The difference between us is that it's a schtick for you, kid.

Say, did mer just ask for a pic of my browneye? Are we back on that winking thing again?

I got invited to go hang out with my friends, but he lives a way away from me.

Maybe I should go, then. I know I sure as hell ain't gonna wait around the phone today. I have stuff to dooo, even if some of it isn't fun.

The first time she asked me out to a party with her, I told her I couldn't go. So I'm not rolling over for her or anyone. I'm a busy person.

Really, I'm at the point of just saying, "fuck it." Here I am, either take it or leave it. But then, the inner psychiatrist in me takes over, and I see that she's kinda fucked up, and I want to try and help her out. I think her last boyfriend was abusive or something, cause she kinda acts funny like that sometimes.

I always joke around and say women don't want something until they can't have it, or they think someone else wants it. So I guess I should follow my own advice.

I'm sure others have mentioned it so this will probably just be the 50th post telling you this but...

She's just toying with you for fun while she keeps her eyes open for a better opportunity. If you want to get laid, you have to act like you don't really have time for her and set it up so she thinks other women are chasing you. If you want a relationship with her then you're doomed, cause she's clearly into the games and already judged you unworthy of reeling in without competition. Once the competition is gone and she has you, she'll quickly get bored and start looking around for something better. Not to say you wouldn't have a few great months together but it would be smart to not invest too much in this one.

Does she have a penis? No? Then she is f@cked up! I have been married for 14 years....guess what.....sometimes, she is f@cked up! You can't "help" her...

Never go into anything thinking you can help/change the other person. Trust me on this one.

Bimbo!!! um I mean....BINGO!

you think like a ho, when a strong pimp hand is needed.

Rep for this. Thank you for summing up the entire thread. :-)

...crap. So much for my helping personality. :-(

I lack the confidence to be a true pimp. And the orange suit...and feather...and hat.

In dating terms, "helping personality" either equals "doormat" or "sorely disappointed".

Why are all psychology majors so......swishy?


Be careful who you're taking women/life advice from on this board/thread.


Stop calling/texting/emailing/running down this chic.

IT DOES!!! You are so correct. Which is why I am used to being an emotional tampon for these women. That's what I always end up being. And then they start crying, and I have to hold them... :Lin:

Should I even let her know I think she's hot or anything? If I'm gonna be all aloof, I need to know if I should totally ignore her, or what.

This whole aloof thing is totally foreign to me. Usually I am super transparent.

Yep. I absorb all information in, but not as truth. I take the opinions of many and fuse them together.

BTW, Psych majors are swishy cause we are ALL at least slightly messed up in the head. Almost every Psych major starts out in college wondering what is wrong with them.

And I am done. She has a way of getting under my skin, though. But I will be a man about this and stay strong.

Buddha:dog::crazy bitch:inflatable alligator.

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