The herp is everywhere. Nice girls have it too. It's not fair to label them like it's aids. I'd have missed out on a lot of nice ass if I ignored them. Of course that option may not apply to you :)
Seriously though dude, expand your horizons on this one...

Nope. I don't even like casual sex anymore. Been there, done that. Over it.

I just dropped my drink...

You know how I know you're gay?

You're older, so these things happen.

You got the herp, vail? Not judging, just curious.

Fair question, should have stated it earlier.
No, I am std free 47 years and counting. Now that I'm not married I'm an admitted hound like I was before but keep it safe.
From just my experience there are plenty of girls herped up because they are **** holes that bare back whenever. But there are just as many nice ones who got it from a guy they trusted that did them wrong. Why exclude them from the fine pool?
Herps is all but socially accepted if you play it right.

It was a metaphor for "damn I'm glad I'm not you".
J/K kid, to each his own.

I really want to be mature about this subject. But that's pretty disgusting. Sweet and all, but yuck.


http://www.positivesingles.com/

Good vailpass: that seems socially responsible and emotionally helpful
Real vailpass: lepercolony.com is not attractive

Yeah I'm not trying to judge you or anything, man. Different strokes.

And on the other end of the spectrum

http://media.treehugger.com/assets/i...crop-scale.jpg

Indeed dude, make your own way like the rest of us do...

Yeah lol

I wouldn't even know how to live with herpes. I agree that, at the end of the day, it's just more of a nuisance than anything else but the stigma of having it is still there. I'd imagine most people would run for the hills as soon as you told them you had it..

Which makes me wonder: how does one go about dating while knowing they are infected? Do you tell everyone that you feel a connection with immediately? Do you give yourself a set time limit, like, maybe a month in? Or do you wait only until you feel that your relationship is serious enough and sex is imminent?