Life NFT: Some tough news [Archive]

The Bad Guy

11-01-2008, 10:28 PM

Unfortunately tonight my wife and I found out that she had a miscarriage.

We are absolutely devistated. We were super excited about being parents for the first time.

If you could keep us in your prayers or thoughts, it would be much appreciated.

Buck

11-01-2008, 10:29 PM

So sorry man, I'll pray for you.

cdcox

11-01-2008, 10:36 PM

So sorry. I can't imagine. You and your wife are in my prayers.

ClevelandBronco

11-01-2008, 10:41 PM

I still wonder about a brother that I might have had almost four decades ago.

Prayers for healing and understanding coming your way.

Coach

11-01-2008, 10:50 PM

Damn man, that sucks. I'm sorry to hear. Not being rude, just curious, but this would have been your first born?

Buck

11-01-2008, 10:51 PM

Damn man, that sucks. I'm sorry to hear. Not being rude, just curious, but this would have been your first born?

The original Post says he and his wife were excited about becoming parents for the first time.

Frazod

11-01-2008, 10:53 PM

Sorry to hear it. :(

Bugeater

11-01-2008, 10:54 PM

Wow, I am so sorry to hear that. I can't even imagine how you two must feel right now.

TinyEvel

11-01-2008, 10:55 PM

My thoughts and prayers go out to you, bro.

This must be an incredibly tough time for the both of you, but maybe seek solace knowing that i know more than a handful of couples who've been through this and now have full, healthy families. God Bless you.

RNR

11-01-2008, 10:57 PM

Sorry to hear!

Coach

11-01-2008, 10:58 PM

The original Post says he and his wife were excited about becoming parents for the first time.

That's what I thought, but I thought I would get confirmation on it.

Buck

11-01-2008, 11:05 PM

That's what I thought, but I thought I would get confirmation on it.

Sad either way...

Fat Elvis

11-01-2008, 11:10 PM

My heart goes out to you and your wife.

teedubya

11-01-2008, 11:16 PM

My wife has had 3 of these, and each one is very tough. In fact, the doctor told us that 40-50% of all pregnancies end early on as a miscarriage. I had no idea.

My heart goes out to you, having gone through it a few times now. Luckily, the process has worked correctly 2 times now... and they are happy and healthy.

Rest assured that the same will happen for you. Perhaps something wasn't right with the pregnancy and nature did its course.

Now that she has become pregnant getting her pregnant again will be way easier. Give her lots of love and maybe some flowers... it will show your sweet side.

God bless ya'll.

Mr. Flopnuts

11-01-2008, 11:27 PM

Terrible. Prayers to you and yours.

Phobia

11-01-2008, 11:30 PM

Bummer. Been there. Let your wife grieve however she needs to. You can help her the most by just listening. You can't prod her to feel differently at all - not even a little.

Rain Man

11-01-2008, 11:58 PM

Sorry to hear. That would be a sad situation.

Rausch

11-02-2008, 01:31 AM

Sorry to hear this man.

You make the 4th person I've knows this year it's happened to. Good thoughts your way and perhaps consider talking with anyone else on here it's happened to.

Archie Bunker

11-02-2008, 02:16 AM

You and your wife are in my prayers.

Hang in there.

Pushead2

11-02-2008, 03:04 AM

I'm so sorry for you and your wife :(

OmahaChief

11-02-2008, 06:59 AM

I am really sorry to hear about this. Prayers go out to you guys.

Bwana

11-02-2008, 07:02 AM

Done, sorry to hear that bud.

Bowser

11-02-2008, 07:19 AM

Really sorry to hear this. Good thoughts coming your way.

dirk digler

11-02-2008, 07:38 AM

My prayers go out to you Bad Guy and your wife

Braincase

11-02-2008, 07:51 AM

It's always rough when you lose a pregnancy. My sympathies to you and your wife.

morphius

11-02-2008, 09:06 AM

Man, sorry for your loss, you and your wife will be in our prayers.

11-02-2008, 09:13 AM

So sorry for your sad news, I know this is terribly hard on you and your wife. Best thoughts and wishes for the two of you. Take good care of Mrs. Bad Guy.

Fire Me Boy!

11-02-2008, 09:15 AM

I have no words. I'm deeply sorry for you both. You're in my prayers.

Niblet2008

11-02-2008, 09:28 AM

So sorry to hear that dude. Prayers are with you and your family.

smittysbar

11-02-2008, 09:31 AM

Sorry to hear that, thoughts and prayer for you and your family.

C-Mac

11-02-2008, 09:33 AM

Very sorry to hear. I never appreciated the emotional side of this until my wife had her first miscarriage. Its still amazing to me that in the light of such a situation as yours, that abortion is still a debated issue.

Sure-Oz

11-02-2008, 09:39 AM

Sorry to hear that Frank, we are all hear for you and your wife man.

KcMizzou

11-02-2008, 10:03 AM

Shit. Hate to hear that, bud.

I know you were really excited about it. Hang in there.

