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Third Eye 04-14-2019 09:36 AM

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Originally Posted by BryanBusby (Post 14205808)
Leawood suckssssssss and I'd be concerned with buying in PV.

If my wife and I were in that situation, my wife and I would probably choose one job to live by. The one with the short commute would do more house work and the longer commute would get more choice on house features. I'd take a longer commute to make my wife do all the yardwork tbh

This is a great conversation to have as we are about a year out from buying. I grew up making fun of Leawood folk, and JoCo in general. Then I moved out of KC for 20 years and just moved back, so I don’t really know a lot about KC anymore, and particularly not from an adult perspective. So why the concerns about PV and Leawood? Is it just a taxes thing?

School district is one of our biggest factors and based on balancing our wants/needs with school quality, it sounds like we want to be in the Shawnee Mission East school district. It’s the only highly rated district on the KS side that is not a Blue Valley school and south of 435. So that is a motivating factor for PV/north Leawood.

BryanBusby 04-14-2019 09:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Third Eye (Post 14205821)
This is a great conversation to have as we are about a year out from buying. I grew up making fun of Leawood folk, and JoCo in general. Then I moved out of KC for 20 years and just moved back, so I don’t really know a lot about KC anymore, and particularly not from an adult perspective. So why the concerns about PV and Leawood? Is it just a taxes thing?

School district is one of our biggest factors and based on balancing our wants/needs with school quality, it sounds like we want to be in the Shawnee Mission East school district. It’s the only highly rated district on the KS side that is not a Blue Valley school and south of 435. So that is a motivating factor for PV/north Leawood.

I can see that point of view.

I just flat out do not like Leawood. The people are mostly jerks, everything looks awfully plain, HoA's are butt and the cops are dicks apparently.

As for PV, I'd just be concerned about all teardowns and rebuilding. Tax wise, it actually seemed like LS was worse when my wife and I were looking at places a year ago. Maybe I'm wrong on that, but **** did they seem outrageous.

Coyote 04-14-2019 09:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Third Eye (Post 14205821)
This is a great conversation to have as we are about a year out from buying. I grew up making fun of Leawood folk, and JoCo in general. Then I moved out of KC for 20 years and just moved back, so I don’t really know a lot about KC anymore, and particularly not from an adult perspective. So why the concerns about PV and Leawood? Is it just a taxes thing?

School district is one of our biggest factors and based on balancing our wants/needs with school quality, it sounds like we want to be in the Shawnee Mission East school district. It’s the only highly rated district on the KS side that is not a Blue Valley school and south of 435. So that is a motivating factor for PV/north Leawood.

Maybe Nall Hills? Seems to fit many of your location needs and great access to major roads with neighborhood stability vs. price point. I’m not in kc area but have relatives there. http://nallhills.org

Coyote 04-14-2019 09:50 AM

Meant to mention schools . Sorry. It’s in Sm South (Raiders) map for high school. Next to Blue Valley North for next HS boundary.I m not in kc area but have relatives there. http://nallhills.org

Discuss Thrower 04-14-2019 09:53 AM

Consider writing love letters to the sellers if your agent lets you know it's not an obvious flipper or investment property. Not a fan of the concept myself seeing as it treads into violating Fair Housing laws but it supposedly works.

displacedinMN 04-14-2019 09:55 AM

During the last sell boom, people were walking up to houses and offering money to the owners to sell

BWillie 04-14-2019 10:03 AM

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Originally Posted by BDj23 (Post 14205270)
My wife and I are trying to buy a house. We've looked at several. Seven so far to be exact. We have put in offers on five. The last one we offered 5,000 dollars over their asking price. We still don't have a house.

What. The. ****?

This is truly an awful experience. Has anyone else ever had to deal with this kind of nightmare?

Sounds like I need to sell my rentals. Good to hear the market is good!

oldman 04-14-2019 10:06 AM

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Originally Posted by Third Eye (Post 14205821)

School district is one of our biggest factors and based on balancing our wants/needs with school quality, it sounds like we want to be in the Shawnee Mission East school district. It’s the only highly rated district on the KS side that is not a Blue Valley school and south of 435. So that is a motivating factor for PV/north Leawood.

