Originally Posted by keg in kc (Post 9533781)

Many of those "attraction triggers", however, require you to be close enough to them for those attributes to be notable. And it requires status, real or perceived, to get there.

Like, being a nice guy with a great sense of humor and an anaconda wrapped around your waist doesn't matter if you're socially awkward/inept or if you aren't able to project confidence.

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 9533179)

Wtf is wrong with you?

Originally Posted by Pestilence (Post 9533920)

When should I expect to receive a wedding invitation?

Oh....and FTR.....I better ****ing get one when it actually goes down.

Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower (Post 9533936)

Gallows humor mixed with self deprecation? It's been a rough 2013 so far and this is does NOT apply to relations with lady friends.

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 9533975)

Sorry things aren't going your way, it just seems like you're being a little too hard on yourself.

Originally Posted by luv (Post 9532463)

Yes, we like to bone, but not all of us are attracted to status. Looks like you still have a few things to learn, sparky.

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 9533908)

I am horrible on the phone and with texts. Very short, give a lot of one word answers.

When she texts me, it makes me feel amazing, and I wanted to do that with her, so I thought long and hard and sent a text that I thought she would like.

She replied that I was sweet. 10 minutes later she replied that she wanted to see me on Friday.

I guess it worked.

Originally Posted by Rudy Was Offsides. (Post 9534280)

Careful

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 9534283)

With what?

Originally Posted by Discuss Thrower (Post 9533936)

Gallows humor mixed with self deprecation? It's been a rough 2013 so far and this is does NOT apply to relations with lady friends.

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 9533961)

At this rate we're looking at May.

lol

Edit: but seriously, I'm a little excited because every girl I've ever gone after before has had serious issues, and that was because I had serious issues. Now that my issues are gone, I'm finding that perfectly nice girls have been flirting with me and pursuing me...i'm just not used to it.

Losing weight helps a lot...

Originally Posted by Buck (Post 9537652)

Third date tonight. Not sure what we're doing yet. Gonna play this one by ear. Assuming since she's not coming over til 8:30 or 9 that its gonna be a bar night...I think if I tried dinner and a movie I'd just fall asleep.

Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 9533788)

I think its tough to say. All women are different, but unlike men, they seem to have a wider range of things they look for in a guy. In general, I feel like most dudes just want the hottest chick they can get. Of course that's a huge generalization and no one wants to be locked down with a super hot idiot for the rest of their life (or do they??), but I think most would agree that physical attraction is probably the most important thing for men.

Women, on the other hand, like nice things and security. That's why the guys with the good job, nice cars, and nice clothes can bag chicks most would consider "out of their league". But women also look for physical attraction. I know waayyyyyy too many bums (jobless, carless) that are considered studs who get loads of pussy just because girls think they look good.