A good ass whooping will clear ya mind sometimes.


Still that was pretty bad.

My sub-conscience manifests itself in an avatar on a football BB, who would've knew? :doh!: ROFL

Where's Freud when you need him eh?

Looks like T-Post Tom can add MO and bane to his shit list.

Takin too far, it can be used to dispel it also.

I would agree, except that the girl has cerebral palsy and all she was doing was downloading some music.

25 strikes with a belt for that? Doesn't seem excessive? Punishment fit the crime?

Seriously. Get over your ****ing self.

It's obvious that your parents were too strict in your toliet training. First session is free. :thumb:

I was also a bottle fed baby so I tend to focus on titties quite often, I LOVE the boob thread.

What part of I'M NOT DEFENDING HIM don't you get? It was shitty and excessive.

Of course, we don't know anything about these people besides what's in the story. Ever snap and do something horrible that you've regretted later? Sure would suck if somebody posted in on You Tube, wouldn't it?

For all we know he felt like shit about it and bought her a pony the next day. Or maybe he's a complete ogre. I don't know.

I almost rooted and felt sorry for MU one time...

I will never do that again.. I promise.

:LOL: Theyu sure do, I've personally helped build character of many men, but not little girls with cerebral palsey I leave that to the guys that I help with their character issues.

Spare the rod and spoil the child...

Not to get all religious and all.

She was pirating, plain and simple. 25 strikes was generous on the part of her father. /firemeboy

I thought Dane lived in California?

Uhhh, I don't. First of all, I didn't post this as a "thrill" I was very passionate about the fact that I thought this was a profound and horrible act of physical abuse and felt it should be shared.

Second of all, my LAST thread was to bring awareness to the Planet about men's cancer. Particularly, prostate cancer. But nobody cared about that. I posted how I am growing a moustache to help bring awareness to prostate cancer and men's health, but it failed to generate ANY interest at all. Nobody gave a hoot about that.

Does he say "stay down bitch" in the video?

Atleast it wasn't a hot wheels track.

I couldn't bring myself to watch the video, but the story alone makes me :mad:!! Why morons are allowed to breed is beyond me!!!

Somebody has to go to Husker games.

WOot! Then Turner Gill has created a high-character team!

Oh man, been there. Curtain rod too.
Gear Head Wrenching buddy said his mom used to get a willow switch from the tree in the back yard and leave a couple of leaves at the end so it'd whistle as she swung it.

In no way, am I justifying any of this. However, this doesn't show the build up to the event. At the end, the mother says, "Now, I will leave you alone." That hints to a massive amount of disrespect leading up to this.

It wasn't just about the downloaded music. That, in and of itself, probably wouldn't have led to this. It was a deeper issue with disrespect and disobedience.

I have no issue with spanking children. Personally, I don't use a belt. I use my hand. Even the belt wasn't what bothered me the most about this video. It is how this guy talked to his daughter.

I used to think I had an anger problem. Heck, I did have an anger problem. I feel horrible about the way that I treated my oldest daughter at times. And, I never, NEVER, even came close to this. The worst thing that I can think of was pushing my daughter up against a wall for being disrespectful to her mother. And, I still feel awful about that.

This was brutally painful.

I wish I could beat this man to death

I watched an interview with this lady and her mother this morning. She sure doesn't act or appear to be suffering any severe malady.

The mother was trying to make it about her, made several insinuations about the man, but to me they both came off as having ulterior motive.

the dad is probably an asshole, but he insinuated she had been stealing and there was more to the reason he whipped her.

I haven't watched the entire video, but the part I did see wasn't as horrifying as I expected based on comments. Whippings are supposed to hurt. They're supposed to hurt so you learn to not do what you've done wrong to need the whacks.

Its a good thing they didn't have cell phone video's when I was a kid.
I got it a helluva lot worse then that.

:hmmm: The dad said yesterday that this incident happened years ago. And it was mentioned somewhere that the mom finally left the abusive relationship months ago. Is the mom bringing this out now as an opening barrage in a divorce battle?

And yes, the guy clearly deserves whatever public humiliation and legal repercussions come his way. I'm just saying it's possible that the mom is just as despicable if she's known about this video and has released it on YouTube just to get a leg up in a divorce battle (instead of going to the police or CPS if she was so concerned about the abuse).

I don't know what you saw, but you need to watch the whole thing. I don't really care what the girl supposedly stole, but you just don't beat on and talk to your kid like he did. The fact that she had some other issues only makes it worse.

I've spanked my kids before - I think there's a time and place, but you don't get crazy and cross that line. This guy freaking whipped her in a manner that cannot be justified in my opinion.

Because she is slow he had to beat her harder.

Any grown man that has to use anything other than an open hand to spank a child is a complete pussy.