The SM school district isn't what it used to be. Desoto school district is better, but you have to live in western Shawnee or Lenexa. https://www.niche.com/k12/search/bes...icts/s/kansas/

George Liquor 04-14-2019 10:10 AM

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Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower (Post 14205845)
Consider writing love letters to the sellers if your agent lets you know it's not an obvious flipper or investment property. Not a fan of the concept myself seeing as it treads into violating Fair Housing laws but it supposedly works.

Tried it

BryanBusby 04-14-2019 10:13 AM

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Originally Posted by BDj23 (Post 14205873)
Tried it

Have you tried writing to say you intend to turn their house into a BDSM airbnb rental?

Third Eye 04-14-2019 10:14 AM

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Originally Posted by BryanBusby (Post 14205831)
I can see that point of view.

I just flat out do not like Leawood. The people are mostly jerks, everything looks awfully plain, HoA's are butt and the cops are dicks apparently.

As for PV, I'd just be concerned about all teardowns and rebuilding. Tax wise, it actually seemed like LS was worse when my wife and I were looking at places a year ago. Maybe I'm wrong on that, but **** did they seem outrageous.

At this preliminary stage I haven’t yet been factoring in HOAs, but that will definitely be a part of the equation. The other points are good to know. I mean, I already knew about Leawood pricks, but the rest is good to know.

Third Eye 04-14-2019 10:18 AM

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Originally Posted by Coyote (Post 14205839)
Meant to mention schools . Sorry. It’s in Sm South (Raiders) map for high school. Next to Blue Valley North for next HS boundary.I m not in kc area but have relatives there. http://nallhills.org

I mean, we’ll be flexible. It’s not like we are Shawnee Mission East or bust, but it’s our target at this point.

Coyote 04-14-2019 10:27 AM

Yeah the whole process sucks. Just embrace the suck and do the best. I’ve done this many times under many conditions to/from mostly high cost sellers markets. So Cal, Northern Virginia, Hi., etc.
As a seller, in those markets I’ve had all kinds of letter attempts made . None worked with me. Many were plays on new wives, sob stories and multiple Chiefs fans plays given my man caves decor and it’s out of norm for the locations. Most were above asking price.
My last 3 moves involved homes that were only hours on the markets with multiple offers. Hell, 2 houses ago, I left my power of attorney with an agent I just meant and instructions to buy me a house in a certain neighborhood . Nothing I would recommend or ever thought I’d do as a Midwesterner. But if your market is approaching this kind of crazy I’d be surprised but don’t truly know.
What as worked as a buyer and seller in sellers markets;
No B. S. No contingencies. Have your financing locked down. Show it.
No quibbling. The market sets the price. Don’t initially include allowances or low ball your offer over carpet, water heater, roof,etc.
No weird requests. What does or does not convey. Don’t fall for or try stunts about flat screens, refrigerators, etc. I’ve had people try to get me to leave plants and aquariums, etc. I probably would have if they just didn’t ask in their initial offer.
Be flexible on closing and move in dates. State that in your offer. Defer to the seller or negotiate it.
Use your inspectors findings as negotiating points after your initial offer has been accepted.

IA_Chiefs_fan 04-14-2019 10:35 AM

The house we moved into last fall was never on the market. I put an ad on a local Facebook swap page. I was very specific about what we were looking for. Two people contacted me. One had forty acres and a beautiful home that was perfect for us. Shook hands and started moving stuff in pretty much immediately but that's a small town for you. Of course now I'm six months into paying two mortgages. Anyone want to buy a beautiful home in the poorest county in Iowa?

Coyote 04-14-2019 10:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Third Eye (Post 14205890)
I mean, we’ll be flexible. It’s not like we are Shawnee Mission East or bust, but it’s our target at this point.

Well I would stick to it.It’s important. During all of my moves involving high schoolers, school selection drove all other considerations.

