Go on dates 2 times a week. Comes over just to see me. Went on a weekend trip last weekend.

Have you had sex? Kissed?

Kiss yes.

Before you call me a bitch about not having sex, I actually care about this girl and have been building up to it. I'm sure it will happen before she leaves though.

I'm not gonna call you a bitch for not having sex.

If you guys have been dating a couple months, then there is nothing wrong with flowers, IMO.

I'm curious...

How old is this girl and how long has the twice per week been going on?

Yeah, I'm going to agree with Buck.

Choose flowers that are pretty and appeal to what you know she likes. Do you know her favorite color? Make it considerate but not too showy and it will be appreciated.

She's 22. It's been going on for about 2 months. She is just going to school and working. We're both very busy and seeing each other about 2 times a week has been working well.

I just didn't want it to look like I was a clinger.

I assumed he was just joking around since this wasn't really a "shit where you eat" situation.

If you get her any roses, mix some daisies in. Just roses is love and just daisies is friendly. Sounds like your at a mix of both.

Yeah, send her flowers and wish her luck. Tell her you'll miss time you've been spending together but at the same time you're excited for her opportunity or something like that. That way you don't sound clingy.

Don't get her Roses.

Mixed bouquet?

My girlfriend just sent me a text that sounded accusatory and I explained to her what the real situation was. Me being me, I want to know wtf she thought I was doing, but I also know it would probably be dumb to raise this to a level that it doesnt need to be raised to. So I'll keep it inside, and think on it until I see her again.

That's the advantage of being single.

What was she accusing you of?

Tulips are nice.

18" double header.

It's a long story, but basically last night when I met her I told her that I heard her friend was having car trouble when she was wondering where said friend was.

I knew about this because the event was an art show and I had clicked on the event page on FB to get the venue address and the friend had posted she was having car trouble on the event page and asked if anyone could drop her artwork off at the venue.

Just now she texted asking how I knew she was having car trouble. It felt to me like she was accusing me of either creeping on her friends FB page or talking to her friend behind her back.

I'm probably blowing it out of proportion, but it's bugging me.

She's distrustful because of some past douchebag probably.

Meh. Ignore it.

How'd this turn out?

It's just going to blow over.

Haven't seen her since, but it's not really bugging me anymore.

Just hang by the bar, put out the vibe.

Wear a black shirt, two buttons undone, maybe frost your hair.

When you get them in the Audi, their box will say howdy.

You would look incredible bro.

http://m5.paperblog.com/i/37/378293/...-L-Zmi1Nn.jpeg

I will say a black shirt can make any guy look decent (pause)

"girl look how cute he is"

"i bet he sells computers girl"

"is that an audi?"

http://i85.photobucket.com/albums/k7...g?t=1337621823

Seeing the girl I've been dating for the last time. Won't see her for a couple weeks. It sucks. But I actually put myself out there with her because I think it could actually be a meaningful relationship.

Now I gotta wait to see what happens.

I'm going out with this girl - hoping this weekend - she's a little bit of a redneck looking little girl - but she's tight yo.


http://i.imgur.com/CdQMjlq.jpg

Definitely a Limp Bizkit fan.

Nice photo.

Is that pic taken at your bachelor pad, SR?

"Going out"? LMAO

Red isn't trolling, that girl is real.

She's no prize, and she knows it.

As drunk as she's going to get, you'll look exactly like Ryan Seacrest, and it's always been a fantasy of hers.

This is where the magic happens.

Pretty sure you could do whatever you want to her, SR.

Time to live!

You're ****ing weird.

I'm flying with my girl to Denver this weekend. We're going to a show on Saturday night and hiking Mt. Evans on Sunday.

Should be a good barometer of how things are going. Traveling gets stressful, let's see how we handle it as a couple.

Not that I don't think things are going well...they are actually pretty perfect.

Just jerk off.

Claythan, hows the dating life going for you? Haven't heard anything in a while.

"dating" is for sweet little boys like you who care about a woman's wants and needs

HOWS THE **** GAME GOING BREH?

HEY CLAY HOWS THE **** GAME?

Well, this IS a dating thread. Maybe you should start the official find a **** buddy thread?

People who date usually ****

People looking for **** buddies aren't interested in dating them.

Not true

Is that a pull tab in her navel?

Why not?

If you're looking for a **** buddy, it's because you're not looking to date. If you're looking to date, you don't treat someone like a **** buddy. Three kinds of sexual relationships:

**** buddy (aka booty call buddy): Someone you only call when you want to have sex. It's the only time you see each other.

