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R8RFAN 02-13-2011 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by wutamess (Post 7427890)
OK, read the topic for the post talk update.
Critiques wanted.

Can't believe I'm that guy to ask CP for advice but thanks guys.
Great ideas and input.

You have to wade thorough alot of bullshit but there are some fart smuckers here

wutamess 02-13-2011 04:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Extra Point (Post 7427799)
IMO ZepSinger's right, and LAChieffan. See the floor? Ask how many friends she has that are pregnant? Put the serious face on, reinforce the talk. Her ceiling means a lot to you, as you want her to enjoy as much success as she can. Boys can be trouble, and we sure know how they think! 2 cents....

None of her friends are pregnant. She's/they're 13. :eek:
She's in all kinds of sports/social activities in one of the best school districts in the area.

ShortRoundChief 02-13-2011 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by wutamess (Post 7427894)
None of her friends are pregnant. She's/they're 13. :eek:
She's in all kinds of sports/social activities in one of the best school districts in the area.

The high school I went to now has daycare so the mothers won't drop out. Webb City has one of the finest sports programs in the area.

edit: that's what a current student told me but I haven't confirmed

wutamess 02-13-2011 04:38 PM

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Originally Posted by MotherLover (Post 7427902)
The high school I went to now has daycare so the mothers won't drop out. Webb City has one of the finest sports programs in the area.

edit: that's what a current student told me but I haven't confirmed

I meant KC metro. Some of the highest MAP testing scores in MO.

soopamanluva 02-13-2011 06:09 PM

I thought you did pretty well. Might have driven home the pregnancy angle a little more along with the STD's tho.

Hammock Parties 02-13-2011 06:14 PM

Sounds like she's scared shitless of sex. Good job.

R8RFAN 02-13-2011 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by ClayWhit (Post 7428034)
Sounds like she's scared shitless of sex. Good job.

103,061 posts :shake:

doomy3 02-13-2011 06:22 PM

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Originally Posted by R8ers (Post 7428036)
103,361 posts :shake:

wutamess's daughter isn't the only one who is scared shitless of sex.

Hammock Parties 02-13-2011 06:26 PM

BTW, I was clearly wrong about getting her mother to do the honors. It's obvious that little girl does not want to upset or disappoint daddy.

Chief Pote 02-13-2011 06:38 PM

I still have nightmares when both of our kids were between the ages of 13 to 15. Wait a minute, it was between 16 to 21...no wait a minute they were between the ages of 21 and 30. Damn it, this parenting thing sure gives you gray hairs. ROFL

stevieray 02-13-2011 06:53 PM

good job.

been down this road.


..two pieces of advice.

1) ask yourself, are you being the kind of husband/father you want her to grow up and marry?

2)let her know she's special, and that she needs to remember that when she finally does decide to give HERSELF to someone, they need to be special too. noone can give away her self respect except her.

I asked my oldest once if she wanted to go through high school being known as the slut who would be with anyone. I also told her that if she decided to do something, most of the school would know within days...sometimes fear can be a great motivator...the key is give them the information, so they can realize the situation on their own, and choose accordingly. that way, you don't come off in a negative way.

rog, you've got a great heart, your girls know this, even if they don't "know" it yet. stay the course, and be the dad.

grey hair central.

R8RFAN 02-13-2011 06:56 PM

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Originally Posted by stevieray (Post 7428084)
good job.

been down this road.


..two pieces of advice.

1) ask yourself, are you being the kind of husband/father you want her to grow up and marry?

2)let her know she's special, and that she needs to remember that when she finally does decide to give HERSELF to someone, they need to be special too. noone can give away her self respect except her.

I asked my oldest once if she wanted to go through high school being known as the slut who would be with anyone. I also told her that if she decided to do soemthing, most of the school would know within days.

rog, you've got a great heart, your girls know this, even if they don't "know" it yet. stay the course, and be the dad.

grey hair central.

thats excellent advice, thanks

JD10367 02-13-2011 07:52 PM

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Originally Posted by wutamess (Post 7427890)
OK, read the topic for the post talk update.
Critiques wanted.

Can't believe I'm that guy to ask CP for advice but thanks guys.
Great ideas and input.

Update sounds good, but you might want to let your wife handle the personal sex talk about touching yourself and all those womanly changes.

To clarify, let your wife talk to your daughter about touching herself.

If your wife touches herself, on the other hand, please ask her to log in and provide us pics. kthxbye. ;)

ShortRoundChief 02-13-2011 07:57 PM

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Originally Posted by R8ers (Post 7428036)
103,061 posts :shake:

mostly about nothing

googlegoogle 02-13-2011 10:57 PM

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