I will cop to this, several years ago. I knew the owner of one that is no longer in business (who of course used it to flirt for free). Unlike the stereotypes in this thread, the women are not that bad. Of course looks play a role in whether someone picks you, but thats just life. Unlike online dating, you actually HAVE to talk to people, its not just glancing at 5 pics and moving on - you would be surprised how much you can learn in 5 minutes if done right.

The key is knowing what you are doing - you have to know that by the end the other person has heard the same question a billion times, and described her job/hobbies a billion times. You will have the most success if you are unique, funny, and energetic.

Like online, you will go out and know they are seeing a few other people. But women pick 2 or 3 guys tops, whereas guys usually pick over 50%.

Oh, and the women always go in groups of friends (guys always go alone). So befriend the other guys, never be seen just sitting alone, makes you look like an asocial creep. And ask who the women are there with and try to only pick one from each group - if you go out with friends at the same time it could come off looking bad and they WILL talk about you.

Cool bruh I'm hitting up Westport tonight

Why would that look bad?

Maybe desperation is not quite the word, but I think women like a man who is a bit more decisive - they want to feel special and not that you are just trying to date everyone you can.

Although, some might say women thrive on competition, I dunno. But they will talk - one bad date/incident/flaw with one of them will spread and could ruin it with both/all of them. IMHO better to avoid it, or at least be aware of it - sending the same email to 3 friends right after the event could come back to bite you.

Hot chicks run in packs, though.

If there are only 3 lookers out of 15 girls they're all getting a yes most likely.

They will be fighting over olé go chiefs!!

I should check "yes" to all 15 to see if I get 15 emails. o:-)

Ok, I don't live in KC, but here's something that I think is good if you can plan it out. You want to create the memory (or illusion) of a lot of shared experiences with a girl. You can do this by having a date in which you do multiple things or go to various locations.

For example. I might go to dinner with a girl but will purposely show up with her to the restaurant 45 mins before the reservation. BUT, there's a quaint wine bar around the corner, so we go grab a drink before.

Later, instead of having dessert at the restaurant, I know a couple of cool dessert places (I love sweets) so we go somewhere else for dessert. Lastly, if all is going well and she doesn't have to be up/doesn't care, then we'll grab a drink somewhere else.

I may have only been with her for a few hours, but it feels so much longer in her mind because we've shared so many experiences when she remembers the night.

Sounds expensive.

Take her to the museum or down to the crossroads district

Not for everyone, maybe, but that sounds like an excellent date if you want to make an impression but aren't 100% on the person yet (as is often the case in online dating). You get the chance to share a number of experiences with them if you want, but the chance to bail exists at numerous times throughout the evening.

to the Nelson

you will be able to keep conversations going easily while looking at everything etc.

O city you are married you creep