People like gochiefs need to worry about attachment issues. Losing your V card at 15-16 is healthy for your development, losing it past the age of 21 will probably cause you to get attached to the person you finally have sex with (unless it's with a hooker and void of any emotional involvement). I have no doubt in my mind these kids were not damaged in any way by this.

People also need to stop bringing up the argument of young girls with older dudes. It doesn't apply at all since males and females are fundamentally different when it comes to the brain wiring.

So I guess my question is (and this may only go for parents), how would you feel if somebody your age had sex with your child?

If it's my son, I wouldn't mind. If it's my daughter, I'm hiring someone to break his knees and make sure he never walks again.

I agree with you up to a point, although, on the other hand, I'm not sure that "attachment" (aka "meaningful sex") is necessarily a bad thing. As long as you attach first, and then have sex. The problem is when the sex comes early and the attachment grows out of it. And if you go too far the other way, sex becomes an animal act devoid of intimacy.

Not really an easy answer here.

Sex should never be the basis for a long term relationship, IMO. It always gets old and stale after a while anyway. A 25 year old that gets his cherry popped at that age might get unhealthily attached to the person and be damaged for a long time if that relationship doesn't work out. In the end, though, it all depends on the person, I guess, these are just the trends that I've read about.

I agree that it should never be 'the' basis, but I think it needs to be an important part of a healthy, long-term relationship. I believe the intimacy, the closeness, is that important. What I was saying at the end of the last post is that I think it's hard to feel that intimacy if the emotion is distilled out of the act, if for an individual's life it never becomes anything more than scoring. I think at some point, you have to grow out of that or you can't ever enjoy real intimacy. And I think that's where the "old, sterile" sex shows up.

FYI, I was somebody who did wait until his 20s, and I agree with you. I'm just pointing out the other end of the spectrum.

Actually if it's my daughter they will be aiming a little higher than the knees, and making sure he never f's again!!!!

she aint too bad looking $$

I see, I see. Yeah, what he said. I've still to make love to a woman, I guess. That must be the greatest feeling on earth that everybody talks about. I can only imagine the eruption of emotion mixed with physical pleasure... I really hope I get to experience it some day.

Just think GoChiefs - this kind of shit goes on every day, do a search on bestiality and there's horses getting more pussy than you.

Time to reevaluate things? Maybe? Hmmm?

ROFL

Classic

Now that I think of it, my 76y/o mom got remarried in December.... I know she's getting more than GoChiefs ROFL

LOL @ "alleged victims".

Teenage girls always believe that older women have unlocked all the magic secrets to sexuality and femininity.

Teenage girls will love a guy that could **** a woman.

Are you suggesting I start ****ing animals? Because I scared the shit out of some geese and ducks today.

Well, you're a little old for her, but you've got the living at home thing going for you....Maybe she'd make due with you until the heat gets off of her back for a while.

The star wars dolls will probably seal the deal if you can get her to chat.