I mean the actual time spent trying to get it. If you have a **** buddy that you is readily available....awesome. Having to spend money to go out on dates or hit on women at bars for a chance at it....is a ****ing waste of time.

Ok. Don't work at it, but all you'll score is 500lb hippos

I'm not reading this entire thread, but from the last few pages, here's the way to go:

Fish, hunt, golf, workout, watch football, drink with buddies, and jerk off whenever you want. Life will be great.

LMAO
This is sound advice

There is sex that isn't worth it. When you can't finish because all you can think about is how unnattracted you are to your partner, the sex isn't worth it.

I also don't have the time to spend to score hotties, and I don't want any "500 lb whales," so I'm taking a break.

I'm married. I'm not putting in any work anywhere.

Since I got married, I found it funny how often I would get hit on when going out.

It's called hell.

So you're telling me if I start wearing a band I'll get more attention?

I think it runs deeper than that. It's like alll of a sudden you start giving off some phermone that attracts women. I think it happened to me once I got engaged. Crazy shit.

what you get is lots of flirting because they assume you are harmless. They treat you the same as they would if they thought you were gay. You get lots more attention, but not serious attention. I mean do you want to be banging a gal that likes banging married men?

I guess I've got a similar dynamic already.. the only ones who seem attracted to me are ones who are already with other dudes.

I already came across the now ex of the last girl I ****ed. He jokingly said I should take a run at her. That was Soap Opera Awkward right there.

Long story short - they want what they can't have.

none of my business.

This.

They now think that because someone wants you.....there has to be a reason. Lot's of money.....big feet....etc.

Confidence man.

Welp, met a pretty cool girl. Last week she insisted on buying me dinner.

Probably a keeper. So far, anyway. You know how these things go. But, two weeks in and feeling good about it. o:-)

Good luck. It all changes quick though man.

PIIHB*









*obligatory

The forbidden fruit, it's wonderful. :thumb:

Having a close female friend who you're seen out on "dates" with can create the same effect. I'm all for anything that decreases the time it takes to go from "Hi" to "PIINewGirl'sB".

Don't worry, the weird will come out of one of you. Right now is the facade stage. But any girl that likes you has to have a weird side. :D

Definitely. That's why we click, so far.

I don't try to fake who I am. As soon as a girl comes over, she sees a framed ink caricature of Mr. Spock hanging on the wall. Everything hinges on that moment. Right then, she's in, or she's out, I figure. I'm not taking that down.

Sounds like she felt sorry for you

Doubt it. She likes me.

Question for you all-in kC area - is match.com considered a "hookup" site? I am in such a slump and am just not meeting single men in my day to day activities. I was thinking about trying it but I'm definitely not a one night stand kind of girl so I don't want to put myself out there for that if that makes sense b

It's mostly girls who want real relationships.

Have you met billay?

I would never spend money on a dating site. Every women om a dating site is flawed haven't we covered this?

Thanks! I have to get the courage up to try it. Meeting a total stranger just scares the hell out of me. My habit of reading chiefsplanet doesn't help. :)

ROFL

Good for you, man.

FYP.

I meant for this to be your meeting ground. Send her a nice rep.

Oh, and FYP

What about the men on dating sites?

:D

Read up on Clay's board history :D

Ask clay I think he and hootie hooked up off one.

Greetings my lady. *tips fedora*

Don't listen to the other douches in this thread. You are as precious as they come. Any man would be lucky to have you. Now go, break some hearts.

But for real if you're fat don't take deceiving angled pics.

Wannabe pickup artists, guys that want to cheat on their significant other, normal guys who don't have time to go out to bars and such and shy/socially awkward guys who lack self confidence.


En. Joy.

I'm sure there's some winners. Just like at the bar I'm sure there's also a bunch of crap. As a women you probably get your pick though.

Damn now i got to delete all those selfies I just took.

Good advice here guys!

I sometimes go out w my lil Sis & her friends or my cousins group. Most of them are HOT but are off limits for me and they feel comfortable to just kick it because they feel "safe from getting hit on". It just sets me up with a great springboard to talk to other chicks.

Having a few females as friends can be a good thing.

Just pm them to me and CC Bob Dole

Definitely this!!!! Also putting average whilst doing so is lame as hell too.

I had a Match membership for a few months, and I can say that if you're even a remotely good-looking woman, you're going to be bombarded by prospective suitors. Whereas men on those sites have to send out several messages in order to hear back once or twice (I did, at least), women tend to get a ****ton of unsolicited messages that they can pick between. You could go on five dates a week through that site, if you actually wanted to.

Long story short: online dating is awesome for women. Give it a try.

