Wasn't it that someone actively searched for the girl's profile and then informed her about your posts?

No. It had nothing to do with anyone here.

People react negatively to CP, though.

What happened?

Women dislike CP.

This happened months ago, BTW. No big deal.

Yeah many of us have posted shit that would turn every girl off

I just tell guys to read it all up front. I don't have to explain myself as much then.

If they see billay flex picture :eek:

Like, the billay posting in here flex picture?

Where's that at?

" don't like this side of you"

If that was a deal breaker she's probably stuck up.

All I ever see is good first date, check out this smoking chick. She liked nerdy things we are a match made in heaven. Those are not really relationships. Flings is the word.

Now hopefully your username is not similar to on here to past ones or your name tied to it. Well second thought, your name is on here and if they search it might find a lot of threads on here not too flattering.

though I give you credit, your ego has come down a little after the weight loss on how you refer to women.
so you will eventually find a good one.

I have some questions about online dating.

I've had pretty good luck with getting girls to respond to my initial message. But I soon find myself running out of things to talk about. Usually I just end up asking them if they want to play 20 questions or whatever, and that works out ok. Is there a better course of action?

Also... What is a good amount of time to ask a girl if she wants to go do something? I asked for a girls number last night, and we've been texting a lot today. I don't want to jump the gun and ask her too soon. I've been on a number of dates and slept with some good looking women using my own methods, but I'd like to actually try and make a relationship out of this one.

You don't spend too much time talking with them online. That's stupid.

If they reply to your initial message and your reply to their reply, then you immediately ask them out and try and get their number. If they balk at that, ignore them. Seriously.

I try to get to that as quickly as possible. I've gotten a few, "I'd like to try and get to know you a little better before we meet" type messages though. I guess I understand their concerns, but I'm not going to wait around forever.

Probably best to get to know someone in person. .

Seriously, don't waste time on those girls. This is a numbers game. Talking online gives you zero indicators into chemistry beyond "they are intelligent and not a jerk."