I mean the actual time spent trying to get it. If you have a **** buddy that you is readily available....awesome. Having to spend money to go out on dates or hit on women at bars for a chance at it....is a ****ing waste of time.

Ok. Don't work at it, but all you'll score is 500lb hippos

I'm not reading this entire thread, but from the last few pages, here's the way to go:

Fish, hunt, golf, workout, watch football, drink with buddies, and jerk off whenever you want. Life will be great.

LMAO
This is sound advice

There is sex that isn't worth it. When you can't finish because all you can think about is how unnattracted you are to your partner, the sex isn't worth it.

I also don't have the time to spend to score hotties, and I don't want any "500 lb whales," so I'm taking a break.

I'm married. I'm not putting in any work anywhere.

Since I got married, I found it funny how often I would get hit on when going out.

It's called hell.

So you're telling me if I start wearing a band I'll get more attention?

I think it runs deeper than that. It's like alll of a sudden you start giving off some phermone that attracts women. I think it happened to me once I got engaged. Crazy shit.

what you get is lots of flirting because they assume you are harmless. They treat you the same as they would if they thought you were gay. You get lots more attention, but not serious attention. I mean do you want to be banging a gal that likes banging married men?

I guess I've got a similar dynamic already.. the only ones who seem attracted to me are ones who are already with other dudes.

I already came across the now ex of the last girl I ****ed. He jokingly said I should take a run at her. That was Soap Opera Awkward right there.

Long story short - they want what they can't have.

none of my business.

This.

They now think that because someone wants you.....there has to be a reason. Lot's of money.....big feet....etc.