Wouldn't the fact that she was living with him for the entire time you were together throw a red flag on the field? OP said for the 3 years they were 'together, she lived with her ex boyfriend? No way in hell I would just say "oh, it's ok for you to live with your ex of 9 years, 30 mins away from me."

Wha?!?!?!

This. Seriously, you are lucky the guy was so subdued.

Even though you didn't "know" that they were still together you had to have known something was up long before she started pulling away.

If she was serious about you, she would have moved out of the ex's house.

This is about petty revenge and hurting ego. Nothing more. You are not concerned about the other guy's situation one iota otherwise you would have cared when she was with you vs. when she stopped.

Not to mention that it might put her in danger. How would you feel if you told this guy and then read that she was severely beaten or murdered?

Do the right and mature thing and be a grown up and just cut your loses and move on.

This.

Fuggin haters. There's codes to that shit. You broke one.

This is too logical for hillbillies to understand.

Over a hundred posts since these two and not one "This thread is worthless without pictures" reply?

You all suck.

You'd only post stupid comments like that cuz you wanted the masses of people that can click on any vast array of actually sexy hot porn to beg and plead for you to share your non-existant homemade porn.

I'm glad the members of CP are already fully stocked on their porn.

Bad place to come for advice!

Porn? You mean I can access porn on the Internet?

girl on girl porn even

http://video.google.com/videoplay?do...74583886026984

This says it all.

My guess is it'd be even more worthless with pics.

I do agree with keg and Hamas to an extent, but if the guy knows he's ****ing a wife or, even worse, a married mother - he deserves to have the shit kicked out of him. You simply do NOT do that.

And quit being a dumbshit, Mecca, it doesn't matter how lonely the wife is. If she's that unhappy, she can go ahead and divorce the dude who is toiling away at work to support his family and then go ahead and proceed to **** some worthless, basement dweller like you. That is some ****ed up shit.

In either case, the wife will be taking a hike without any if's or but's, no matter what the situation was, she is the one who is responsible.

Maybe I should have titled this thread "letting the other guy know his woman cant be trusted". And there was no home to wreck, they were not married, had no kids, she was playing us both and she got caught.

Sounds like she got away with all of it.