Mr. Laz

11-02-2008, 10:10 AM

awwwwwwww ......... :sulk:

sorry man

Mr. Plow

11-02-2008, 12:08 PM

My wife & I have been through it as well - keep your head up. Prayers are with you.

bkkcoh

11-02-2008, 02:08 PM

sorry to hear about the loss for you and your wife.

rrl308

11-02-2008, 03:34 PM

Sorry to hear that man. Hang in there.

SAUTO

11-02-2008, 03:35 PM

REALLY sorry to hear this dude

memyselfI

11-02-2008, 03:35 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss. Please take the time you need to grieve and recover and know that many women miscarry and go on to have healthy pregnancies and deliveries after miscarrying and in time that is possible for the two of you.

I was fortunate to never have suffered one but my sister, sister in law, and friends have had them so I know it's tough. Take care.

Logical

11-02-2008, 04:19 PM

I am deeply sorry, DEnise actually provided good advice. You and you wife will be in my thoughts and prayers.

The Bad Guy

11-02-2008, 04:32 PM

Thanks to everyone who posted in this thread.

We are doing better today, and will continue to keep trying to start our family.

Thanks again.

keg in kc

11-02-2008, 04:40 PM

Sorry to hear about that Frank.

DaneMcCloud

11-02-2008, 05:14 PM

I'm very sorry about your loss, Frank.

If it's any consolation, we have many friends that have had miscarriages in the past 18-24 months, and all of the women have gone on to have very healthy, full-term babies almost immediately after.

Best wishes to you and your wife.

Dave Lane

11-02-2008, 05:46 PM

Good thoughts headed your way. This is actually very common on first pregnancy's and then lots of children make it later. Very sad for you dude but you'll get another chance! Hang in there!

acasas4

11-02-2008, 06:26 PM

Sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers for you and your wife.

tomahawk kid

11-02-2008, 07:25 PM

Been there bro.

Hang in.

Things will get better.

FAX

11-02-2008, 09:58 PM

I just want to say how sorry I am to hear of this, Mr. The Bad Guy. Please know that we are thinking of you. Things are difficult now. But, they will get better. Of that, I have no doubt and it's important to remind yourself that they will.

FAX

Iowanian

11-02-2008, 10:39 PM

Thats tough stuff. Things will get better.

KCJohnny

11-03-2008, 04:19 AM

May the God and Father of all mercies receive your little one into His loving arms, comfort you two in your season of grief, and strengthen your hope in His abundant provisions for your future.

Mrs. KCJ and I have been there.

Blessings,
KCJ

BigVE

11-03-2008, 05:58 AM

So sorry dude, that sucks. Don't give up though.

Deberg_1990

11-03-2008, 06:14 AM

Oh wow.....how did i miss this thread?

Im very sorry for your loss Bad Guy....

Ill keep you and your family in my prayers...

Sully

11-03-2008, 08:14 AM

I'm so sorry. Really.
You are in our prayers.
Please let my wife or I know if there is anthing we can do for you.

PhillyChiefFan

11-03-2008, 08:44 AM

My most sincere sympathies and condolences.

Prayers to you and your family, God bless.

Lzen

11-03-2008, 08:45 AM

That sucks, TBG. I'm sure if it's meant to be, the good Lord will bless you with a child. I know that's tough to see right now, but you have to stay positive. In the meantime, we'll pray for you guys.

bogey

11-03-2008, 12:15 PM

Very sorry. No words can make the pain go away. This too shall pass.

Jilly

11-03-2008, 12:21 PM

May Love surround you and comfort you in this difficult time. So sorry and I will definitely pray for you.

BIG_DADDY

11-03-2008, 06:16 PM

I am so sorry to hear that. You and your family will be in our prayers.

stevieray

11-03-2008, 07:17 PM

devastating news, TBG...hang in there...I'll pray for you and your wife...

Buehler445

11-03-2008, 07:21 PM

Sorry for your loss man. Keep your head up. Thoughts and prayers your way.

DeezNutz

11-03-2008, 08:52 PM

I'm sorry to learn of your loss. May God be with you and your family during these difficult times.

Mizzou_8541

11-03-2008, 10:38 PM

we are very sorry to hear that. My wife and I are sending up some prayers.

triple

11-04-2008, 12:15 AM

this is a very hard thing to go through and my thoughts are with you

The Franchise

11-04-2008, 09:17 AM

I'm very sorry for your loss. My fiance and I are trying right now to have a kid and this happening is in the back of our minds. I'm sorry that you had to experience it.

The Bad Guy

11-04-2008, 11:01 AM

Thanks again everyone.

We go to her OBGYN today to follow-up.

jAZ

11-04-2008, 11:15 AM

I can only imagine how hard that is for you both. I hope you are able to have the family you want one day. All the best.

kepp

11-04-2008, 12:45 PM

Sorry to hear it. My wife had two miscarriages before we were able to have our second child. It was terrible to go through...my thoughts & prayers are with you guys.