I am sick and tired....

[luv]

....of people who say they are my friend, but never act like it. Sick and fucking tired of it.

[siberian khatru]

Oh, all right then, here's that $20 you wanted to borrow.

http://www.insidesocal.com/bargain/TwentyDollarBill.jpg

[el borracho]

People can be such a disappointment.

[Bugeater]

Oh, all right then, here's that $20 you wanted to borrow.

http://www.insidesocal.com/bargain/TwentyDollarBill.jpg
Right-click, print image X100

[luv]

Right-click, print image X100

LMAO

[luv]

People can be such a disappointment.

Not all people. Some people never disappoint.

[Gonzo]

Right-click, print image X100

The idiots at wal-mart would probably take it.
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[Hammock Parties]

Watch Star Trek.

[RJ]

Right-click, print image X100

Don't waste your time. I tried to buy a 6 of natural light and a couple miniatures at 7-11 but they wouldn't take it.

[el borracho]

Well, not sure what the problem is, but here's a Gwen Stefani video with fly girls:

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[Gonzo]

Watch Star Trek.

I sense that you may be in geek-relapse...
A Boba-Fett avatar, home on a Saturday night advising people to watch Star Trek. Don't make me schedule an intervention.
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[luv]

A lot going on right now. A lot of change. I don't always deal well with change, especially alone (I know, you'd think I'd be used to doing everything alone by now). I reach out to people who claim to be my friend, and nothing. The friendship is pretty one-sided, so I'm tempted to just give up on it. Only problem is that's not the kind of friend I am.

On the other hand, I do have a friend or two who I know I can always count on. Thank God for them. Not sure what I would do without them.

[MoreLemonPledge]

http://i210.photobucket.com/albums/bb53/mellow0606/bears2222.gif

I'm Kendra. You're Nessa. I'm giving you a big hug.

[luv]

http://i210.photobucket.com/albums/bb53/mellow0606/bears2222.gif

I'm Kendra. You're Nessa. I'm giving you a big hug.

Dude. You have no idea how much you just freaked me out.

[Rain Man]

I would say you can count on me, but I just put you on ignore since I'm afraid you might want some kind of help.

[teedubya]

Get a LOT of cats.

[Crush]

Oh, all right then, here's that $20 you wanted to borrow.

http://www.insidesocal.com/bargain/TwentyDollarBill.jpg


Are you a cop? I'm not falling for this whole routine... again.

[RedNFeisty]

People suck, most are shallow, self centered, idiots.

[Rain Man]

People suck, most are shallow, self centered, idiots.


At first I assumed you were talking about me, but then I remembered that I wear expensive clothing.

[kcxiv]

....of people who say they are my friend, but never act like it. Sick and ****ing tired of it.

Welcome to life. Most people are like that. In this world people have only 1-3 true friends. the rest are just people you know.

[KcMizzou]

Dude. You have no idea how much you just freaked me out.Heh. It's a good point.

[luv]

At first I assumed you were talking about me, but then I remembered that I wear expensive clothing.

LMAO

[Sure-Oz]

A lot going on right now. A lot of change. I don't always deal well with change, especially alone (I know, you'd think I'd be used to doing everything alone by now). I reach out to people who claim to be my friend, and nothing. The friendship is pretty one-sided, so I'm tempted to just give up on it. Only problem is that's not the kind of friend I am.

On the other hand, I do have a friend or two who I know I can always count on. Thank God for them. Not sure what I would do without them.
If it's one sided, fuck it....seriously

Get a new friend or go to the ones that you can count on.

[RedNFeisty]

At first I assumed you were talking about me, but then I remembered that I wear expensive clothing.

I would never speak of you in such ways. Your clever, witty ways are forever enriching my days!! ;)

[Hammock Parties]

I sense that you may be in geek-relapse...
A Boba-Fett avatar, home on a Saturday night advising people to watch Star Trek. Don't make me schedule an intervention.
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Relapse?

My dear Gonzo, the nerd essence never left me, not even for a minute. It only remains dormant on dates. And when you date girls who wear Chewbacca shirts, it beams brightly.

I'm nerdcore, to the end.

[RedNFeisty]

If it's one sided, **** it....seriously

Get a new friend or go to the ones that you can count on.

