Interesting....and what would make you say that?

And it would be interesting to know what is wrong with waiting till marriage?

Some of you will change your way of thinking once you have daughters of your own.

It's possible, for sure; but women are known to lie about their sexual escapades to make themselves seem more favorable to potential mates.

If a chick is a 25 year old virgin and not religious, she's either lying her ass off or she's a ****ing weirdo.

Would you buy a cow without tasting the milk?

Sexual compatibility is important in any relationship.

What if you're not sexually compatible? The marriage will be ruined or at best extremely stressed.

But you didn't qualify that in your first statement.....and with the proliferation of diseases many women are choosing to wait.

Or just have exclusive sex with your girlfriend. Not hard, bro. Marriage is just a piece of paper.

This shows how little you understand about relationships and marriage. If you truly think the only thing that keeps a marriage together is a sex life then you have much to learn and I would suggest you never, ever get married.

Trust me.....women put less of a value to sex in a marriage than men do. Oh, they value and love sex, but you can be the best in bed ever, but if you have no clue what makes her happy beyond that YOU are doomed.

Wait for what?

To shack up with a dude at 28 after he's been proliferating those diseases for the previous 12 years?

I'm not saying it isn't smart, but I don't know many people that wait that long to have sex for any reason that isn't extremely religious.

I didn't say that.

If you are not sexually compatible with someone, getting married is a pretty bad idea.

To those who think marriage is all about a piece of paper....I say don't get married.

Marriage is a relationship and a bond that 2 people go into. A good marriage can survive many things....and will be tested throughout the whole time. That's why so many marriages fail these days, no one has the fortitude to work thru the things that test the marriage. (No I am not including being unfaithful in that)

Extremely religious? So what you are saying is that if a girl doesn't believe in religion she probably won't stay a virgin till marriage?

That's an all-encompassing declaration you can't substantiate, any more than I could say that all extremely religious girls stay virgin.

Absolutely. But you don't need a piece of paper to have that bond.

But you should still see if you are sexually compatible first.

You are still making sex the most important thing in a marriage....while it IS important, a girl can fish that out real quick while you are dating and she will definitely put you in the "friends with possible benefits" realm.

Your first statement I agree with.....


Your second I don't.

Why not?

Sexual compatibility is very important in a relationship.

If you are not sexually compatible with someone...why stay in that relationship?

What if you are disgusted by the mere thought of sex with that person? Good luck staying committed.