My wife and I locked down our neighbors choices only after dropping in unannounced to a high school during the school day.
It was amazing to see the differences between schools in the same district

George Liquor 04-14-2019 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by Coyote (Post 14205903)
Yeah the whole process sucks. Just embrace the suck and do the best. I’ve done this many times under many conditions to/from mostly high cost sellers markets. So Cal, Northern Virginia, Hi., etc.
As a seller, in those markets I’ve had all kinds of letter attempts made . None worked with me. Many were plays on new wives, sob stories and multiple Chiefs fans plays given my man caves decor and it’s out of norm for the locations. Most were above asking price.
My last 3 moves involved homes that were only hours on the markets with multiple offers. Hell, 2 houses ago, I left my power of attorney with an agent I just meant and instructions to buy me a house in a certain neighborhood . Nothing I would recommend or ever thought I’d do as a Midwesterner. But if your market is approaching this kind of crazy I’d be surprised but don’t truly know.
What as worked as a buyer and seller in sellers markets;
No B. S. No contingencies. Have your financing locked down. Show it.
No quibbling. The market sets the price. Don’t initially include allowances or low ball your offer over carpet, water heater, roof,etc.
No weird requests. What does or does not convey. Don’t fall for or try stunts about flat screens, refrigerators, etc. I’ve had people try to get me to leave plants and aquariums, etc. I probably would have if they just didn’t ask in their initial offer.
Be flexible on closing and move in dates. State that in your offer. Defer to the seller or negotiate it.
Use your inspectors findings as negotiating points after your initial offer has been accepted.

We've pretty much done all this. We've basically done everything short of me dipping into my 401k and/or completely exhausting our savings account.

Like I said earlier, we have to compete with 4-8 other offers every bid we put in on. We can't come in 12k over asking and at least 1 house we got beat out by straight cash, homie.

Valiant 04-14-2019 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by cooper barrett (Post 14205666)
Remember that after underwriting, contracts change, Realtors are whores who don't do anything that's not in their interest.

One of my buyers had 3 days to come up w/ $8K or their deposit, the carpet was lost.. They closed.

Deposits/earnest payments with Realtors are returned.....In my contracts, they choose the carpet and paint, they own it even if they fail to close.


Offer sight unseen is they made an offer without looking at the house.

Coyote 04-14-2019 11:45 AM

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Originally Posted by BDj23 (Post 14205980)
We've pretty much done all this. We've basically done everything short of me dipping into my 401k and/or completely exhausting our savings account.

Like I said earlier, we have to compete with 4-8 other offers every bid we put in on. We can't come in 12k over asking and at least 1 house we got beat out by straight cash, homie.

Yeah sucks is good description. No embracing about it.

BWillie 04-14-2019 12:01 PM

Anybody want a 4 bedroom shithole in Olathe as is? I'm your guy. You'll get a gret deal on it because I'm lazy.

SAUTO 04-14-2019 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Valiant (Post 14205993)
Offer sight unseen is they made an offer without looking at the house.

He's a know it all know nothing

George Liquor 04-14-2019 12:09 PM

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Originally Posted by BWillie (Post 14206015)
Anybody want a 4 bedroom shithole in Olathe as is? I'm your guy. You'll get a gret deal on it because I'm lazy.

How shitty we talking?

BWillie 04-14-2019 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by BDj23 (Post 14206022)
How shitty we talking?

Most houses in neighborhood worth 230k. I give you mine for 190k. Nothing wrong with it, just needs updated Master bathroom. Probably new carpet in bedrooms. New flooring in basement and kitchen.

MahiMike 04-14-2019 12:25 PM

Get a 15 year loan.

cooper barrett 04-14-2019 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by oldman (Post 14205764)
Have you tried houses around Tonganoxie or Bonner Springs? Some of those Bonner Springs addresses are in Leavenworth County and the school district is Basehor-Linwood.

Yeah, send your kids to school with the Tongie pig farmers.

SAUTO 04-14-2019 12:30 PM

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Originally Posted by MahiMike (Post 14206039)
Get a 15 year loan.

This. Definitely.

lewdog 04-14-2019 12:30 PM

Houses under 200k and not in the ghetto?

Is this even real life?

BWillie 04-14-2019 12:32 PM

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Originally Posted by lewdog (Post 14206047)
Houses under 200k and not in the ghetto?

Is this even real life?

When I bought it it was $160,000 and I thought that was a great deal.

Don't you live in Phoenix? This cost of living calculator says houses are 9.4% more in Olathe than Phx? Couldn't imagine that is true, but thats what it says.
https://www.bestplaces.net/cost-of-l...athe-ks/200000

displacedinMN 04-14-2019 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by BWillie (Post 14205863)
Sounds like I need to sell my rentals. Good to hear the market is good!

I cant see why would want to have a rental in a city right now. Prices are good, free up some cash. Invest.

We are renting out the farm house. Pain in the ass.