You always find out who your true friends are when you need one. Unfortunately, that is when it hurts the most to realize they are not your real friend.

Welcome to life. Most people are like that. In this world people have only 1-3 true friends. the rest are just people you know.

I have one true friend, we can go months without talking. I spent a lot of time on her couch the last year...lol

[luv]

Sometimes, you just need a hug.

[Hammock Parties]

I am sick and tired of being told that I am sick and tired. I am not! But I am certainly sick and tired of being told that I am.

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[kcxiv]

You always find out who your true friends are when you need one. Unfortunately, that is when it hurts the most to realize they are not your real friend.



I have one true friend, we can go months without talking. I spent a lot of time on her couch the last year...lol

lol, have 2, 1 is iffy, but she's been there for me when i was in bad shape a few years back due to health reasons, lol. My other, he's like my brother, been best friends since we were 12 years old, we are now 33. lol I could clal him right now and tell him i need help, and he would be here in 5 min.

Other then that, thats it.lol I know people, and people i get along with and talk too, but not to count on for anything critical. Well, my sisters, but they are immediate family.

[patteeu]

What is it that you expect from a friend?

I could be wrong, but in my limited experience this seems to be a bigger problem with women than with men. My wife has a pretty busy job and she had a friend "break up" with her a few years ago because she wasn't available to go to lunch often enough. My wife had no idea that this former friend had a lunch date expectation until it was too late.

[big nasty kcnut]

Dang it luv *hugs* there you go. I alway try to call to give support all the time. Trust me i'm very good at pumping people up to be the best they can be.

[Sure-Oz]

What is it that you expect from a friend?

I could be wrong, but in my limited experience this seems to be a bigger problem with women than with men. My wife has a pretty busy job and she had a friend "break up" with her a few years ago because she wasn't available to go to lunch often enough. My wife had no idea that this former friend had a lunch date expectation until it was too late.

From what i can tell when they mean one sided is....

1 person bitches/gripes about shit and needs an ear and the other listens and gives feedback. But when the person that listens/gives feedback needs that back on the rare occasion that friend makes it about them or isn't available to be there for them like said friend is usually.

[Gonzo]

Relapse?

My dear Gonzo, the nerd essence never left me, not even for a minute. It only remains dormant on dates. And when you date girls who wear Chewbacca shirts, it beams brightly.

I'm nerdcore, to the end.

Embrace it then, my friend. Embrace it and eat out the wookie girl whilst listening to the entire Star Wars soundtrack. You shall be a hero to nerds everywhere! Hizzah!
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[Sure-Oz]

You always find out who your true friends are when you need one. Unfortunately, that is when it hurts the most to realize they are not your real friend.



I have one true friend, we can go months without talking. I spent a lot of time on her couch the last year...lol

I am fortunate to have over a handful of truly good friends that would do anything for me. Some have maybe 1 or 2 at best, and i have alot of friends id just go party with and do social stuff but not let them get too close.

[Lumpy]

This is why I don't have any chick friends. You need to find yourself a good man, Luv.

[Hammock Parties]

Luv, you live in Springfield. You want to take my cousin's virginity?

http://i45.tinypic.com/245n9yt.jpg

[patteeu]

This is why I don't have any chick friends. You need to find yourself a good man, Luv.

Way to rub it in. (Even though I know you didn't mean to).

[luv]

From what i can tell when they mean one sided is....

1 person bitches/gripes about shit and needs an ear and the other listens and gives feedback. But when the person that listens/gives feedback needs that back on the rare occasion that friend makes it about them or isn't available to be there for them like said friend is usually.

Hit the nail on the head.

[Hammock Parties]

Embrace it then, my friend. Embrace it and eat out the wookie girl whilst listening to the entire Star Wars soundtrack. You shall be a hero to nerds everywhere! Hizzah!
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Nah, even nerd girls disappear on me, although she was pretty hot.

Whateva. Kira Nerys will always love me.

[luv]

This is why I don't have any chick friends. You need to find yourself a good man, Luv.

So much easier said than done.

[Lumpy]

Way to rub it in. (Even though I know you didn't mean to).

I didn't mean to rub it in and you know it. :p

The truth is, from my experience w/ women - they can be two-faced and are never there when you need them, yet they always need you to be there for them.