Interesting that they fired the guy who used corporal punishment on his players.

:thumb:

You guys were never beaten w/ a belt when you were little for being a little f***?

I wasn't beaten with a belt 25 times while my father screamed at me that I was worthless.....no.

Yep. Open hand [within reason] = discipline. Beating a child with a belt like this = child abuse.

This guy is a piece of shit. He's not even a man. He's a little boy wearing man pants.

Really?

Because, that would have explained most of your issues, I think.

LMAO

Paint chips. Just incase you're looking for an explanation.

You were beaten with paint chips? My god man. Were they launched using a sand blaster?

Yeah.....I had a really rough childhood.

My parents would stand me outside in the backyard and blast me with paintchips. That shit hurts.

I got my share of whippings when I was a kid. Most of it was deserved. I was an ornery shit that always tried to push the limit. I do not have an issue with corporal punishment as long as its not excessive/abusive. But what this guy did is WAY over the edge IMO.

Those damn things used to hurt like hell.

Not always. I wound up in the principals office at school on more than one occasion and had a close and personal meeting with the paddle. Usually 1-3 swats depending on whatever stupid crap I pulled on that given day. Personally I don't have a problem with this type of spanking as long as its not excessive. But what this guy gave his daughter IMO constitutes a beating, not simple punishment or a spanking.

Pychologists actually encourage parents who believe in corporal punishment to use something other than their hand. Kids see the hand as the parent while if we use something sensible, they'll dissociate the impliment. We use a wooden spoon around these parts. But I don't beat my kids with it. Couple swats usually does the trick.

Lol at the hand. Id of cried tears of joy if my parents beat me with a hand. Funny.

Pain was just weakness leaving your body mo.

Go out and cut your own switch then meet me in back of the guest house.

I think the main thing is to show affection after you beat them. When I got spanked as a child, my parents would immediately feel bad and try to explain how they still love me and showed me affection. Of course by that time, I would have cried all the demons out and felt guilty for driving my parents to beating me. Everyone was better off after it. Good times.

A wooden spoon? Hmm, I would think I could shatter one of those by striking my fully erect penis.

My mom used to beat us (my sisters and me) with those green bamboo tomato garden stakes. They left welts and bruises. My dad would very rarely strike us. But my mom took it too far. What was OK back then (Mid 1960's) would cause Juvenile Services to show up now.

I still hate those green tomato stakes.

Beating and spanking or two different things. I'm shocked anyone would go near defending this beating even if they were spanked with a belt. I was and my parents are horrified that they ever did such a thing. They would have been in trouble with the law these days and those spankings weren't remotely as bad as this. Two or three swats. As I write that I cringe that they ever thought that was an acceptable practice.

I don't recall my parents ever striking me. But, that's probably because I've been concussed so frequently.

Since both my parents worked, I did have baby sitters who were redneck animals and illiterate farmers. The "granny" used to force me to go out into her yard and select my switch. I learned early on to choose the largest log I could find which inhibited her ability to wield the weapon effectively and didn't sting. I guarantee you that, in this day and age, she would be imprisoned ... if not for child abuse, certainly for stupidity.

FAX

Ida wore there hand out long long long before they wore my ass out. Edit_ told my mom once that she would have to kill me to win.

Your parents should have used the buckle end more often.

http://www.caller.com/news/2011/nov/...t-belt-lashin/ His statement also as a person who have cp we do not do it to gain public sympathy. He should go die in a aid tree fire while drinkin antifreeze.

I agree with whatever Brad just said... I think.

LMAO

my old man would beat me w/the first thing he could pick up. after awhile, i learned to just hang a belt over the doorknob in every room in the house. that way i knew it would just be a strap of leather.

i think dad appreciated that, too.
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My step dad used to make me help him fashion an new paddle every summer...kinda like an animal house thank you sir may I have another type paddle...sanded, varnished and stained. The worst thing was dropping my drawers and bending over a saw horse...that was never fun...and yes..I got the "this is going to hurt me than it's going to hurt you" BS...

Oh...and I wasn't a bad kid...the worst ass whooping I got was over nothing I even did...My younger sister slammed a door waking up my younger brother, a toddler at the time and he thought I did it...It was my birthday and I was minding my own business with a toy and BAM...he kicked me about 10 feet across the room into the wall and then dragged me into the garage and did what he enjoyed the most...hitting my bare ass with a ****ing paddle and telling me how worthless I was...That is why this video brings back some painful memories for me...the paddle wasn't half as bad as the verbal abuse...

This same reason is what made me say something about the abuse I had to endure. The verbal was worse than the physical. Bruises heal, the brainwashing not as quick. I heard things just like the video. I don't like to talk about these kinds of things at all but maybe it's time to talk about it. Get it out so I won't let this shit control my life anymore.