BWillie 04-14-2019 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by displacedinMN (Post 14206064)
I cant see why would want to have a rental in a city right now. Prices are good, free up some cash. Invest.

We are renting out the farm house. Pain in the ass.

Yeah I'm about ready to do that. Get out of the game, lay low. But what to invest in that I can beat 8-10%?

displacedinMN 04-14-2019 12:47 PM

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Originally Posted by BWillie (Post 14206067)
Yeah I'm about ready to do that. Get out of the game, lay low. But what to invest in that I can beat 8-10%?

Ask Lewdog. He may be able to lead you into something good.

Also talk to the accountant on rules-you prob knew that.

Coach 04-14-2019 01:11 PM

Amazing, already 8 pages, and still not an Bugeater post.

The Franchise 04-14-2019 01:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Bugeater (Post 14205491)
Actually the buying process went exponentially better for us than the selling process did. 007 and I are hanging out in the awesome sun room on the deck of our new place as i type this.

https://ap.rdcpix.com/2144012172/13a...0_h770_q80.jpg

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Originally Posted by Coach (Post 14206102)
Amazing, already 8 pages, and still not an Bugeater post.

Only because you missed it.

Coach 04-14-2019 01:42 PM

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Originally Posted by The Franchise (Post 14206136)
Only because you missed it.

Good find. I missed it.

Bowser 04-14-2019 01:45 PM

Honestly, I may just rent the rest of my life. Buying a house DOES suck, as does the upkeep and repairs.

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(doesn't help my state of mind that I'm usually gone 11-13 hours a day with work, but still)

Coach 04-14-2019 01:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Bowser (Post 14206160)
Honestly, I may just rent the rest of my life. Buying a house DOES suck, as does the upkeep and repairs.

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(doesn't help my state of mind that I'm usually gone 11-13 hours a day with work, but still)

Same here. Me and the wife live in the northland by Tiffany Springs area, and it's a nice area.

We have talked about a house, but at the end, it just wasn't worth the investment for us since we're pretty much gone half of the day due to work or events anyways.

Plus, most houses around here is going for $300,000 at the minimum.

Bowser 04-14-2019 01:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Coach (Post 14206166)
Same here. Me and the wife live in the northland by Tiffany Springs area, and it's a nice area.

We have talked about a house, but at the end, it just wasn't worth the investment for us since we're pretty much gone half of the day due to work or events anyways.

Plus, most houses around here is going for $300,000 at the minimum.

Right. I moved up that way as well, I'm 4 minutes away from Zona. Love it up here.

It's definitely a sellers market right now, so that doesn't help anything. I'm not ruling out one day diving back into house ownership, but right now I'm just fine.

Coach 04-14-2019 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Bowser (Post 14206167)
Right. I moved up that way as well, I'm 4 minutes away from Zona. Love it up here.

It's definitely a sellers market right now, so that doesn't help anything. I'm not ruling out one day diving back into house ownership, but right now I'm just fine.

Huh, you're not too far off from where I am then.

George Liquor 04-14-2019 01:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Bowser (Post 14206160)
Honestly, I may just rent the rest of my life. Buying a house DOES suck, as does the upkeep and repairs.

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(doesn't help my state of mind that I'm usually gone 11-13 hours a day with work, but still)

I'm tired of living around unemployed crackheads and renting from slum lords who refuse put any of those thousands of dollars I give them back into their properties.

Plus I ain't getting any younger, I'd like to have start a family soon.

Coach 04-14-2019 01:57 PM

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Originally Posted by BDj23 (Post 14206178)
I'm tired of living around unemployed crackheads and renting from slum lords who to put any of those thousands of dollars I give them back into their properties.

Well, I can't speak for your experience, but there are good apartment complexes that does care, just have to do some hard and time consuming research.

What I find the best way to do is just scout the area, then just talk to the property managers/leasing agent, and equally important, just walk around the apartment complex without the property managers/leasing agent and see if there are any people outside that potentially lives there, and talk to them face to face.

Bowser 04-14-2019 01:59 PM

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Originally Posted by BDj23 (Post 14206178)
I'm tired of living around unemployed crackheads and renting from slum lords who refuse put any of those thousands of dollars I give them back into their properties.

Plus I ain't getting any younger, I'd like to have start a family soon.

Yeah, that too. The neighborhood I lived in for years took a serious nosedive that last 4-5 years, so it was time to go. The place I found is a little more pricey, but so totally worth it.