Men make better friends. They cause very little drama... plus you can have sex w/ them. Lots and lots and lots and lots of sex. :thumb:

[Rain Man]

Luv, you live in Springfield. You want to take my cousin's virginity?



He shouldn't store his chips in the sink. They get soggy.

[Sure-Oz]

Hit the nail on the head.

that is why you need to seperate yourself from this 'friend'

[RedNFeisty]

I am fortunate to have over a handful of truly good friends that would do anything for me. Some have maybe 1 or 2 at best, and i have alot of friends id just go party with and do social stuff but not let them get too close.

I have a few good friends, then others I can be out with in social settings. I have started picking people apart, eliminating the ones with traits I don't like. My reasons for not having friends is my doing at this point, not to mention I never go anywhere to meet people...lol

lol, have 2, 1 is iffy, but she's been there for me when i was in bad shape a few years back due to health reasons, lol. My other, he's like my brother, been best friends since we were 12 years old, we are now 33. lol I could clal him right now and tell him i need help, and he would be here in 5 min.

Other then that, thats it.lol I know people, and people i get along with and talk too, but not to count on for anything critical. Well, my sisters, but they are immediate family.

I had a girlfriend from the sixth grade up until we were about 24, after letting her and her daughter live with us during her divorce, we ended up not being friends any longer.

[RedNFeisty]

So much easier said than done.

I say be happy you have the one or two friends you can count on. Once you are happy with yourself, the man issue will take care of itself. That's my advice

[RedNFeisty]

I didn't mean to rub it in and you know it. :p

The truth is, from my experience w/ women - they can be two-faced and are never there when you need them, yet they always need you to be there for them.

Men make better friends. They cause very little drama... plus you can have sex w/ them. Lots and lots and lots and lots of sex. :thumb:

Many women are two faced and caddy. Nor do they like hearing the truth. I agree, most women do not make good friends. Women do tend to be needy creatures.

[luv]

Many women are two faced and caddy. Nor do they like hearing the truth. I agree, most women do not make good friends. Women do tend to be needy creatures.

I will say that the one friend who was there for me tonight was a female. We've been friends since 5th grade.

The one I'm having problems with is actually a guy. And I think the needy thing is my problem.

[Bugeater]

This is why I don't have any chick friends. You need to find yourself a good man, Luv.
I've had plenty of guy friends (no homo) over the years who were pretty goddamn needy.

[Lumpy]

I will say that the one friend who was there for me tonight was a female. We've been friends since 5th grade.

The one I'm having problems with is actually a guy. And I think the needy thing is my problem.

Uh, ok. This voids my advice a little bit. :banghead: Why was this not mentioned before? It really would have kept my wine-induced ramblings to a minimum. Gosh dang it, Luv.

Oh wait, is this guy gay? If so, then my advice stands. :D

[Ugly Duck]

I'm sick and tired of of people who say they are my friend, but never act like it.

I'm your friend.... at least you can count on me...

[luv]

Uh, ok. This voids my advice a little bit. :banghead: Why was this not mentioned before? It really would have kept my wine-induced ramblings to a minimum. Gosh dang it, Luv.

Oh wait, is this guy gay? If so, then my advice stands. :D

No, not gay. Trust me, I know. We used to be friends with benefits. He started dating someone so the benefits stopped, of course. They just never started once he became single again. We've been hanging out a lot the last six months, so I think he's just distancing himself from me for a while. He just has really bad timing.

[KurtCobain]

Right-click, print image X100

If you have even one of those on a paper, and a poker chip any where near a dryer, then you're fucked. Trust me.

[LetsSignRussell]

LUV is an avid redtube watcher

[Sure-Oz]

What do you want from him? Friends with Benefits is a no-no usually the chick or possibly the dude get emotionally attached more and expect more

[Lumpy]

I've had plenty of guy friends (no homo) over the years who were pretty goddamn needy.

Are you saying that they were emotionally needy or that you just couldn't keep them from drinking all of your beer? :D

[luv]

What do you want from him? Friends with Benefits is a no-no usually the chick or possibly the dude get emotionally attached more and expect more

We're better as just friends. He doesn't want more, either.

