Originally Posted by loochy (Post 17817160)

Hi Burt.


The son thing....really weird....how do you handle such a thing? That has to be awkward. Hopefully he doesn't have any resentment toward you.

Originally Posted by BIG_DADDY (Post 17817220)

Crazy SOB. Take care of yourself and quit getting married.

Originally Posted by burt (Post 17817055)

Hi! I've been gon a long time! I've switched several jobs, got married (a mistake at this point) and lost 56 lbs. Unfortunately, I lost weight mostly through illness. Now I have completely quit booze and it's coming off steadily. Down to 224 from 286. 46 inch waist to 38. I am on top of my illness and things are looking good. Except the marriage.

Oh, and 2 weeks ago, I found out I have a 37 year old son that I had no idea existed. I have met him and his family. Wife and 2 kids. I now have 2 more grand kids! And that's all cool.

AMA!

Originally Posted by burt (Post 17817233)

Yeah, obviously I suck at that.

Originally Posted by Rasputin (Post 17817252)

I'll tell you what's worse than getting married. Falling in love with a married woman and being her lover and her husband finds out and about kills you.

Originally Posted by burt (Post 17817055)

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Oh, and 2 weeks ago, I found out I have a 37 year old son that I had no idea existed. I have met him and his family. Wife and 2 kids. I now have 2 more grand kids! And that's all cool.

AMA!

Originally Posted by Rasputin (Post 17817252)

I'll tell you what's worse than getting married. Falling in love with a married woman and being her lover and her husband finds out and about kills you.

Originally Posted by Rain Man (Post 17817286)

Did you never go into that part of the house when he was growing up?

Originally Posted by wazu (Post 17817274)

That doesn't sound as bad as being in a crappy marriage unless there is some permanent damage not mentioned.

Originally Posted by burt (Post 17817290)

Not exactly the scenario......