Just a hypothetical, but say she died prior to finalizing this deal. Then what?

no shit.

considering her reason for divorce is "I've met someone else," it seems you should have the advantage.

but most of my divorce knowledge comes from the movie Intolerable Cruelty, so I really don't know jack shit about that.

****ing bitches.

I'd imagine the stuff goes to the kids....

sneak into their house. stick both of their toothbrushes up your ass and take a picture of it. Mail it to them a few weeks later. Oh, and jackoff on their pillows too. Then start your life over and have a great time.

You left out.....leave the toilet seat up. Every toilet seat in the house.

walk up on them coming out of somewhere and kill them both.

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that sucks, if she's cheatin on you what's the law for that? I thought they get nothin, thats such BS that she would get the house and a car and half your pension, that's more like 90/10. I'd go ape shit

I am surprised it took 65 posts for that suggestion.

I think most states are no fault states. He doesn't get a complain about her cheating and she doesn't get to complain about dirty dishes or wet towels or whatever the hell her issue was.

Only time behavior matters in a divorce proceeding in a no fault state is when there are children involved.

you should at least get the monetary value for 1/2 the house and 1/2 the car...if they are both paid for.

This is correct. If you're not getting that, you're not being treated fairly.

oh. This is why I would never get married. Nowadays, I think it's stupid just based on the numbers. You risk all that on a coin flip, better off going to a casino and putting all your funds and savings on red or black. Not him though, 35 years ago I'm sure the divorce rate wasn't nearly 50%

I cannot attest to having gone thru this after 35 yrs of marriage and at 58 yrs old but I did go thru it after 10 yrs marriage. My advice is quite simple:

1) Get a tough as nails female lawyer to reduce the 50% if possible.
2) Keep it amiable (as much as possible) and be above the fray
3) Remember that the best can be ahead of you. Always!!!
4) Let your future actions piss her off beyond all compare. Be successful, grow as a man, travel, do things that you always wanted to do, give your offspring all of the attention that you can give.
5) And, never - ever, talk bad about the Bitch to your children. They will make up their own minds about what has transpired.

I did this and recently ran into my ex 17 years following our split, she kept apologizing about what she caused and was extremely jealous of how my life and how my relationship with our children has prospered. The meeting verified that I had done the right thing and that she screwed up her life. I am now living the dream and hope that I can squeeze another 20-30 years of existance out of this planet.