I 5 years ago. Now I'm 30 and she's 23. It's not any different depending on personality and experience. I got really lucky with mine. She fell into my lap.

Direckshun
06-27-2007, 11:21 PM
Matureness goes a long way.
That's kind of how I feel.

For the most part, though, I tend to have a lot more in common with older women for whatever reason.

Direckshun
06-27-2007, 11:22 PM
I got really lucky with mine. She fell into my lap.
:drool:

Hammock Parties
06-27-2007, 11:22 PM
That was my wife and I 5 years ago. Now I'm 30 and she's 23.

That's pretty ****ing hot right there.

bdeg
06-27-2007, 11:23 PM
I think at 20 it would be pretty a little wrong dating a 15 year old.

But I have always dated older, don't really know why.

I could easily see this trend reversing in a few years though...

DaneMcCloud
06-27-2007, 11:23 PM
My wife is 7 years younger. Since women mature more quickly than men, I need that buffer. :evil:

Smed1065
06-27-2007, 11:24 PM
She fell into my lap.

So you did get lucky, at the local club?
:)

el borracho
06-27-2007, 11:26 PM
I pretty much always date younger girls.

Logical
06-27-2007, 11:27 PM
Since you are afraid to go into a place to meet a girl, I suggest any age to start with for you.

Rain Man
06-27-2007, 11:35 PM
I'm married and no longer in the game, but this makes me wonder how rich I would have to be to get a date with an 18 year-old.

el borracho
06-27-2007, 11:48 PM
I'm married and no longer in the game, but this makes me wonder how rich I would have to be to get a date with an 18 year-old.
Price varies depending on nacionality of the 18 year-old. You would have to have a lot if you want an American.

TinyEvel
06-27-2007, 11:49 PM
That's pretty ****ing hot right there.

Oh oh, Flopnuts. Now Cuminthemail is going to be spanking it to your wife. And I have a sneaking suspicion your wife looks like Carrie Underwood.

luv
06-27-2007, 11:49 PM
Younger.

TinyEvel
06-27-2007, 11:50 PM
BTW, I dated a 20 year old when I was 24. She acted like a friggen 16 year-old. No Thanks.

Though, I'm 37 now, so, I'd go anywhere between 50 (she'd have to be a HOT 50) and 27.

But I've quit while ahead. I'll keep my 38er thank you very much.

007
06-27-2007, 11:50 PM
Oh oh, Flopnuts. Now Cuminthemail is going to be spanking it to your wife. And I have a sneaking suspicion your wife looks like Carrie Underwood.
Discussion is worthless without pics.

BWillie
06-27-2007, 11:51 PM
Can someone define dating for me? I haven't had a real actual tangible girlfriend since 2003. I had many many many before that. I decided it was enough, and I've been happier ever since. But, up until then, I have not dated anybody EVER older than me. I have had flings with older women, but if you were a guy, I would not wish to date anyone older. If it was a year or two no big deal, but say five..it would be weird.

kcxiv
06-27-2007, 11:51 PM
Doesnt matter, but 1 thing do know now that i am 30, is that slighly older women really intrigue me.

TinyEvel
06-27-2007, 11:54 PM
When I was in college I REALLY wanted to meet a sugarmomma. Like divorced woman with no kids in the house, living off the $10,000,000 divorce settlement. I could live in her place, go to school, race my bike, and all I'd have to do is light cooking and cleaning and eat her box, have sex with her now and then.
Never found her. No regrets. I probably would have gotten grossed out adn not lasted more tha na semester.

The closest I got was a Swedish chick who was house sitting a doctor's home in Hoillywood Hills. I knew she was getting poked by the guy but was happy to fill in while he was out of town for the week. Good times.

luv
06-27-2007, 11:55 PM
Doesnt matter, but 1 thing do know now that i am 30, is that slighly older women really intrigue me.
You're 30?

Demonpenz
06-27-2007, 11:56 PM
I would probably only date younger. Women my age think I am imature as hell.

Spicy McHaggis
06-28-2007, 12:03 AM
Legality issues state I can only date 5 years older. Not dating younger doesn't bother me too much as all the 18-19 year old girls I know are either emotional rollercoasters or just immature in general. But they're hot. So it's a mixed bag.

KCChiefsMan
06-28-2007, 12:45 AM
older for me, I don't think of it as her being older. I think of it as her having more experience.

j/k. I probably would be more inclined to date someone around the same age as me, 5 yrs older wouldn't bother me a bit, I'd like to find a woman who knows where she is going in life and is mature.

Mr. Flopnuts
06-28-2007, 01:00 AM
Oh oh, Flopnuts. Now Cuminthemail is going to be spanking it to your wife. And I have a sneaking suspicion your wife looks like Carrie Underwood.


My wife is waaaaaaaaay out of my league. I really have no clue why she is so infatuated with me. I positively do not deserve the quality of sex I get. Thank you God.

KC Jones
06-28-2007, 06:20 AM
Back in the day I dated several older women, but never too many that were younger. I think the biggest age difference was 11 years older than me. She was hot... and taught me quite a bit. She had a kid though and I realized right away I needed to get out of there before it got serious.