[KurtCobain]

If I lived in Springfield I would give you a hug luv, you need one.

[Bugeater]

Are you saying that they were emotionally needy or that you just couldn't keep them from drinking all of your beer? :D
Back then it was weed. :)

[KurtCobain]

Back then it was weed. :)

When I smoked weed, I couldn't ever stop laughing at your posts. You always stood out on pot.

[Lumpy]

Back then it was weed. :)

That is why you should always have a naked, greased up, midget hiding in your house. Whenever your friends ask for something, just strap the shit to him and watch your friends go crazy. It makes for great entertainment. At least that's what I hear. I don't have one of those, I promise. :)

[Bugeater]

When I smoked weed, I couldn't ever stop laughing at your posts. You always stood out on pot.
Thanks...I think...


That is why you should always have a naked, greased up, midget hiding in your house. Whenever your friends ask for something, just strap the shit to him and watch your friends go crazy. It makes for great entertainment. At least that's what I hear. I don't have one of those, I promise. :)
Huh, never thought of that. It was much more fulfilling (no homo) to break up with those friends anyway.

[LetsSignRussell]

luv. why do you watch so much redtube?

[Mosbonian]

The hardest thing to accept and acknowledge is that one is in a friendship that is always one-sided. It is something that I have had to come to accept recently....a "friendship" that I had assumed was real in nature was more about "what can you do for me" and less about being there as support for each other.

I was too blind to accept and acknowledge what others had been telling me for several years.

It's time to move on..

mmaddog
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[RedNFeisty]

That is why you should always have a naked, greased up, midget hiding in your house. Whenever your friends ask for something, just strap the shit to him and watch your friends go crazy. It makes for great entertainment. At least that's what I hear. I don't have one of those, I promise. :)

Don't lie, isn't his name Gonzo?? :D

[RedNFeisty]

The hardest thing to accept and acknowledge is that one is in a friendship that is always one-sided. It is something that I have had to come to accept recently....a "friendship" that I had assumed was real in nature was more about "what can you do for me" and less about being there as support for each other.

I was too blind to accept and acknowledge what others had been telling me for several years.

It's time to move on..

mmaddog
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Sounds like you hit a rough patch too with friends, sorry.

[Mosbonian]

Sounds like you hit a rough patch too with friends, sorry.

One friend....who I thought was my good friend.

mmaddog
********

[Lumpy]

Don't lie, isn't his name Gonzo?? :D

Gonzo is 6', so no. LMAO

[badgirl]

After a crying ass thread like this one you all should never say anything else about what I post.

[Hammock Parties]

After a crying ass thread like this one you all should never say anything else about what I post.

Well, badgirl, luv is actually a decent poster here, talks about the Chiefs, and has developed friendships through the site.

Something you would know jack diddly poo about.

Now get the fuck out of the thread and stay out.

[badgirl]

Well, badgirl, luv is actually a decent poster here, talks about the Chiefs, and has developed friendships through the site.

Something you would know jack diddly poo about.

Now get the **** out of the thread and stay out.

No way will I leave this thread, you all jump in my shit all the time. I have decided to stay on this one. Decent Poster? Look back at all her threads, whats the percentage of threads actually started about football? Give me a break.:rolleyes:

[KurtCobain]

Well, badgirl, luv is actually a decent poster here, talks about the Chiefs, and has developed friendships through the site.

Something you would know jack diddly poo about.

Now get the **** out of the thread and stay out.

claytonluv luvfest oh-ten

[badgirl]

claytonluv luvfest oh-ten

I don't want to picture that, but thanks now I can't get the image out of my head.:cuss:

[KurtCobain]

I don't want to picture that, but thanks now I can't get the image out of my head.:cuss:

Didn't mean it in a bad way. Luv is a very badass lady, and Clayton, well, I like his gifs and I liked one of his articles about Herm.

[Hammock Parties]

Look back at all her threads, whats the percentage of threads actually started about football? Give me a break.:rolleyes:

luv starts plenty of football threads.

You, on the other hand, have NEVER started a thread about the Chiefs.

NEVER

Not ONCE.

On a fucking SITE about the CHIEFS.

Go fuck yourself.