I've gotten some helpful words from some members here, their own experiences. It's hard to put in words how much that is appreciated.

probably could ease your pain going to getting professional help, if it is bothering you still chances are it shows up when you are eating out, or doing anything in public.

Are you actually suggesting he was wrong?

You think your old man was bad... my parents made me fall down stairs until something broke. It was only then that they knew I had learned my lesson.

I don't agree with spanking a child over 6-7. If your kid doesn't know general right from wrong past this age...you might have problems with your parenting style. Obviously that fmaily has a special needs child and they needed to take a class a long time ago. The regular rules don't apply.

A word on getting the belt. For me, it only took once. Once was enough.

That's nothing. My Aunt Wilma used to set me on fire and then roast marshmallows over my blazing groin.

FAX

Man. I am sorry dude. My father never treated me like that and may god strike me down now if I ever treat my boys that way. I can't relate and am sorry for the pain you endured growing up.

Tiny violins are playing your song.

I have turned off my sarcasm meter, but not sure if you're being real. If so, I am terribly sorry for your upbringing. My parents were and are completely supportive. My question is how did I become an alcoholic with suicidal tendencies.

My mom used to crack me in the head with wooden cutting boards and then sell me to the NFL for concussion studies.

The wooden cutting board part is true... once.

My Uncle Bart liked little boys and when I was bad I had to spend the weekend with him. Sometimes when we were short on rent I got to spend the weekend with him too.

My dad hit me so hard I woke up looking at the sky wondering how I got there. Another time I went to climb on and ended up biting off more than I could chew, and in the 5th grade, I drew back a stump.

Today's report is she released the video because Daddy bear cut off some of her financial stipend because she dropped out of college.


This wasn't about the girl's emotional trama, it is essentially blackmail and punishment for cutting her allowance off. It's a money grab. That's gotta be worth at least 2 or 3 good whacks.



I'd have traded having to clean out the fat-hog shed for a beating any day.

Some of these replies are true gems!

I have been beat like this girl. NOT at 16 though. At a much younger age, my siblings and I would compare welts. 9-14ish, I got hit with what ever, including an occasional fist. And on several occasions, for something that I didn't do. I learned to aply those beatings to something that I did wrong and got away with. I also used the beatings to man up. I got to a point where I told my self, "This kid that is bullying you CAN'T hit as hard as your Dad"

In my 20's I decided that my father didn't know any better because he had poor role models. I love my dad dearly. He just didn't know better.

Now I will say that when my son was deliberately bad, I used to act like I was as mad as my dad was. CRAZY mad. And yes, I used a belt on him. 3 to 5 whacks. Not 25. If some of you had seen this, you MAY have attempted to beat me!

He is now 16 and I don't lay a hand or belt on him. Not for fear(he is 145lbs, I am 285) but because it wouldn't do any good. The time for physical punishment is long gone. Same for my 13 year old daughter. I think spanking them would be a little wierd, no matter how subdued I did it.

Yeah, I got that too. Makes me think she didn't learn any thing from any punishment, over the line or not.

This post certainly explains a lot.

Doesn't matter why she did it. Fact is she's probably saving other kids from abuse because that SOB likely set many abusive parents free or did not ensure proper justice. His abusive secret come to light and he lose his job.

So we are supposed to be suspicious of her because her father is now going to throw her under the bus to save his ass?

Uh - he's trying to claw his way out from under a huge bus... There's not a single one of us that is perfect. Everybody here has done something they're glad isn't plastered all over the internet.

I'm not a fan of the guy. I'm not excusing his actions. But if we're going to castigate him then we need to throw the book at his daughter as well. She's disabled but somehow managed to video, plot, blackmail, and release a viral vid to the internet... She's not dummy-disabled. She should do just as much time as daddy does.

Maybe he will get thrown in a cell where big bubba will beat the shit out of him.

She was a child when this happened. She can't be prosecuted for filming illegal activity or framing someone. The statute of limitations is up for the criminal activity this bastard perpetuated. At least for this incidence. I'm sure this type of beating would indicate it wasn't a one time event.

So he sees no jail time. The greater good his daughter provided was of making sure this asshole doesn't judge anymore child abuse cases. It's like an alcoholic judge deciding DUI cases. Seriously, if no one knows there is a problem then it's impossible to fix it. But once the problem becomes known it becomes irresponsible not to fix it. The daughter in doing a disservice to her father did a HUGE service to other kids in the same situation. Boo freaking hoo for her father.

As far as none of us being perfect, I can guarantee you that the majority of people have nothing this extreme in their parenting past that they would be afraid would show up on the internet. Maybe a verbal beat down but even then I think the majority of us would not have that either.

um.........

perception is everything.

I think if you are using a belt to beat your child then you are abusing your child. Sorry, that is my view.