Silock
06-28-2007, 06:23 AM
I'm married, so this doesn't really apply. But since, I'm still in college, it's far more likely that I'd date someone younger.

2112
06-28-2007, 06:34 AM
When I was 36 my GF (at the time) was 25, it was very nice. you sacrifice maturity for the pretty face and smokin bod. but that relationship was doomed from the start, it was fun though.

DJay23
06-28-2007, 06:40 AM
I've only dated one person who was older than me, and she was only a year older. I found her to be a little too corny for my taste, but that was probably just her individual personality, not her age.

Five years is my celing and basement for age though. It seems women usually look for an older guy because they think they will be more mature/less likely to have wandering eyes/penis. That's not to say they won't, just less likely, and I think by and large it's true. Guys between the ages of 18 and about 25-26, at least that I know, seem to be more calm, more settled, less player-ish. The younger women I've dated have mostly all had serious psychological issues though, so maybe I need to go for someone older.

cadmonkey
06-28-2007, 06:43 AM
As much as I would like to say that I would more likely go for the younger, in reality I would more likely go for dating a girl 5 years older. My girlfriend is 3 years older than me right now. I am 29 she is 32

Buehler445
06-28-2007, 06:48 AM
Age doesn't matter. Only maturity. Some 18 year olds are seasoned like 30 year olds. Some 30 year olds still live off of their parents and couldn't care for themselves if their lives depended on it.

Iowanian
06-28-2007, 06:58 AM
I've dated both, married younger.

Someone like you NEEDS to START out with OLDER women.

The Rick
06-28-2007, 08:29 AM
Younger.

However, when I was 18, I dated a 23-year-old for a while and felt like an absolute stud.

GoHuge
06-28-2007, 08:54 AM
It seems like I always date younger women. It never lasts so maybe I ought to look at going older. I'm 27 so it's getting tougher and tougher to find a older chick that doesn't have kids.

My receptionist is 22 and is dating a guy that is 39. They've been together for 7 months and they seem to be doing great. That's a little extreme, but they seem happy.

Iowanian
06-28-2007, 09:09 AM
I was thinking about it......and I think I dated alot of similar personalities.

More often than not, as an adult, I've dated Nurses or Elementary School teachers.

What Career types do you date, besides the "super model" liars.

Frosty
06-28-2007, 09:09 AM
I have dated younger and older. I married the woman that was older than me. Matureness goes a long way.

Eh, my wife is 5 years younger than I am and has always been more mature. :)

I dated one gal for awhile that was 12 years older than I (she was 36 at the time). Man, her biological clock was ringing big time. http://bestsmileys.com/eek/3.gif

ChiefsCountry
06-28-2007, 09:29 AM
I always heard that if you are a guy and get an older girl you have some game.

Adept Havelock
06-28-2007, 09:36 AM
I was thinking about it......and I think I dated alot of similar personalities.

More often than not, as an adult, I've dated Nurses or Elementary School teachers.

What Career types do you date, besides the "super model" liars.

When I was dating, I noticed I had a habit of dating English Majors, regardless of what career they ended up in.


I've dated older and younger, but felt pretty proud when I was 19 dating a very nice looking 27 year old.

The old lady is two years younger.

RJ
06-28-2007, 10:21 AM
I am 48, my wife is 33.

The older the couple gets the less it matters. When we first dated she was 22 and there were times we ran into a generation gap but that rarely happens these days.

bogie
06-28-2007, 10:32 AM
I'm too old to date anyone older. Women older than me are, well, old.

luv
06-28-2007, 10:55 AM
...it's getting tougher and tougher to find a older chick that doesn't have kids.
This is why I tend to go for younger guys. Too many my age have the baggage of the ex and/or kids. nttawwt

BigMeatballDave
06-28-2007, 11:23 AM
No preference really. I am 36, and I met this girl who is 23. I have not been on a date with her, she wants to. I am just not sure about it, I just wish she was older. When I think about her, I imagine us 10 years younger. Kinda makes me shudder...

BigMeatballDave
06-28-2007, 11:25 AM
When I was in college I REALLY wanted to meet a sugarmomma. Like divorced woman with no kids in the house, living off the $10,000,000 divorce settlement. I could live in her place, go to school, race my bike, and all I'd have to do is light cooking and cleaning and eat her box, have sex with her now and then.
Never found her. No regrets. I probably would have gotten grossed out adn not lasted more tha na semester.

The closest I got was a Swedish chick who was house sitting a doctor's home in Hoillywood Hills. I knew she was getting poked by the guy but was happy to fill in while he was out of town for the week. Good times.I dream about this everyday...
:)

ZepSinger
06-28-2007, 11:27 AM
Younger. ALWAYS younger. My wife is 9 years younger than me; my girlfriend before that was 10 years younger. And back when I was touring, I don't even wanna know how much younger some of them were... :shake:

BigMeatballDave
06-28-2007, 11:34 AM
This is why I tend to go for younger guys. This could be the root of your problem finding a man...

Micjones
06-28-2007, 11:35 AM
5 years older.