This coffee date was on Thursday. Can coffee really be considered a date? I would assume that's just an icebreaker. Idk if first date just means something real like dinner?

Oh, and she is a virgin apparently..and she's 25. I haven't decided if that is a bad thing yet?

25 year old virgin?

Bull ****ing shit.

If you literally sat and talked with this girl for 2:30 that's amazing and a real connection IMO.

Definitely a date BTW.

The virgin thing is a red flag. Find out quickly if she's waiting until marriage.

Just how ugly is this chick?

Ruuuuuuunnnnnn!!!!!!!!!

There's no rule for when to go for the kiss or what to do. Every person, and every date is different. I've gone on first dates that finish with nothing more than a hug, and I've been on others where we ended up banging in the car.

Just feel it out, and if it feels like she's giving you the "come hither" eyes, then go for it.

Concur wholeheartedly, Jesus talk about a red flag...

twas nice. I'll find out more tonight about the virgin thing. She did make it seem like a bunch of assholes at clubs just wanted to bang her and want nothing more. Can't really blame a girl for not wanting to do that.

Bullshit.

Yeah but if she's 25 and still a virgin, either she's never had a long-term boyfriend or she's got some religious hangup. Or she's a fat nerd who lives in with her parents and dresses up like Boba Fett.

Got a kick out of some shit last night hanging out with my friend and his girl because they both independently made references to not getting laid to me at different times.

First off, I was like "The ****? TMI" but then I was like "WTF is the point of dating if you aren't screwing on the regular?"

I then referred to them as a married couple for the rest of the night. I don't think they appreciated that.

Or she made a plan from the beginning to wait until marriage.

I dated a girl for about 6 months when I was 23. She was 21 and still a virgin. She had had a serious boyfriend from the age of 16 to 21 when I met her. She legitimately planned on waiting till marriage. And I would put her as a solid 7-8. Found out later that she ended up dating some dude after me and got married to him after 3 years.

She did have one long relationship, so we'll see how this goes. I've only spent one night with her so I don't know her that well.

Tonight will tell more.

Sounds like someone we know