Maybe. But sales is all about volume and weeding out the prospects from the suspects. I meet pretty girls that just go to the same lame bar every week hoping someone decent walks in. That's not good enough. You either need to go to 1,000 more bars or get on the web.

Really hoping to bang it out with some bitch tonight.

/Bo's Redheadini

Every woman is flawed. Once you figure that out.....you'll do ok.

Its like my friend said who's an average looking gal said "I can't even go out and pump gas without a guy hitting on me." Seriously girls can go out and meet just about any guy they want why bother meeting some unknown online?

THIS.

Yeah, average girls. Attractive girls actually get hit on less.

Who has hooked up with someone in their apartment complex before?

I married a girl from next door in my complex. We all know how that turned out. Lmao

(The only risk with a neighbor is that things can progress too fast or in ways you don't want because of the convenience and it can get really uncomfortable later if things get weird. But that's life...)

Be prepared to move.

Outstanding night. Just phenomenal. Two solid weeks.

So this past week I joined match. Men check me out, but they don't ask me out. And there are some guys on there that seem like nice guys and I'm like how would I meet them in my daily life? I wouldn't. So I said screw it and joined. I think most men are playing the numbers game Because it is insane the number of messages you get as a woman on that site.

3 weeks in. I guess I didn't **** this one up.

How you doin'? :D

Pics of you? Pics of the men who ask you out?

Yeah, link to your profile? :D

the only time I had a smokin' chick hit on me was when I was 2 days before I was coming home from the Navy. She was a Bud Light girl at a local bar. She was also one of those barrel racing chicks that ride horses. She was probably close to 6'; rocking body/figure (actually had curves in the right places), blonde etc.

She asked me for her number, so I obliged; and was shocked.
She called me the next night and wanted to go out the following day.....which was the day I was leaving. :banghead:

naturally. God hates me, is what it is.

I have been on for a few days and I have over 200 emails, winks, and "he's interested". Most of these are men I prob wouldn't be interested in. A good chunk are men in their late 40s or 50s (I am in my 30s). They send super funny messages like "you have soulful eyes". Then there are a handful I would be interested in. I have tried to pick a couple to focus on and email with. My plan is to just leave my profile out there for a couple weeks and see who comes to me. Then I will go through and maybe started "liking" guys I think are interested who haven't checked me out. It is the funniest damned thing -I'm telling you in real life men don't ask me out.

I got rejected on a date invite by a more than curvy chick. That felt wonderful

I'm breaking up with my whatever she is this weekend. I feel nervous.

just say "I 99 problems, and you're one"

I feel horrible actually. I like her just not in that way anymore. She adores me.

I did that shit twice before I got married. It was tough....but it's a lot better than just stringing her along. I should have waited on one though because it was around Christmas and after I broke up with her....she mentioned that she had bought me a Joe Montana jersey. Damnt....

In real life men don't ask you out because why? Do you come off as unapproachable? Do you send out the vibe that you want to be approached?

It's a lot harder to ask a woman out in real life when your wife is sitting right there. It's much easier after she's gone to bed and you're "staying up to watch the rest of the game."

Truer words were never spoken.

Yes but would she have expected significant gifts from you? Gotta watch out for those holiday traps.

Yeah she is already expecting to spend Thanksgiving with me.

Oh my goodness I have no doubt you are right about this!!

I have read on average a guy has to send 20 messages to get 1 reply. Makes sense when you realize just how many they receive.

Then you realize there aren't 19 women worth messaging in order to receive a reply on the 20th.

I'd rather be forever alone then waste my time trying to talk up chubsters, baby mommas and nutjobs.

20 messages to one chick would get you blocked, if not the cops called. I'm assuming.

It is way too time consuming. Plus it is sad as **** when you finally get b to the meet and you aren't into her at all. Even the average, nerdy ones are tough to land ROFL Girls you would land for sure in person.

just dont meet single men in my social circles. While i am a very friendly person, I am not one to strike up a conversation with a random guy at the gas station. I am no doubt shy when it comes to men and I'm trying to work on that.

Anyways I think I have a date lined up for the weekend so that is a major accomplishment.

That was kind of what I'm trying to say - it is insane the # of messages you get and I'm in my 30s so I'm not a young pup. Definitely men are focused on sending as many messages as possible.

Yeah, you have to. Too much competition. A lot of weirdos too though, so being a nice, normal guy can get some meets. Unfortunately the prize is not always as advertised.

I know, I definitely don't want to meet someone and them be disappointed. I put up one pic of me that is super pretty (I can be very photogenic) and then some other ones that are good but not amazing. I made one of my guy friends go through and help me so that I didn't just pick super flattering pics. I'm not trying to trick anyone.