I have been on for a few days and I have over 200 emails, winks, and "he's interested". Most of these are men I prob wouldn't be interested in. A good chunk are men in their late 40s or 50s (I am in my 30s). They send super funny messages like "you have soulful eyes". Then there are a handful I would be interested in. I have tried to pick a couple to focus on and email with. My plan is to just leave my profile out there for a couple weeks and see who comes to me. Then I will go through and maybe started "liking" guys I think are interested who haven't checked me out. It is the funniest damned thing -I'm telling you in real life men don't ask me out.

I got rejected on a date invite by a more than curvy chick. That felt wonderful

I'm breaking up with my whatever she is this weekend. I feel nervous.

just say "I 99 problems, and you're one"

I feel horrible actually. I like her just not in that way anymore. She adores me.

I did that shit twice before I got married. It was tough....but it's a lot better than just stringing her along. I should have waited on one though because it was around Christmas and after I broke up with her....she mentioned that she had bought me a Joe Montana jersey. Damnt....

In real life men don't ask you out because why? Do you come off as unapproachable? Do you send out the vibe that you want to be approached?

It's a lot harder to ask a woman out in real life when your wife is sitting right there. It's much easier after she's gone to bed and you're "staying up to watch the rest of the game."

Truer words were never spoken.

Yes but would she have expected significant gifts from you? Gotta watch out for those holiday traps.

Yeah she is already expecting to spend Thanksgiving with me.

Oh my goodness I have no doubt you are right about this!!

I have read on average a guy has to send 20 messages to get 1 reply. Makes sense when you realize just how many they receive.

Then you realize there aren't 19 women worth messaging in order to receive a reply on the 20th.

I'd rather be forever alone then waste my time trying to talk up chubsters, baby mommas and nutjobs.

20 messages to one chick would get you blocked, if not the cops called. I'm assuming.