Pretty much this.

Why confront the significant other? You knew she was cheating, so just end it. And to think people think women like drama.

Maybe he didn't get violent, not because he's a puss....but because he knew he'd given you herpes....

I always think it's funny in these situations when guys wanna beat up the other guy when in reality it's the chicks fault as she plays 2 guys.

This is an amazing tale of woe. I can't figure out who the good guys are, though.

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But we're weak creatures easily swayed.

You say that because you're a douchebag with no scruples about who you fornicate with...

If she thought the sex was as amazing as he did...

You let her do it on her terms and you don't do it for her. You're the one who entered into the relationship that way, so you accept the consequences. That's just my opinion.

Amen sistah.

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No it's because guys are reeruns and think it can't possibly be their g/fs fault it had to be the other guys fault....as she likely never mentioned she had a b/f or told him she was leaving him or something like that.

Alot of guys never come to terms with the fact that their g/f is just as much at fault as the other guy is.

If your simple justification is "but it was great sex", then you obviously didn't have much emotional investment in this.

Consider it acceptable loss and start lookin for psychos closer to home...

Am I missing something he said the guy was her ex?

So, basically, you knew she was still living with another man and decided it was alright to nail her without verifying that things were over by talking to the guy beforehand, then you got pissed because she decided to stop cheating, so you went and threw it all in the guy's face? Did you kick the poor bastard in the balls and insult his mother too while you were at it?

No, its because dumbf@cks like you don't think twice about laying down someone else's wife. It does come with consequences sometimes.

Its the chics fault for sure. Filthy Pirate hookers.

I suppose I see it differently if the guy is far away and has no idea who you are vs someone who does know you. IF she lied about it....and the guy has no idea, its a different story. I don't know of too many cases where that is true.

I've not found myself in this situation because see, I wouldn't nail someone elses' wife.