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Perineum Ripper 04-16-2014 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by GordonGekko (Post 10566417)
This is exactly why I hate texting/texting relationships.

I think you took the whore comment too literally, and then this pissed her off and she wouldn't acknowledge the joke?

You should have just left her hanging after the whore comment. She would have come back and apologized, I guarantee it.

Well I didn't know if she was joking..which is why I asked her where it come from..If she was joking that's fine..but for her to flip shot because I didn't get her joke isn't OK with me..she has been my friend forever which is why I didn't just stop talking

Demonpenz 04-16-2014 01:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Douche Baggins (Post 10566544)
Sorry, I'm just not a very interesting or exciting person. On my day off I went to Winstead's and saw The Grand Budapest Hotel. I did bike to Winstead's, though. And posted about it on the internet. Please date me!

I guess this is CW? You can make some small differences. You edit the shit out of videos. Plenty of art girls would be down to talk about editing. It's all about attitude and mindset though.

KCGal 04-16-2014 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by mac459 (Post 10566275)
OK so I'm getting a divorce and just getting back on the dating scene..A girl who I have known all my life and was good friends with took me out and we had a great night and have hung out every night since then..about a week..except last night..she texts me and the following was our conversation

Her- I am wanting Olive Garden

Me- I'm going to get Olive Garden this weekend

Her- have fun with whatever nasty whore you are taking

Me- where did that come from

Her- what

Me- where did the whore comment come from

Her- well you won't have the kids and I'm not going so I'm sure you will call some whore but don't worry I won't throw stuff in your face like you

Me- um what in the **** are you talking about

Her- you are an asshole

Me- well better to be an asshole than crazy..sooooo yeah..If you would leave me alone that would be great

Bright side - you figured out very quickly that she is crazy without investing in a dinner at Olive Garden.

KC native 04-16-2014 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Douche Baggins (Post 10566544)
Sorry, I'm just not a very interesting or exciting person. On my day off I went to Winstead's and saw The Grand Budapest Hotel. I did bike to Winstead's, though. And posted about it on the internet. Please date me!

You have a little beta on your chin. Clean it up son.

If you consider your life great, do what you want, and give no ****s about what people think about doing what you want then you will be fine.

ThaVirus 04-16-2014 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by mac459 (Post 10566313)
I don't know how it could be a miscommunication..she text me about olive garden and I said I was going to get olive garden this weekend..then it was I was going with some whore..I don't know how going to a restaurant means I'm going with some whore

You don't see what happened?

She said she wanted Olive Garden meaning "Take me now". You said you were going this weekend which probably came off as "No, thanks. I'll be going this weekend."

You and her have been "dating" and she knows you're fresh on the market. She also knows you won't have your kids this weekend and you didn't invite her so she made a huge leap to the conclusion that if you're going to a sit-in restaurant, you must be taking another woman.

It's really not even that crazy of a conclusion given what I know (which is, admittedly, not much at all). If I were in her shoes I probably would have assumed something similar but I'm not batshit and I know how to communicate so I probably would have outright asked who you were going with.

That chick is insecure to a fault.

Perineum Ripper 04-16-2014 01:11 PM

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Originally Posted by KCGal (Post 10566558)
Bright side - you figured out very quickly that she is crazy without investing in a dinner at Olive Garden.

Very true..even better note..I'm still going to get Olive Garden and I don't have to worry about her stabbing me during dinner

Hammock Parties 04-16-2014 01:11 PM

If a girl wanted to go to Olive Garden I would insist on taking her to a real restaurant. See what a great boyfriend I'd be?

Perineum Ripper 04-16-2014 01:17 PM

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Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 10566566)
You don't see what happened?

She said she wanted Olive Garden meaning "Take me now". You said you were going this weekend which probably came off as "No, thanks. I'll be going this weekend."

You and her have been "dating" and she knows you're fresh on the market. She also knows you won't have your kids this weekend and you didn't invite her so she made a huge leap to the conclusion that if you're going to a sit-in restaurant, you must be taking another woman.