George Liquor 04-14-2019 02:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Coach (Post 14206181)
Well, I can't speak for your experience, but there are good apartment complexes that does care, just have to do some hard and time consuming research.

What I find the best way to do is just scout the area, then just talk to the property managers/leasing agent, and equally important, just walk around the apartment complex without the property managers/leasing agent and see if there are any people outside that potentially lives there, and talk to them face to face.

That's what I thought when I moved into this place, you'd think for $1000/month my management company would at least make sure that my apartment doesn't smell like cigarettes (per their lease agreement) and that kind of pricetag would scare the scummies away.

But nope. It's advertised as luxury apartments. But my place is a dump.

Coach 04-14-2019 02:14 PM

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Originally Posted by BDj23 (Post 14206188)
That's what I thought when I moved into this place, you'd think for $1000/month my management company would at least make sure that my apartment doesn't smell like cigarettes (per their lease agreement) and that kind of pricetag would scare the scummies away.

But nope. It's advertised as luxury apartments. But my place is a dump.

Sorry to hear about that situation. Did they go through new management when you lived there? Was it good before something went sideways?

Too bad KCMO where I am at is probably a bit a ways from your desired location. It's a good area where I am.

Pablo 04-14-2019 02:22 PM

It was like that to an extent back in 2015 when we bought. Only gotten worse if you're looking for stuff under $250k. Glad we bought when we did. Our $150k house has increased about 40k in 4 years doing jack shit except living in it. Kinda ridiculous.

displacedinMN 04-14-2019 02:27 PM

My neighborhood took a nosedive the second I moved in. I was the first to move in.

Sounds like a Dangerfield joke.

George Liquor 04-14-2019 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Coach (Post 14206205)
Sorry to hear about that situation. Did they go through new management when you lived there? Was it good before something went sideways?

Too bad KCMO where I am at is probably a bit a ways from your desired location. It's a good area where I am.

Two changes iirc - the worst part is the culprits of all our problems are friends with the lady in the office, so she won't do anything about it.

When we originally moved in, the lady in the office was super authoritarian and she enjoyed enforcing the rules. But she quit a few weeks after we signed our last lease (18 months) and this new lady took over and it's gone downhill ever since.

cooper barrett 04-14-2019 03:01 PM

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Originally Posted by Fat Elvis (Post 14205714)
I had the property for less than two years. It sold for more than 30% above purchase price.

Edit:. I should clarify that our counter was to remove the flooring allowance built into the offer that they wanted wrapped into their financing. It resulted in the same amount of money in my pocket.

Nobody cares that you're making money, underwriters want solid income and credit from buyers, and a house that appraises for more than contract with no BS attached to it..Like remodeled basement with no permits.

Actually... The IRS cares, they will be getting about $6600 from the sale

Coach 04-14-2019 03:03 PM

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Originally Posted by BDj23 (Post 14206248)
Two changes iirc - the worst part is the culprits of all our problems are friends with the lady in the office, so she won't do anything about it.

When we originally moved in, the lady in the office was super authoritarian and she enjoyed enforcing the rules. But she quit a few weeks after we signed our last lease (18 months) and this new lady took over and it's gone downhill ever since.

Yeah, that definitely will do it. The lady currently in our complex is the authoritarian type, so I'm good with that. Managers who are tough/enforce it really good are the types that people hate, but kept the property in good condition. The other kinds, well, like you just said, it just goes downhill.

cooper barrett 04-14-2019 03:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Valiant (Post 14205993)
Offer sight unseen is they made an offer without looking at the house.

I've seen houses bought from across the country but I would hardly say that 43 pictures, walk through video, and a local connection was unseen.

cooper barrett 04-14-2019 03:24 PM

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Originally Posted by MahiMike (Post 14206039)
Get a 15 year loan.


Always,

budget for 15 but sometimes the right house requires a purchase w/ 30 year note.

Making extra payments is the next best thing.

Tombstone RJ 04-14-2019 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by cooper barrett (Post 14206303)
Always,

budget for 15 but sometimes the right house requires a purchase w/ 30 year note.

Making extra payments is the next best thing.

This. Get a 30 year fixed but pay it off in 15. Just make extra payments toward the principle. So if you mortgage is $1000, pay $1500 a month but make sure that extra $500 goes directly to the principle.


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