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By the way, you're probably still wondering what you should actually do if
you're girl is talking to other dudes. Well, the absolute worst thing you can do (ironically) is to try to intervene to stop her from doing it. That makes it so that she has the higher value, not you. Instead, the best way to counter such behavior is to say, "Have a good time!" with a tone of complete indifference when she says she's going to go hang out with some other guy. Let her see that it doesn't phase you one bit. Meanwhile, you go talk with other girls. |
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This was my 5000th post. Yeah, me! |
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Avoid conjuring up pity
A lot of guys make the mistake of trying to make a woman feel pity for them. They’ll call obsessively, saying things like, “I’m so lonely and I really want to see you tonight.” On a psychological level, a lot of this may point back to the mother-son relationship. As little boys, we could often get what we wanted by evoking the maternal nurturing instinct in our moms. Don’t do this with women you date. Any time you evoke pity in a person, they will look down on you. In their mind, they’ll frame you as a person who is a loser, and then they’ll treat you accordingly. Have you ever noticed that unsuccessful salesmen are the ones who appeal to your pity? (“Please buy this car so I can eat this month!”) Psychologically, people cannot help having derision for those they pity. The successful salesmen are those who make sure customers feel they (and not the salesmen) are gaining a benefit by buying their cars and not just feeling sorry for someone. |
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Woman want company and interaction. Expecially one that's temporarily there. She has to have quick gratification. My guess is since you text her one and she text'd back and you didn't respond, she went out and found her someone that isn't slow to respond. How about you listen to us instead of reading your dating books for a lil bit? |
Oh and for your pity or whatever... For all she knows... you have no idea she had a guy in there. Text her and talk to her as if you know nothing. No pity or anything... don't even bring up the other guy because it's none of your business.
She's just a screw not your potential woman. Stop putting the pussy on a pedastal. |
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and get rid of your gay flower avatar... where is your nutsack? Seriously.
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Stop playing games dumbass. She wanted your nuts. All you had to do was invite her over.
I could have closed this deal. You are ****ing pissing me off. |
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