[Bugeater]

No way will I leave this thread, you all jump in my shit all the time. I have decided to stay on this one. Decent Poster? Look back at all her threads, whats the percentage of threads actually started about football? Give me a break.:rolleyes:
Even if it's only 0.000001%, that's 0.000001% more than you.

[Lumpy]

Just when I thought I was going to log off and get some sleep...

Badgirl, I think what GoChiefs was implying is that Luv can discuss football, whereas you lack the ability to do so. Thus, (on a football BB), that makes Luv a worthy poster. She doesn't need to post a football related thread to prove to anyone that she is a worthy poster.

I will try to refrain from siding w/ anyone on this, but take a look at all of your posts. Have you ever voiced your opinion on anything sports related?

[Mosbonian]

No way will I leave this thread, you all jump in my shit all the time. I have decided to stay on this one. Decent Poster? Look back at all her threads, whats the percentage of threads actually started about football? Give me a break.:rolleyes:

Wanna give me a rash of crap about my post in here?

mmaddog
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[Mr. Kotter]

luv starts plenty of football threads.

You, on the other hand, have NEVER started a thread about the Chiefs.

NEVER

Not ONCE.

On a ****ing SITE about the CHIEFS.

Go **** yourself.

So...you want her, don't you?

I mean, I'm pretty sure she could teach you more than a couple of things. If you don't insult her, I mean.

Heh.

:hmmm:

[KurtCobain]

I have this huge zit on my ass that keeps bleeding and it's kind of shaped like Nebraska.

[Bugeater]

I have this huge zit on my ass that keeps bleeding and it's kind of shaped like Nebraska.
If I were stoned I probably would have laughed at that.

[KurtCobain]

If I were stoned I probably would have laughed at that.

That means alot to me.

So... Bug... What would you do if you were obviously american and the social security office refused to give you your fucking card and your employer told you to fuck off 'till you get one? Terrorism?

[Bugeater]

That means alot to me.

So... Bug... What would you do if you were obviously american and the social security office refused to give you your ****ing card and your employer told you to **** off 'till you get one? Terrorism?
I'd stab them all in the face.

Do you need it to get a job? I haven't had an actual SS card for decades.

[KurtCobain]

I'd stab them all in the face.

Do you need it to get a job? I haven't had an actual SS card for decades.

Missouri state law. I went to apply for one and they said they'd mail to me and give me a paper that had my social on it, and I gave it to these jackasses and they let me work for a week and my card never came in the mail and they said I couldn't work again untill I get it, which I'm finding out, could take a month. Fuck them.

[cdcox]

Missouri state law. I went to apply for one and they said they'd mail to me and give me a paper that had my social on it, and I gave it to these jackasses and they let me work for a week and my card never came in the mail and they said I couldn't work again untill I get it, which I'm finding out, could take a month. **** them.

Keeping track of your SS card is part of being a grownup. Look at it as just one piece of BS you have to go through to get your life where you want it to be. Don't let it keep you from doing the needful. My 2 cents.

[Bugeater]

Missouri state law. I went to apply for one and they said they'd mail to me and give me a paper that had my social on it, and I gave it to these jackasses and they let me work for a week and my card never came in the mail and they said I couldn't work again untill I get it, which I'm finding out, could take a month. **** them.
Well that sucks. Meanwhile, all the illegals in this country don't seem to be having trouble finding a way to work, but a goddamn citizen gets his ass put through the wringer. Just doesn't seem right.

[Bugeater]

Keeping track of your SS card is part of being a grownup.
It is? Since when?

[Mr. Flopnuts]

Who would've guessed that badcunt would show up.

[cdcox]

It is? Since when?

Mine has been in my wallet for like 32 years. If I needed to produce it (or my birth certificate, passport, or any other major documentation) to do something that was important to me (like landing a job) it wouldn't be a problem. Not trying to bust balls. I'm just saying that it is easier to go with the flow and get what you want, than it is to crash your head into the brick wall that is the system.

[BigMeatballDave]

After a crying ass thread like this one you all should never say anything else about what I post.Tard. This thread is NOTHING like the drivel you post.

[luv]

No way will I leave this thread, you all jump in my shit all the time. I have decided to stay on this one. Decent Poster? Look back at all her threads, whats the percentage of threads actually started about football? Give me a break.:rolleyes:

Seriously?

