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stevieray 07-19-2018 12:07 PM

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Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 13635459)

I'm only speaking to those who said he needs to reign that shit in .

without her husband? uh huh. riiiight.

that's not a relationship, that's a roommate you're boinking.

The Franchise 07-19-2018 12:10 PM

This all depends on how often she's going out without you. Is it a one night a week thing? More than 3 nights a week?

rico 07-19-2018 12:50 PM

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Originally Posted by Pestilence (Post 13635469)
This all depends on how often she's going out without you. Is it a one night a week thing? More than 3 nights a week?

It fluctuates.

rico 07-19-2018 12:51 PM

I really wish I wouldn’t have said anything.

More than anything, I hate working 3rd shift. Several people in my life don’t respect it.

stevieray 07-19-2018 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by rico (Post 13635556)
I really wish I wouldn’t have said anything.

there you go!

:clap:

TimBone 07-19-2018 12:53 PM

I beat my wife if she comes home past midnight.

TimBone 07-19-2018 12:57 PM

A pistol whippin' if it's after 2am.

raybec 4 07-19-2018 01:10 PM

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Originally Posted by TimBone (Post 13635575)
A pistol whippin' if it's after 2am.

I'll have her home earlier from now on.

TimBone 07-19-2018 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by raybec 4 (Post 13635607)
I'll have her home earlier from now on.

LMAO

Yosef_Malkovitch 07-19-2018 01:23 PM

A very close family member of mine experienced this. The couple got married and everything was fine for about 8 years, maybe a bit longer. Then the wife started working at a bar and staying out late. Then she started going out partying after work. Eventually she started going out even when she wasn't working. After a bit (at this point she was around 32-35 years old) she was staying out all night partying.

It led to infidelity and a divorce. IMO, a married person (male or female) has no business being out late partying without their spouse. Every once in a while as part of a girls/guys night? Maybe... but on a regular basis? That will only lead to trouble.

vailpass 07-19-2018 01:24 PM

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Originally Posted by raybec 4 (Post 13635607)
I'll have her home earlier from now on.

:D

Dallas Chief 07-19-2018 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 13635459)
We really don't have enough information and I doubt we'd get it all from hearing one side of the story anyway.. but, unless I missed a post or two, Rico hasn't mentioned a damn thing about her being a bad mother or skipping out on her parental duties. He's solely upset that she's out partying while he's not able to, at the same time admitting that he also loves to be out late partying.

I'm only speaking to those who said he needs to reign that shit in and that a married woman has no reason to be out past midnight. That's pretty ridiculous.

It’s not ridiculous. It’s called being responsible. To your earlier question, no life doesn’t have to stop. However, to raise kids in a healthy, stable, and safe environment it definitely needs to slow down, way before 6am.

SAUTO 07-19-2018 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 13635391)
Offering a different perspective: sounds like you both party hard. Why should she have to stop because you chose something that prohibits you from doing the same?

me and my wife only have one rule.

neither goes out drinking without the other one. its only asking for trouble in our opinions

eDave 07-19-2018 03:47 PM

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Originally Posted by rico (Post 13634557)
The thing that kept going through my mind every time I’d see her was, “why does this seem so easy for her.” That was terrible. She always assured me it wasn’t easy for her, but it sure looked like it. :(

Not only that but also "why is she being so viscous, greedy, selfish, and full of hate? WTF did I do?"

What I saw from her during that time, and the proceeding child support ****ery, made it real easy to get over her.

My life is much better than hers. So it's cool.

Prison Bitch 07-19-2018 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by SAUTO (Post 13635777)
me and my wife only have one rule.

neither goes out drinking without the other one. its only asking for trouble in our opinions

The only rule in my marriage is, don't ever push me past my breaking point


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