Friends with benefits: A friend you get along with well. You're not really each other's type for anything long term, but you like to hang out and occasionally have sex.

Dating: You're looking for someone long term. You are getting to know them, possibly falling for them, and sex is of course part of that.

I had a **** buddy years ago. When one of us was in a relationship, we let the other one know. We would not contact each other until we were out of said relationship. If the other one was also not currently in a relationship, we'd go back to being **** buddies. IMO, I can't recall anyone who ended up being FWB with someone come out of it even being friends.

I don't think it's as simple as that. Expecting a potential partner to fit into some pre-defined category is a good way to set yourself up for disappointment...

Well, I am still single, so......



Of course, I've been told it's because I need to lose weight. Maybe there's more to it than that.

Definitely more to it than that. Every girl I've ever met or dated, that told themselves they needed to "Do something" before being able to find love, has been their own worst enemy with regards to actually finding love. Whether it be losing weight, or graduating college, or whatever. You're constructing your own roadblock to happiness.

No... physical attractiveness is pretty much the key thing in the start of any romantic relationships.

And, of course, nothing above a size 8 can ever be considered attractive.

To a lot of dudes, probably. SOmetimes it's a case by case thing.

*size 00 / Omaha

You have a point..

Attractive **** buddies do become significants..


Average/ugly **** buddies are always that..

No, tons of girls above that size find love..

Honestly from some of your stories I get that you are a chameleon girl, you adapt to the guy you like, by doing this you put yourself in the friend zone all the time on your own..

Seems one of the few things you have only done for yourself is derby, which is awesome, still trying to figure out how you have not gotten guys through that.. Some of the manish looking derby girls up here even get guys.. You are better than them from what I remember.

You seem caught up trying to get an image of yourself that you do not want to try and achieve or cannot and blame that for your problems. Learn to like yourself, and then guys will see that confidence. If not you might become one of those old jaded women that have 12 cats.

Sorry, going to be the evil guy in this..

luv's standards are probably too high

she needs to look for a fat guy

simple as that

i do not partake

You're a piece of shit.

Save it for the 101 thread.

I guess, just seems obvious to me.

Not tryin' to hate, but there's probably some hefty dude out there looking for love.

Shit, maybe they could get skinny together.

Nonsense! There are men who like larger women, smaller women, women of different colors, nationalities, religions, personalities, shapes and sizes. You name it. And that is not bullshit to make you feel better either. I swear I've known a lot of dudes (of all types) that prefer large women.

The reason you're single is probably the same reason a lot of people are single. Your own mentality. It's tough to turn that around, I know believe me.

Taking off to Denver w/ my chick tomorrow. Gonna drop the L bomb Sunday on top of Mt. Evans.

Be sure to pack the 38. Just in case she throws out the ol " I love cake".

Drama queen much?

Seems kind of forced Buck.

Now it's sounding more like a marriage proposal.

WTF, you've got an elaborate plan and dramatic scene to tell your girl you love her for the first time. Saying you love someone for the first time should come from you spontaneously and naturally. It should be organic.

Actually planning it with an elaborate setup will make it seem fake and it will take something away from the moment. Life isn't a Jennifer Aniston movie. Stop being so dramatic and be real.

Buck will always be a fat chick at heart.

Maybe Buck just wants a lot of wild, hot sex on this trip.

Playa gotta play.

dating website order of operations:

1) Look up list of women available to see most have nothing going for them looks wise (be they skinny or "curvy")
2) Find one that you're not too high on, but figure you're not the best looking either. Give it a shot.
3) Send a message in the form of a question about something on their profile that should have at least a modicum of interest without a lot of blathering about connections, how they look, bluster about yourself et cetera because chances are they won't respond back.
4) Log off.
5) Log on to see that the lady you messaged looked at your profile but that was about it.
6) Look back at list of profiles. There seems to be a lot less profiles you find attractive than the first time around.
7) Decide not to be a shallow prick and take a look at a profile to see if there's something you can possibly connect with..
8) See that lady has a kid(s), is overly religious, has nothing in common with you or opts to list "her fambly' as one of her interests.
9) Return to step 1 and repeat.

Yeah lol, that's a great true post. I gave up on the singles site stuff a loooong time ago. I had some connections on there but they all turned out to be crazy or skanky as hell. Or complete alcoholics. If I wanted that I'd just head out to my local Regal Beagle.

So now I'm just staying single until I meet someone naturally that I have a connection with. I've had some dates here and there but nothing big yet. Right now I have a couple women I think I find attractive both physically and mentally that I see on a somewhat regular basis. Whether they feel the same I do not know, but I shall find out.