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Update. Over a month later of me not contacting her or talking to her and she texts me saying she is so sorry and feels awful. She begged us to be friends on Monday and I said "sure".

So she texts me today saying "hey how are you? We should hangout! :)".

5 mins later I found out she got mad at that dbag and wants to use me. Christ man. Are there still decent women left in the world?

Yes but they have better ways of communicating than by text message.

Perineum Ripper

04-16-2014 01:37 PM

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Says it all

ThaVirus

04-16-2014 01:39 PM

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Originally Posted by luv (Post 10566599)

Honestly, I would have too, but I still would have jokingly asked when he was picking me up. If he was going with someone else, then he would probably say so, and then I'd know to drop it.

That's me now. The old me would have have just assumed he was either going with someone else or just didn't want to take me. I would have then assumed he was simply talking to me to be nice, but didn't want to go out. I would have stopped talking to him while fretting over it. While I was a different type of crazy, I was still crazy...lol. Amazing what six months and a little self-confidence will do for you. :)

Like SkyNet you've become self aware.

We're all a bit "crazy" in our own way. I'm sure I've missed out on more than a few good girls by not being aggressive enough for fear that I was being too aggressive or feeling like I was putting more effort into it than she was.. Or things like that. People over think things sometimes.

Like I said, it's important to be yourself. If you want to talk to someone, you should make an effort to do so as often as you want (while respecting boundaries, of course). If you're feeling a certain way, you should go about discussing it (while respecting boundaries, of course).

Life is too short to try and do or be anything that doesn't make you happy.

ThaVirus

04-16-2014 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by mac459 (Post 10566275)

OK so I'm getting a divorce and just getting back on the dating scene..A girl who I have known all my life and was good friends with took me out and we had a great night and have hung out every night since then..about a week..except last night..she texts me and the following was our conversation

Her- I am wanting Olive Garden

Me- I'm going to get Olive Garden this weekend

Her- have fun with whatever nasty whore you are taking

Me- where did that come from

Her- what

Me- where did the whore comment come from

Her- well you won't have the kids and I'm not going so I'm sure you will call some whore but don't worry I won't throw stuff in your face like you

Me- um what in the **** are you talking about

Her- you are an asshole

Me- well better to be an asshole than crazy..sooooo yeah..If you would leave me alone that would be great

What's lost in all the crazy is that she threw some fabricated idea in your face and made it a huge issue.. Only to turn around a minute later and tell you she wouldn't throw it in your face like you do LMAO

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The Franchise

04-16-2014 01:46 PM

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Originally Posted by ThaVirus (Post 10566683)

That's definitely a woman.

Pasta Little Brioni

04-16-2014 02:51 PM

Wanting Olive Garden would be the deal breaker here.

Hammock Parties

04-16-2014 02:59 PM

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Originally Posted by PGM (Post 10566855)

Wanting Olive Garden would be the deal breaker here.

Like, I'd go for lunch if I just wanted soup and salad.

But dinner? No ****ing way.

Pasta Little Brioni

04-16-2014 03:03 PM

Like if she sees you talking to another woman...Fatal Attraction

The Franchise

04-16-2014 03:16 PM

What will be funny is if he still goes to Olive Garden....and she just so happens to be there.

keg in kc

04-16-2014 04:31 PM

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Originally Posted by mac459 (Post 10566313)

I don't know how it could be a miscommunication..she text me about olive garden and I said I was going to get olive garden this weekend..then it was I was going with some whore..I don't know how going to a restaurant means I'm going with some whore

Oh, no, I didn't mean it that way, I meant it might have been related to something else, maybe another text or another conversation. She sort of just pounced on you, and my interpretation of what she said was that something else set her off, something maybe not a part of the conversation that we saw. The inference being that she might've been holding onto something you said earlier that you don't even remember saying, or interpreted something you said in a way other than how you meant it.

Situation like that is hard to deal with over text, when you can't gauge reactions face-to-face...

Titty Meat

04-16-2014 05:12 PM

Kcgal you said youve been with him for a week and like him did you smash or nah?

KCGal

04-16-2014 07:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Chocolate Hog (Post 10567148)

Kcgal you said youve been with him for a week and like him did you smash or nah?

We've been together since October.

Dayze

04-16-2014 07:42 PM

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Originally Posted by mac459 (Post 10566656)

Says it all

LMAO
awesome

GordonGekko

04-16-2014 08:32 PM

I just want to test something I've been thinking about and doing lately when I am texting people/women. I've been using exclamation points more lately, and I feel like I'm getting better and more positive responses from people when doing this. I'm not overdoing it, but I'm throwing them in when I can, and I think it makes you come across more excited/acknowledging when your text comes through to them and this might get them more interested and less bored with you.

I don't know just a thought, but maybe some of you guys stuck in the texty phase of a new relationship can try this and let me know what you think?

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