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Shogun
01-05-2011, 07:47 PM
But fuck the Jets, Just Mark Sanchez is cool. This is such a cool sports story. No Brett Favre retiring. No Holdout news. This is a good story.

New York Jets' Mark Sanchez choked up by death of young fan - ESPN New York (http://sports.espn.go.com/new-york/nfl/news/story?id=5991920)

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FLORHAM PARK, N.J. -- Mark Sanchez went to work Tuesday, preparing for a big football game. Some 40 miles away, a little boy from Queens, N.Y., was buried -- a friend of the New York Jets quarterback.

Sanchez and Aidan Binkley, 11, met each other only a few weeks ago, but they became fast friends. Binkley was suffering from a rare form of cancer, and he had only two wishes -- he wanted his two brothers to stay healthy and he wanted to meet Sanchez.

And so he did.

Aidan visited the Jets' training facility Dec. 15, and he received the VIP treatment, as if he were a big-name player making a free-agent visit. He watched practice and was escorted to owner Woody Johnson's second-floor office, where he met Antonio Cromartie, Dustin Keller, Mike Devito and others.

And, finally, Sanchez. The people who were there say Aidan's face lit up like Broadway at night.

"He sat there, beaming and smiling," said Aidan's mother, Lisa Binkley, who initially wasn't sure if it was a good idea to make the trip because Aidan was in such pain.

"Nothing meant more to him than coming here and meeting Mark and meeting the Jets," Keller said quietly Wednesday in the Jets' locker room. "Great kid ... a tough situation."

The 24-year-old quarterback was immediately taken by Aidan and his upbeat personality and his love of the Jets. A few days later, Sanchez & Co. beat the Steelers in Pittsburgh -- the biggest win of the season -- and Sanchez sent his new friend a game ball.

Sanchez was deeply touched by Aidan, who battled rhabdomyosarcoma, according to a 2008 New York Daily News article. There was a lemon-sized tumor that spread from his pelvis to his lungs, and he required 60 weeks of chemotherapy.

They became texting buddies and, one day, Sanchez surprised Aidan's parents by asking, "Can I come over?" When Sanchez arrived, the boy was sleeping. Sanchez sat at Aidan's feet, waiting until he woke up.

"He opened his eyes and there was Mark, sitting on the couch," Lisa said. "He was so sweet."

They ended up having a long conversation, like a couple of old friends. Aidan took Sanchez to his bedroom and showed him his sports stuff, including his hockey stick. He gave Sanchez a camouflage bracelet with the inscription, "Binkley's Battle." Sanchez and Keller were wearing the bracelets Wednesday in the Jets' locker room.

"My man, Aidan ... breaks my heart," Sanchez said Tuesday during his weekly spot on "The Michael Kay Show" on 1050 ESPN Radio. "He's so tough."

Sanchez, choked with emotion, paused several times as he talked about Aidan, whom he met through the Teddy Atlas Foundation. Atlas, the boxing trainer and ESPN analyst, was a Jets special assistant under former coach Eric Mangini.

"He brought me so much inspiration. ... It's hard to talk about him," Sanchez said. "He meant the world to me. I felt like I've known him forever. ... I saw his personality. I saw his competitive spirit. I saw him fighting every day.

"I'm complaining about a shoulder. Are you kidding me? ... I think he was 11 years old, and he has cancer eating away at his body," Sanchez continued. "This kid is fighting every day. He's smiling every time I talk to him. I visited him at his home. I mean, he has to get carried up the stairs because he's so weak and all he wants to talk about is LT [LaDainian Tomlinson] and Darrelle Revis and Rex Ryan and me.

"Oh, man, it kills you, just thinking about it. I love him to death."

Sanchez was sitting at his locker before facing the Steelers, going over the game plan one last time, when he received a text from Aidan. His friend was concerned about the chilly weather.

"He's saying, 'It looks cold out there in Pittsburgh. I'm glad I'm watching from home. Good luck,'" Sanchez said with a chuckle. "Little stuff like that really fires you up."

text to Sanchez. Don't expect a return text, his mother warned, explaining that Sanchez would be too busy to answer an 11-year-old boy. So they watched his post-game news conference on TV, never imagining they'd hear from him.

About 20 minutes later, the phone rang. It was Sanchez.

"We were blown away," Lisa said.

In his final days, Aidan's cancer was so unbearable that he couldn't get out of bed. But he kept his phone close by, just in case his friend Mark decided to call or text.

"He'd be lying in bed, in such pain, and the phone would ring -- and he'd smile," Lisa said.

Funny thing about Sanchez's texts: Instead of a simple, inspiration message, he always posed a question, trying to initiate a conversation.

Their friendship was born at a difficult time for Sanchez. The Jets were on a two-game losing streak after being embarrassed by the New England Patriots 45-3 and showing no energy in a 10-6 loss to the Miami Dolphins. Even Ryan admitted he thought about pulling his franchise quarterback from the Miami game.

"I'm not a happy camper, I'm upset, I'm frustrated," Sanchez said. "I want to make it right. I want to hurry up and play another game."

Along came Aidan.

"All I hear from someone is, 'There's a youngster who's terminally ill with cancer and all he wants to do is meet you,'" Sanchez said. "It changes your whole world. It stops everything. You get a chance to step back. It's really close to my heart. ... He's the best. I love him."

Keith Sullivan, an Atlas Foundation board member, was struck by Sanchez's sincerity. In that initial meeting, Sanchez and Aidan exchanged cell phone numbers, Sanchez telling the boy, "I'll shoot you a text later. We'll talk." And Sullivan hoped it wasn't just lip service, a millionaire athlete trying to appease a starstruck kid.

Sanchez called. They talked.

