If you're already friends with the girl you can avoid the creep factor. Just don't do any silly unintentional body brushes while reaching for the salt kind of thing and you lessen the idea that you're predatory.

If you barely know the girl then I'd avoid it unless you ooze charm and come with references.

If a girl accepts an offer to have a date in your home, she isn't creeped out by you, and I would guess has accepted the fact that the night will end with SOMETHING physical.

She's a friend of a friend. Weve hungout before but not exclusively.

The dinner at my place was always my go to when a) I was short on funds, and/or b) I didn't want to be seen out with you. KC is a small city.

I typically (almost always) date outside of my social circle. However, recently I've started to date someone who I was set up with through mutual friends. I had heard about her through a few of my female friends and I first met her at another mutual friend's birthday party. A couple of days after the party I asked another friend to give me her number and took things from there. We've gone out a few times now and, for the first time since we started dating, met up with mutual friends together yesterday. Still not at the point yet where I'd have her over my place for dinner.

I would not ask her to dinner at your place in this situation. There is a big difference between "one of the first dates" and "THE first date".

Eh, you come with references then. Make it sweet and funny and you're fine.

Women are amazing.

This girl was throwing my signs like crazy and saying we should hangout blah blah. I send a text last night asking to go out tonight and no response.

I've always found that I will find "love" (using that term very loosely) when I'm not looking for it. Any time I've actively pursued it, I struck out. That's not very good advice I know.

It helps to always act confident, be funny, and be attractive. Shouldn't be hard if you do all 3.

I would still make dinner and set it up for two just in case.

Come over.

Went on a nice coffee date at Starbucks for 2 and a half hours. This girl seemed to really be awesome, so I'm taking her out to dinner tomorrow night.

Basically that's a 2nd date I guess. Should I go in for the kiss if things go well again or wait?

First date get to know her. Second date small goodnight kiss. 3rd date full carnage.

That's a quick turnaround