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Originally Posted by Monk (Post 5723660)

As a matter of fact my lawyer said basically the same thing.

Think I'll make my wife keep a job until retirement :)

You just can't figure these things out that make people tick. Damn selfish people.

Does she have a much younger sister you could ****?

My gosh that is aweful especially when the bitch is in the wrong. Horrible laws.

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Originally Posted by RJ (Post 5723672)

Does she have a much younger sister you could ****?

Holy shit that would be a great idea. It would put a hole in her heart and it would be completely legal.

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Originally Posted by RJ (Post 5723672)

Does she have a much younger sister you could ****?

:clap:

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Originally Posted by Cannibal (Post 5723649)

They give housewives everything.

Not housewives who leave their husband for another man.

I would retain a better lawyer. NO WAY IN HELL that you should lose the house without compensation. What state do you live in?

wow....sorry to hear that man! Thats crazy...I feel for ya.

same thing happened to my folks, well not exactly the same thing happened to my folks but they split just recently like 3 years ago...Except, they had problems in their marriage. Was tough for me to because I was in the middle of it.

Divorces, separations are one of the hardest things to deal with in life. I agree they have to do something about these separations laws they are unfair in a lot of ways.

I hope everything will be okay with you, and I hope that this type of situation or circumstance doesn't affect your health, or sanity. Easier said then done I know..Its a challenge. But That is more important then anything.

Best thing I can say is try your best to stay strong. I hope you do that.

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Originally Posted by RJ (Post 5723672)

Does she have a much younger sister you could ****?

I never cheated on her. But if she did have a sister I weould for the hell of it

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Originally Posted by AustinChief (Post 5723681)

Not housewives who leave their husband for another man.

I would retain a better lawyer. NO WAY IN HELL that you should lose the house without compensation. What state do you live in?

Typically, the reason for the divorce is not included in the proceedings. I'm no lawer, but I know people who have been through it. I believe it's called "no fault".

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Originally Posted by AustinChief (Post 5723681)

Not housewives who leave their husband for another man.

I would retain a better lawyer. NO WAY IN HELL that you should lose the house without compensation. What state do you live in?

Colorado

these laws do suck A$$. If she wants to leave...then she gets nothing!!!!!!!

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Originally Posted by Monk (Post 5723689)

I never cheated on her. But if she did have a sister I weould for the hell of it

Tell you what man. I wish you the best of luck. I would suggest that you not remarry for a long while. Don't go getting lonely and marrying some ugly/stupid pig in 2 weeks. Get your confidence back and have some fun. If you're not in shape, use the extra time to join a gym and get in great shape.

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Originally Posted by Monk (Post 5723623)

I normally don't post on here,but damn I need to vent. I have (had) been married to the same woman for over 35 years. Never a major problem in our relationship. Five weeks ago she informs me she wants a divorce as she has met someone and wants something different in her life.

I worked 25 years for Williams Energy, we put two daughters through college and helped them, as we could, get established in life.

So,today was a meeting between the lawyers and I find out I will have to give her the house (paid for ) a car (new) and 1/2 of my pension,savings, and investments. Now all of that was ours 50/50 any way and she did her part in the marriage. Not only does it hurt like hell but now it looks like at 58 I have to start all over again.

Sorry for spelling or grammer but right now I don't care my heart is broken and soon to be homeless (STARTING OVER AT 58 )

Well I hate to say this cuz everyone is going your pity party but be VERY happy. Remember the past with kind and fond thoughts but let me tell you life isn't even close to over and you are going to like the digs out here. You will find someone that is way more in tune with your likes and you will be ten times happier than you can imagine.

I know its tough now but trust me its going to be a great thing for you in the long run. Jump back in and you will enjoy your life on a whole new level, And I say this from experience.

Dave

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Originally Posted by Monk (Post 5723689)

I never cheated on her. But if she did have a sister I weould for the hell of it

A distant cousin, maybe?

Niece?

Just typing out loud here.