patteeu |
11-12-2015 11:59 AM |
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Originally Posted by Reaper16
(Post 11877962)
Patteeu, this is why the two of us can't have a constructive dialogue about this issue. Black students say they feel unwelcome on campus, through treatment from the school and from slurs said at them by fellow students. Some white persons say back to them that they have a victim complex (as if it's their fault they are recipients of bigoted slurs & racist treatment, or as if those things are not happening in the first place). It's not in me to side with the persons who are telling students that they are making it up.
Like, I'm a teacher. I care about my students, and because of this I listen to them. I taught (as a grad student) at a large state school for 5 years and heard many, many painful personal stories of racial mistreatment from my students. The grad student council would try to put forward suggestions to meet the concerns of our students; sometimes those gained traction & sometimes we were shrugged off. But we listened to our students and we tried to work within the system to help them. A few UA students just released a video as part of a class project the other day. Their stories are very common, and speak to experiences that black students have at, I'd safely guess, the majority of big college campuses:
As a teacher at my current college, I teach mostly students of color. I listen to them. The campus environment is a bit different because of the racial demographics and the size of the school, but my students know they can count on me to try and fix problems, should they occur. Because I listen. It's not in me to NOT listen, which is what your position requires. It requires a literal willful ignorance of what students are saying they experience. I can't do that.
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Listening isn't really the issue. You seem to lack any level of critical skepticsm. Unconditional love and approval has it's place. It's great when you know your mom will have your back no matter what heinous crime you've been charged with, for example. You think you're a teacher, but it sounds like you're really a great mom.
Even great moms, though, do their kids a disservice when they reinforce the idea that every boo boo is a major wound.
No one likes rude behavior, but almost everyone is exposed to it to one degree or another and you can't wipe it out. Even if we accept the "litany" (your word, your exaggeration) of allegations as facts, they don't seem to add up to anything more than low-frequency, spontaneous, rude behavior. That's not OK, but it's also not any worse for these students than the equally not OK spontaneous, rude behavior faced by many women, gays, foreigners, mormons, greeks, nerds, uglies, fatties, townies, white guys, jews, and almost everyone else.
The reason we can't have a useful dialog isn't because I won't listen. It's not even because you listen uncritically. It's because you want a different result than I do.
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