I agree bringing up exclusivity is a bad idea, but acting aloof/making yourself less available is also a bad idea. IMHO, you want to escalate things. She won’t see other people if she feels you two are getting serious (not saying you are serious, but acting like it).

If she is all caught up in this blossoming relationship, she may not even consider going out with other guys. If she thinks you are just casual and you disappear for chunks at a time, she will likely lose interest and go on a date every night.

This.

Just continue with what you're doing. If you want to see her more....plan more dates with her.

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More or less what I was thinking. Thanks for the advice, all!

Women are the most evil creatures to set foot on this planet.

Please elaborate.

It's really just borne of them having a vagina, and the wonderful options that presents them with.

They can afford to be choosy, and lesser males are often cast aside.

Saw the girl I mentioned a few weeks ago out last night with another dude. This is the one who didn't mind hooking up with me but wouldn't leave her boyfriend even though he skews in the douche direction for the most part.

It felt pretty damned obvious she'd been flirting with me for the large part of this year and I know she had a thing for me ever since she'd met me years ago. But that doesn't matter apparently.

What the **** ever man.

You're probably not giving her enough attention.

You're right. Because she wasn't going to end things with her boyfriend, I told her we can't be friends from that point on. Alea iacta est. She said wanted me to reconsider that stance because she was hurt by it. I didn't.

At that point, you not completely cutting this chick out of your life seems to be a mistake.

She's arrogant and wants to have her cake and eat it too. And honestly, probably slutty. **** her.

You're better off this way. She's flippantly cheating on her current boyfriend, and even if she "left" him for you, who's to say she wouldn't do the same to you?

Had the most intense night of my life last night. Exhausted.

Does this belong in the "ever banged a fat chick" thread?

Because I'm better looking than the other guy.

Yeah.....keep thinking that's the reason that will keep her from cheating.