"Aidan had a smile on his face for the last three weeks of his life," Sullivan said.

Aidan lost his courageous battle last Thursday. Before the Jets' game last Sunday against the Buffalo Bills, the Jets honored him with a moment of silence.

kysirsoze
01-05-2011, 07:53 PM
Wow. Thanks for the story. I wish this was what we saw on ESPN instead of Favre, Big Ben, Vick, and co. Guess this doesn't generate ratings, but it's stuff like this that makes me love sports.

WebGem
01-05-2011, 07:54 PM
Awesome story, props to Sanchez. Hopefully the good karma gets him two W's so he can end up at Arrowhead.

Shogun
01-05-2011, 07:54 PM
whats not in the article is that at the funeral ... Mark called up the funeral director and told him he would be covering the funeral costs

WebGem
01-05-2011, 07:55 PM
I wish this was what we saw on ESPN instead of Favre, Big Ben, Vick, and co. Guess this doesn't generate ratings, but it's stuff like this that makes me love sports.

No shit. Seriously. It'd help random people who happen to have ESPN on and wouldn't otherwise see these things appreciate the players a lot more too.

kcmaxwell
01-05-2011, 08:00 PM
Great story, especially since sanchez didnt just meet him, sign an autograph, and go on... kept in touch with him, what an awesome thing!

doomy3
01-05-2011, 08:02 PM
Great story, and good on Sanchez.

Hate to hear about the little guy. It's hard to read about or see kids struggling with illnesses like that.

BigRedChief
01-05-2011, 08:07 PM
Google Team Hoyt
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GRHxHapwirw&feature=related

What would you do if you could walk again? I'd tell my Dad to sit in the chair and I would push him.

kysirsoze
01-05-2011, 08:10 PM
Great story, and good on Sanchez.

Hate to hear about the little guy. It's hard to read about or see kids struggling with illnesses like that.

A friend of mine works as a nurse in child oncology. I have no idea how she does it. She gets to know these kids really well. Sometimes they recover but a lot of times they don't. God bless her, I don't know if I could handle that day in day out.

ThaVirus
01-05-2011, 08:19 PM
This was a tough read. If ever there was one thing that challenged my belief in God it would be children suffering. They're so soft and innocent, it breaks my heart to hear stories like this. To add to it, his story isn't even the worst one out there and there are millions suffering just like him, day in and day out.

If I were a professional athlete I would attempt to recreate as many of these stories as possible. They really don't know how much a little attention from them means to us, especially as children.

crossbow
01-05-2011, 08:22 PM
Sanchez has a ton of class. If this story doesn't move you then there is nothing on the planet that can save your soul.

WV
01-05-2011, 08:27 PM
Wow...moving story to say the least and huge huge props to Sanchez for proving he's not just some prima donna athlete. God speed to the little guy, at least his suffering is over and he's in a better place.

JD10367
01-05-2011, 08:31 PM
There is definitely class in football if you look for it. Not on the same wavelength as this, but...

http://sportsillustrated.cnn.com/2011/writers/peter_king/01/02/week-17/index.html

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There's something to admire about Morgan Cox.

A lot, actually. And he's not the only one to admire in this story. Cox is the Ravens' long-snapper. Was. Last week, early in the second quarter, he got hurt in a pileup on a Baltimore field-goal try. Hurt would be putting it mildly. Actually, 700 pounds of lineman -- Cleveland defensive tackle Shaun Rogers and Baltimore guard Marshall Yanda -- fell on his left leg after he'd snapped the ball for the field goal, and the knee concaved to the right. Cox screamed so loud, Rogers said, that he knew he was hurt severely. Somehow, Cox limped to the sideline, where he collapsed and started rolling around in pain. "An extreme amount of pain,'' he said.

At first, docs thought it was an MCL tear, but that he could return to the game and gut it out. At halftime, upon further review in the locker room, he said he was diagnosed with grade-three (severe, that is) ACL and MCL tears. "But I knew I could get the job done,'' he said. "There's lot of different ways of snapping. Some guys use their legs for power. I pretty much do it all with my arms. And I don't think it fully registered with me how serious it was. It was a big game, and I said, I'm fine to play. I went up to the guys on the line, and said, 'I'm gonna need some help. I'm gonna get the snap off, but you gotta help me after that.' So when we went back out there, I heard Michael Oher say to the Browns, 'Stay off the snapper, stay off the snapper.' ''

There's a fine line here between playing hard and being sympathetic to a wounded competitor, and Rogers did a gallant job straddling it in the second half. Rogers knew Cox was injured; he'd heard him scream in agony after the injury. On an extra point try, after the ball was over the line, Rogers saw Cox falling back awkwardly. He reached over and grabbed Cox's jersey to prevent him from falling and perhaps hurting the leg further. "Unbelievable,'' Cox said. "I felt this hand hold me up and just figured it was one of our guys, but it was Shaun Rogers. I'll never forget him for that.''

I called the Browns and asked to speak to Rogers, but he declined. He said the play was over, and he knew the kid was hurt, and it was something even major rivals would do for each other. No big deal.
I think it is a big deal. As was the game ball Cox got in the locker room. "Very courageous thing you did, Morgan,'' Harbaugh told him. "That was a thrill,'' Cox said. "An unbelievable honor. Probably the thing I'll always remember is Terrell Suggs coming up to me, surprised, during the game and saying, 'He's still snapping! He's still in the game!' But he did remind me I was still a rookie.'' After that game, I'd call Cox an honorary veteran.

Cox will be in the office of noted orthopedist James Andrews on Tuesday, with a plan for surgery to repair the ligaments.

Shogun
01-05-2011, 08:41 PM
That was an awesome Story, Classy move by Rodgers