It's really not even that crazy of a conclusion given what I know (which is, admittedly, not much at all). If I were in her shoes I probably would have assumed something similar but I'm not batshit and I know how to communicate so I probably would have outright asked who you were going with.

That chick is insecure to a fault.

I can understand..by me saying I'm going this weekend I assumed from the years of knowing her and our friendship that she would ask me who I was going with or if I was picking her up at her place or something along those lines..which is why I asked where the whore comment come from cause that isn't her style really so I was curious..maybe I should of just asked her to go..but damn the reaction I got is unstable..daddy didn't hang my painting on the fridge as a kid so you must love me now..type of unstable

luv 04-16-2014 01:18 PM

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Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 10566566)
You don't see what happened?

She said she wanted Olive Garden meaning "Take me now". You said you were going this weekend which probably came off as "No, thanks. I'll be going this weekend."

You and her have been "dating" and she knows you're fresh on the market. She also knows you won't have your kids this weekend and you didn't invite her so she made a huge leap to the conclusion that if you're going to a sit-in restaurant, you must be taking another woman.

It's really not even that crazy of a conclusion given what I know (which is, admittedly, not much at all). If I were in her shoes I probably would have assumed something similar but I'm not batshit and I know how to communicate so I probably would have outright asked who you were going with.

That chick is insecure to a fault.

Honestly, I would have too, but I still would have jokingly asked when he was picking me up. If he was going with someone else, then he would probably say so, and then I'd know to drop it.

That's me now. The old me would have have just assumed he was either going with someone else or just didn't want to take me. I would have then assumed he was simply talking to me to be nice, but didn't want to go out. I would have stopped talking to him while fretting over it. While I was a different type of crazy, I was still crazy...lol. Amazing what six months and a little self-confidence will do for you. :)

KCGal 04-16-2014 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Douche Baggins (Post 10566544)
Sorry, I'm just not a very interesting or exciting person. On my day off I went to Winstead's and saw The Grand Budapest Hotel. I did bike to Winstead's, though. And posted about it on the internet. Please date me!

That sounds like a good way to spend a day.

KCGal 04-16-2014 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by KCGal (Post 10566622)
That sounds like a good way to spend a day.

Biking, fried foods, movie. All fun.

Hammock Parties 04-16-2014 01:29 PM

Can I get your number?

Perineum Ripper 04-16-2014 01:30 PM

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Originally Posted by Douche Baggins (Post 10566629)
Can I get your number?

Straight in for the kill..good form

RunKC 04-16-2014 01:31 PM

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Originally Posted by RunKC (Post 10475476)
I just found out that she used me since the dbag was a dd and not drunk. She wanted to make him jealous by using me. I text her last night asking about it and no response. Christ I feel like shit.

I'm going to cut off communication w this bitch and avoid her at all cost. This has been going on since September. I'm burned out.

Update. Over a month later of me not contacting her or talking to her and she texts me saying she is so sorry and feels awful. She begged us to be friends on Monday and I said "sure".

So she texts me today saying "hey how are you? We should hangout! :)".









5 mins later I found out she got mad at that dbag and wants to use me. Christ man. Are there still decent women left in the world?

ThaVirus 04-16-2014 01:33 PM

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Originally Posted by mac459 (Post 10566598)
I can understand..by me saying I'm going this weekend I assumed from the years of knowing her and our friendship that she would ask me who I was going with or if I was picking her up at her place or something along those lines..which is why I asked where the whore comment come from cause that isn't her style really so I was curious..maybe I should of just asked her to go..but damn the reaction I got is unstable..daddy didn't hang my painting on the fridge as a kid so you must love me now..type of unstable

Yeah, this is probably an issue here.

You can really throw a lot of that out the window now. You've known her for all these years as a friend. Now she's viewing you as a potential mate which changes everything completely.


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