[Reerun_KC]

Seriously?
Chick fight.

[Saccopoo]

I will say that the one friend who was there for me tonight was a female. We've been friends since 5th grade.

The one I'm having problems with is actually a guy. And I think the needy thing is my problem.

You could switch residences with Badgirl. I hear there's a sweet young man in that neighborhood who is looking to rectify "needy" situations for single women.

[luv]

You could switch residences with Badgirl. I hear there's a sweet young man in that neighborhood who is looking to rectify "needy" situations for single women.

I did have a 20 year old tell me he thought I was 21 or 22 yesterday. LMAO

Thanks, but that's not exactly what I was in need of last night.

[Demonpenz]

Sometimes I type out threads to rant and it goes like this I type "I am sick and tired of my friends screwing me over" Then I back space.. "I am sick of myself letting myself getting screwed over" Finally I decided to say " I need to WORK on not getting screwed over" then I put "wow it takes alot of work to take care of yourself and choose your friends" Then I put "saying No to people is a skill, and you need to work on that skill"
then I I back spaced "I am finally getting to the point where I am confident enough to say No to people and not get screwed over" Then I end up never starting a thread because...never let anyone see you sweat.

[kstater]

After a crying ass thread like this one you all should never say anything else about what I post.

Care to stop and think that the
underlying problem most people have with you is
not that you bitch about
the daily fail that is your life, but you being here at all.

[Nzoner]

not to mention I never go anywhere to meet people.


THIS is one of the reasons the annual bash is good.Personally,I've met a couple of planeteers that I consider good friends,meaning they can count on me at anytime and vice versa and we keep in touch not just here but by telephone on a fairly regular basis.Hell,one of the crazy bastards I even drove several hundred miles to spend a week partying with.

[Bugeater]

Mine has been in my wallet for like 32 years. If I needed to produce it (or my birth certificate, passport, or any other major documentation) to do something that was important to me (like landing a job) it wouldn't be a problem. Not trying to bust balls. I'm just saying that it is easier to go with the flow and get what you want, than it is to crash your head into the brick wall that is the system.
I'm just saying that, I accidentally washed mine shortly after I got it as a teenager, and haven't ever missed it.

[KurtCobain]

Keeping track of your SS card is part of being a grownup. Look at it as just one piece of BS you have to go through to get your life where you want it to be. Don't let it keep you from doing the needful. My 2 cents. i was incarcerated for a while and left my important docs with grandma and her house burned down. Lost my ss card, my birth certificate, and all my clothes and shit. So i gotta get all new everything.
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[crazycoffey]

A lot going on right now. A lot of change. I don't always deal well with change, especially alone (I know, you'd think I'd be used to doing everything alone by now). I reach out to people who claim to be my friend, and nothing. The friendship is pretty one-sided, so I'm tempted to just give up on it. Only problem is that's not the kind of friend I am.

On the other hand, I do have a friend or two who I know I can always count on. Thank God for them. Not sure what I would do without them.



ME?

[listopencil]

After a crying ass thread like this one you all should never say anything else about what I post.


No. With Luv it's OK because most people actually like her. Nobody wants to read your rambling bullshit. If we had to shit can one of you- it would be you. Absolutely, without question, slam dunk decision.

[luv]

I've decided to no longer try to contact this "friend". If he needs me, he's got my number. He'd better still bring me back a shot glass from his trip the NYC next month...lol.

[Bearcat]

As far as friends, I was just thinking about something similar the other day... how I wouldn't lose any sleep over never seeing a few people again, either because of drama on their part (not venting/complaining, but playing games and creating drama) or with how one-sided the friendship can be. I tend to put into a friendship what I get out of it.... I think for most people, it comes down to a select few friends/family that you can truly rely on, so you're not alone there.

A lot going on right now. A lot of change. I don't always deal well with change, especially alone (I know, you'd think I'd be used to doing everything alone by now). I reach out to people who claim to be my friend, and nothing. The friendship is pretty one-sided, so I'm tempted to just give up on it. Only problem is that's not the kind of friend I am.

On the other hand, I do have a friend or two who I know I can always count on. Thank God for them. Not sure what I would do without them.

As far as change, IMO, the more the better... of course, school is a huge change which is great, and hopefully it'll make you more comfortable and confident in future change.

