She did try to communicate, I just ignored her. Didnt think anything like this could ever happen to me and that she would get over it. Yes I know the other three are mine.

I think you're ****ing up. But it's your life and your business. I've made my feelings about it clear, because you've posted a thread about it. I'm going to leave well enough alone from here, because I think you're a good dude. I promise I won't give you an "I told you so" when this shit blows up in your face. Again.

Believe me man, if I was totally innocent I would be like "**** that bitch, I treated her perfect, she doesnt deserve me"...but I didnt treat her perfect. I neglected her quite a bit the last few years, thats why I feel like I deserve this and have the need to try to make it right.

It's "you're". Not "your". As in, "You're a total twat-face, btlook1".

See? Not that hard, really...

Wow Slainte your a real smart one. Just quit with the hate comments to MTG. He doesn't deserve them....oh and the comment that he should leave his kids on the woods was uncalled for.

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Regardless of my opinions, which I truly felt obligated to give you, I wish you nothing but luck.

1 more thing MTG. You neglected her over the last few years. Why? Was she a perfect little angel in that time that was pleading for your attention? My point is, relationships are a 2 way street. Somehow I think she contributed to the problems as well. The difference being, she's the one that decided to stuff her love orifice. Not you.

Seriously though, best wishes to you. I hope you can find some happiness wherever that is.

Clayton, I find your new avatar highly disturbing. Good choice...

Trapped? You mean, like she was with you.

You cant successfully have a loving relationship worth a damn until you love yourself 1st. No part of being a chump will accomplish that. If she had any respect for you she would be back already. The reason she's not back? Because she dont have too. Rght now she's got you in her back pocket and losing more respect every day. Just like you are.

I remember when I was a teenager playing my exgirlfriends the same way. Why? Because they let me. That way I had a backup piece of ass.

Quit being a chump. Gain a little self respect. The rest will take care of itself.

I don't know what to say about all of this. I have no prior experience to fallback on to give advice to MTG's situation. I just don't think this is healthy for you MTG. Either sit down and talk with your wife about working things out and move on with her or move on without her and be serious about it. Maybe going as far as relocating away from her.

a little late 11 pages late, but she doesnt love you. When it doesnt work both ways, its time to move on. NO matter what you do, she will NOT love you and you have to know that when that happens it will NEVER work. ONce they fall out of love with you or vice versa its completely and totally ****ed for good.

I have plenty of friends who have this fall out of love shit and they are so unhappy, but they still go through with it and its like why are you doing this to yourself.

Love has to work both ways or what the **** is it for. No she doesnt love you despite what she says. If she is ****ing someone else, she doesnt love you. I dont care what anyone says.

I have sat down and talked to her about working things out. She said she wanted to wait until after the baby was born and things settled down so she could "think more clearly". She just had the baby last night so I guess I'm playing the waiting game. For how long, who knows. And its hard to relocate when there's kids involved. Plus I just signed a 12 month lease.

How is she "trapped" in a relationship with him whenever she's still married to you?