It seems like I've seen you mention the idea that doing things alone and going through change alone is harder than having someone to come home to every night... and IMO, it's not worth losing sleep over, because there are benefits and downsides to both. If you're going to school 4 nights a week and it's basically another full time job, adding the drama that comes with a relationship won't help, and it's not like they'll do your homework for you... and I speak from experience, I'm just just saying that... when I'm incredibly busy, I just don't have time for some of the crap that comes along with being in a relationship....... but then again, I'm speaking from the guy's perspective, and all the drama comes from the woman, so you would have to look at it from the perspective of whether you would have time to create that drama in your relationship. :evil:

[luv]

As far as friends, I was just thinking about something similar the other day... how I wouldn't lose any sleep over never seeing a few people again, either because of drama on their part (not venting/complaining, but playing games and creating drama) or with how one-sided the friendship can be. I tend to put into a friendship what I get out of it.... I think for most people, it comes down to a select few friends/family that you can truly rely on, so you're not alone there.



As far as change, IMO, the more the better... of course, school is a huge change which is great, and hopefully it'll make you more comfortable and confident in future change.

It seems like I've seen you mention the idea that doing things alone and going through change alone is harder than having someone to come home to every night... and IMO, it's not worth losing sleep over, because there are benefits and downsides to both. If you're going to school 4 nights a week and it's basically another full time job, adding the drama that comes with a relationship won't help, and it's not like they'll do your homework for you... and I speak from experience, I'm just just saying that... when I'm incredibly busy, I just don't have time for some of the crap that comes along with being in a relationship....... but then again, I'm speaking from the guy's perspective, and all the drama comes from the woman, so you would have to look at it from the perspective of whether you would have time to create that drama in your relationship. :evil:

Ha ha ha. :p

I see what you're saying, and it definitely makes sense. I'm not necessarily looking for a "relationship" as much as just someone to have be able to go do stuff with when I'm free or vent some frustrations to. Maybe I do secretly want the "come home to" type of relationship. Who knows. One reason why I wanted to move to KC was because I know more single people my age. Everyone tends to either get married, pop out kids, or move away from here.

[Bearcat]

Ha ha ha. :p

I see what you're saying, and it definitely makes sense. I'm not necessarily looking for a "relationship" as much as just someone to have be able to go do stuff with when I'm free or vent some frustrations to. Maybe I do secretly want the "come home to" type of relationship. Who knows. One reason why I wanted to move to KC was because I know more single people my age. Everyone tends to either get married, pop out kids, or move away from here.

Well, I can honestly say the great thing about the person I come home to every night is that we're both so busy, sometimes we barely see each other. ;) ...but, it's probably just my personality, because I'd have a hard time being around someone 24/7 like I've seen with several friends' relationships (not that you're looking for that, just sayin').

I agree though... It definitely helps to find people who have been through a similar change or are going through the same thing and can provide some perspective. Hopefully you can find people at school (even though I think you said your class is only ~5 people?) who are willing to go out for a drink after class every once in a while. Coming from someone who is fairly anti-social, I can say graduate school was a great place for me to meet people.

[luv]

I agree though... It definitely helps to find people who have been through a similar change or are going through the same thing and can provide some perspective. Hopefully you can find people at school (even though I think you said your class is only ~5 people?) who are willing to go out for a drink after class every once in a while. Coming from someone who is fairly anti-social, I can say graduate school was a great place for me to meet people.

No going out after class for me, as I have to get up for work the following morning. We'll see what happens.

Yeah, only 5 in my class. It's more like a vocational school than anything. There's legal, dental assistant, medical assistant, medical coding, building maintenance, HVAC, and computer tech.

Regardless of going out alone or not, I need to get out and enjoy this beautiful afternoon!

[Mr. Laz]

People suck, most are shallow, self centered, idiots.i'm not an idiot. :harumph:

[LetsSignRussell]

THIS is one of the reasons the annual bash is good.Personally,I've met a couple of planeteers that I consider good friends,meaning they can count on me at anytime and vice versa and we keep in touch not just here but by telephone on a fairly regular basis.Hell,one of the crazy bastards I even drove several hundred miles to spend a week partying with.

I hope you're referring to me

[RedNFeisty]

THIS is one of the reasons the annual bash is good.Personally,I've met a couple of planeteers that I consider good friends,meaning they can count on me at anytime and vice versa and we keep in touch not just here but by telephone on a fairly regular basis.Hell,one of the crazy bastards I even drove several hundred miles to spend a week partying with.

What are the details of the Bash?? I would drive a few hundred miles to party a week with the right person.

[LetsSignRussell]

What are the details of the Bash?? I would drive a few hundred miles to party a week with the right person.

you have to love beer.

[luv]

What are the details of the Bash?? I would drive a few hundred miles to party a week with the right person.

Look for a thread he starts, usually later in the summer. It's definitely the opening weekend of football season this year. There's usually a cost for food, but he keeps it minimal. Also BYOB. It's a blast! Hope you can make it!

[RedNFeisty]

i'm not an idiot. :harumph:

Just ditzy! ;)

No going out after class for me, as I have to get up for work the following morning. We'll see what happens.

Yeah, only 5 in my class. It's more like a vocational school than anything. There's legal, dental assistant, medical assistant, medical coding, building maintenance, HVAC, and computer tech.

Regardless of going out alone or not, I need to get out and enjoy this beautiful afternoon!

You will find maintaining a full load of school work is going to be difficult if you wish to have a social life. Chances are when you want to go out you will not have the time. I feel your pain, luv, trust me, I just don't have any advice to give.

[RedNFeisty]

Look for a thread he starts, usually later in the summer. It's definitely the opening weekend of football season this year. There's usually a cost for food, but he keeps it minimal. Also BYOB. It's a blast! Hope you can make it!

I have the date as Sept. 11th, if that is the date, that is my weekend to have the kids, but maybe I can switch. I won't ask about switching until closer to the date. If dad will switch with me, then I will make the bash.

[RedNFeisty]

you have to love beer.

I hate beer...

[Nzoner]

What are the details of the Bash?? I would drive a few hundred miles to party a week with the right person.

The details are generally the same each year,I host a big party for planeteers and a few of my local friends which includes much drinking and hilarity,food,big ass bonfire,good music,fireworks and college and pro football watching.

[BigMeatballDave]

Keeping track of your SS card is part of being a grownup. Look at it as just one piece of BS you have to go through to get your life where you want it to be. Don't let it keep you from doing the needful. My 2 cents.I have my original SS card. I'll be 40 in Oct...

[kcxiv]

I'm just saying that, I accidentally washed mine shortly after I got it as a teenager, and haven't ever missed it.

shit, i never even got mine from my mother and i am in my mid 30's . lol she has it somewhere, some place. I dunno. I know my number though.

[BigMeatballDave]

I'm just saying that, I accidentally washed mine shortly after I got it as a teenager, and haven't ever missed it.shit, i never even got mine from my mother and i am in my mid 30's . lol she has it somewhere, some place. I dunno. I know my number though.You've never needed it for employment? Every job I've had, I had to fill out and sign an I-9 form and they make a photocopy of my SS and ID.

[luv]

I have my original SS card. I'll be 40 in Oct...

I've got mine. My signature has changed a lot since 4th grade.
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[Phobia]

Just imagine how bad it is when you're gorgeous and rich. I have more hangers-on than I care to acknowledge.

[kcxiv]

You've never needed it for employment? Every job I've had, I had to fill out and sign an I-9 form and they make a photocopy of my SS and ID.

Not really, my employer is my best friends dad. I have known them for hmm since i was likee 15 years old.
Actually, i had to use it once when i was like 21 year old and worked a OSH. I still gave it back to my mom after that. I would lose it. I have never carried a wallet.

[Bugeater]

You've never needed it for employment? Every job I've had, I had to fill out and sign an I-9 form and they make a photocopy of my SS and ID.
Nope, and I've had quite a few different jobs.

[Saulbadguy]

:facepalm:

[KcFanInGA]

There are a lot of fake people, that's for sure. I like to shoot at them to see if they are real or not. If they scream and bleed, I yell "Found One!".

[Rausch]

I still gave it back to my mom after that. I would lose it. I have never carried a wallet.

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[ChiTown]

Not me, I'm just tired. I was sick last week.